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I'm not a good girl
Ok ima 14 year old girl gone semi wrong. I haven't killed anyone or robbed a fricken bank at gun point, but iv befriended a 33 year old pedifile (dudes that rape kids), a rapest, and have gone onto sites I sooooooo shouldn't have been on!!! Iv got these voices in my head telling me to kill myself and in all honesty I hate my family, or at least a good portion of them. I'm planning on getting a dragon tatoo on my neck and acquire a taste for strong liquor. All im asking is how the hell am I supposed to get my act together? My grades have plummeted and so has everything else and informing out like my uncle and my dad that left befor i was born. Can anyone tell me how to straighten out???? Ppplllzzzz???
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Well. That's either a lot of bull thrown together to screw with people or true. I won't be the judge of which so I'll assume true. My greatest advice with the situation at hand, first you need to lose the pedo friend. Obviously that's the same answer anyone's gonna give you. Although most will tell you to report him. I realize that he has rationed with you that what he has done is okay and fine. So you won't report him. But at least lose him as a friend. If only for your own safety. And for all the rest, Just calm down. Life is a long ride. Not nearly long enough for most people's tastes, but it's quite a while at your age. You have plenty of chances to get it right. Go out and have fun like any other 14 year-old and enjoy life. Yeah, there's hard times and rough patches where we hate it, especially at your age, but that's just how it is. Keep in mind there are a lot of other young women going through the same trials and tribulations you are at your age at this very time. Everything will be alright.
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omg girl. DO NOT TALK TO PEDOS. THEYRE NEVER HOT AND SOOO FUCKING CREEPY. stop drinking. honestly. just stop. eat ice cream instead. and just do homework. make a friend your own age? voices are probably just guilt from doing stuff like that. be happy, and theyll leave you alone.
ps. many jobs dont hire people with visible tattoos. Either nix it,or pick another spot.
Good luck!
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If your hearing voices in your head telling you to kill yourself these have to be dealt with first. IF your parents won't help you or if you haven't or can't speak to them about this. Then pick up the phone and call 911 or the emergency number for where you live.
By calling 911 the proper help will be sent to you and you will be transported to the proper doctor to treat you. Once you deal with the voices in your head the other things you speak of can be dealt with.
You are not a bad girl, you are a troubled girl; there is a difference. Your trouble is that you are not feeling well at the moment. You realize this which is the biggest step. Now take the next step and call for help.
You'll have to trust me for now for what I'm going to say. Once you get those voices out of your head everything else in your life will come back on track.
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Its best you go to counceling it really helps... this is not a good thing... you are not a bad person you are just doing bad things you know the difference between right and wrong its just at the time you end up doing what is more fun... before you end up getting badly hurt, raped, or killed you need to stop this and as for the voices that is a mental problem huni you need to go to an adult and tell them what is going on and get some concelling good luck sweets and best wishes to you
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Ideally, you need someone to counsel and mentor you on an ongoing basis, because this isn't likely to be a quick fix. You have already realized that your life is spinning off in a direction that will end badly and want to get back on track, that's a good start. Getting your act together involves making healthy decisions that will lead to the goals you have in life. That means avoiding all contact with pedophiles and other sexual predators. It means paying attention in school. It means avoiding alcohol and other drugs. It means not listening to voices in your head telling you to do destructive things. These are the kinds of things that are going to steer you in the direction of a successful and fulfilling life.
It is difficult to do this alone, so I would suggest that you find a mature adult (preferably a woman)who is navigating life well to support and mentor you. Some possibilities include a teacher, school counselor, maybe someone from church, a friend's mother. It would also be helpful to speak to a mental health professional (counselor or therapist)if that is possible. If you don't know of anyone who can be a support person, try calling your local social services agency or a mental health clinic and tell them your situation. They should be able to help you find someone.
I don't know all of your history, but you obviously have a lot going on in your life right now. Associating with sexual predators, drinking alcohol, neglecting school, and surfing inappropriate websites are all negative influences. They are working against you, holding you back from your goals and dreams. You need to fill your life full of positive influences. Read good books, get educated, develop friendships with healthy people, get some therapy, engage in hobbies and activities which build you up, do some volunteer work helping other people. These things will make you strong; they will develop competence and confidence; they will connect you with people and resources that will help you to achieve success and joy.
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