Member Since: July 5, 2011
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Last Update: July 5, 2011
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Ok ima 14 year old girl gone semi wrong. I haven't killed anyone or robbed a fricken bank at gun point, but iv befriended a 33 year old pedifile (dudes that rape kids), a rapest, and have gone onto sites I sooooooo shouldn't have been on!!! Iv got these voices in my head telling me to kill myself and in all honesty I hate my family, or at least a good portion of them. I'm planning on getting a dragon tatoo on my neck and acquire a taste for strong liquor. All im asking is how the hell am I supposed to get my act together? My grades have plummeted and so has everything else and informing out like my uncle and my dad that left befor i was born. Can anyone tell me how to straighten out???? Ppplllzzzz??? (link)
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omg girl. DO NOT TALK TO PEDOS. THEYRE NEVER HOT AND SOOO FUCKING CREEPY. stop drinking. honestly. just stop. eat ice cream instead. and just do homework. make a friend your own age? voices are probably just guilt from doing stuff like that. be happy, and theyll leave you alone.
ps. many jobs dont hire people with visible tattoos. Either nix it,or pick another spot.
Good luck!
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Ok I'm 14 and I wanna masturbate but im not sure how to. Iv never done anything sexual before so I'm so totally lost on the subject. I know I sound so held in and stupid but I just wanna know. So don't judge me and just anser my fricken question how can I masturbate? Like I said iv never done anything like this so I need SPECIFICS!!!!!!!! (link)
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lolololol. start tapping your clit. use middle finger or something else. its easy!
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I love a guy, but it is an impossible relationship. He lives in a different state, our families are friends, as are we, but they don't want us to be more, he is too old for me (he will be at college soon, and I will be starting high school), and I only see him in the summer, and only for a few days. (I do talk to him and text, etc.)
I don't think he loves me, but I know he likes me, and I have had the time of my life with him, and I can't stop thinking about him. We are great friends, but we both feel like we are something else, too. Is there any way this can work? Do you have any optimistic thoughts? Should I hope, or should I resolve to be friends and leave it alone? (link)
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I've had a similar situation. I would say leave it alone, only because I dont want you to get hurt. freshmen year changed a lot for me, and hes off to college and will be gone. a goodbye kiss? nnow thats fine. but if your family friends, youll be seeing him in the future. make sure you dont leave things on a bad note. sorry this is not helpful lol.
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My home life isn't as bad as most, ya, I'm fed, clothed, loved, but here's the thing. My mom is kinda bipolar so she gets mad and kinda violent sometimes. Not like she's gonna hurt me but she may throw things and break down and cry. My step dad is always asleep science he works at night and sometimes does double shifts. I dont feel like his family and I kinda don't want to be. My half sisters hate me but there easily delt with by tv or candy. So my question is why am I so bad? I hang out with not so god people, lie, sneak, do things I shouldn't, and write horrific things both sexual and non. Is it genetic? My bio dad was a reckless guy who delt drugs and drunk so could it be a mix of my moms bipolar and my bio dads bad personality or WHAT???????? (link)
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I feel as if you think kyou know more than your mom does. that's not a bad thing, you very well might. drugs and other stuff is just an escape from having to deal w school/work/home life. the kids youre with probably just seem carefree. my only advice would be to have one friend whose straight edge (no drugs or alc.) that way, if you do need a break from everything, you could hang with them for a day. Or do something you like by yourself. You'd be suprised what some alone time can do for people. I hope it gets better. Its not genetic, its perspective. you just view things differently than others.
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My best friend, has another group of friends she hangs out with, without me, which is FINE. But, what I don't like, is if one of them is like alone/not doing anything, she will be like "can so and so join us" and i want to be like no. she can't. you don't include me, why should i be nice enough to include her?
what do you think? should i say something? pretty soon she'll be going to college at the end of summer. but its just irriatating, and all my other friends HATE her. (link)
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that is annoying. If you dont want the other girl to join i'd at first say stuff like "ohh i thought itd just be you and me, or these people." if she persists, the eyeroll at the girls name always works well.
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so today there was some fourth of july events and i was expecting to see my two best friends there (lets call them sue and sally) i saw sue with this other girl who i know and i walk over and im like heey! and she keeps walking looks at me for 1 second says hey then says to the other girl "oh there they are!" and just leaves me.. then later i see sue and sally together and i walk over again and im like heey sup? and they say hey we're leaving and i make a joke awkwardly and they just leave. now sue had texted me yesterday asking me to hang out.. and i havent saw sally in forever so i wanted to hang out with both of them. So now like 6 hours later i see on facebook they're with sally's sister, another girl, and MY good friend who sue said she hates and sally's sister said she hates. So yeah. AND i asked sue earlier today on email what was going on and i know shes online but she never replied.. ;\ and just like friday we were all hanging out and having fun so i dunno why they're ditching me.. (link)
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That sounds bitchy. Honestly, id just ignore them. if theyre mad at you for some bizarre reason, theyll come upto you within a week and be like WHY HAVNT WE HUNGOUT I MISS YOU. theyre probably hanging w these other girls to seem cool. then theyll remember why they never hungout w them in the first place
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I just had my first period yesterday. I managed to tell my mom, and she handled it pretty well and gave me some pads. I hated sitting in my own blood and feeling like I peed my pants, so I took a few of my older sister's tampons. I put them in on my own and I literally danced around with joy when I realized I could survive my period and not have to give up swimming for a week. I also took a few of my sister's pads, but I obviously need to go to the store to get some more. How can I ask my mom to take me, AND tell her that I experimented with tampons? Things have been very awkward between us lately, and I can't even look her in the eye. Whenever we're alone, I'm always scared she's going to say something about it, and she usually does. What can I do? (link)
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Be like mom, i need tampons i dont like bulgy pads. She'll get it, everyone does. and if she asks if you've used them, just say yeah i tried one and liked it better. then she probably wont pester you about it
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I am actually 13 but I started wearing a G-String(thong) when I was 10. Is that to young? People say that they are uncomfortable but I think they feel way better than normle underwear!
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you can get butt acne if you wear them too much from irriation so be careful. I totes agree though, theyre hot and comfy.
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Some people have said that liquid leggings are trashy. I think they are cute. Is it ok for a 17 year old to wear them? Do you think they are trashy? How do you feel about liquid leggings?
Heres a pic of them: http://mediaext.drjays.com/media/304/350/files/3043506.jpg (link)
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17 yes. dont make it look too ghetto.
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What can i take to delay my period? (link)
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Well if you get your period you can just *finger yourself in the shower. Not like sexually, but just to get all the gross skin and blood out. then it only lasts for 2 days. Sorry I couldnt be more helpful :/
Also, plan B begins your period. its expensive though and i do not recommend using it on a regular basis because it messes with your hormones.
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i hung out with my boyfriend last night. he introduced me to some of his cousins and by the end of the night me, my best friend, boyfriend, and his cousin ended up going to the park. i didn't have any pockets so i asked my boyfriend to hold my phone. a few hours into the night i had asked him what time it was so he pulled out my phone and he was joking with his cousin saying how i have pictures i don't want him to see since my pictures are locked. well i said if i had something to hide, my messages would be locked so i told him to go to my messages just because i didn't want him to think i'm doing anything behind his back. well i kind of keep in touch with one of my ex boyfriends from three years ago and he randomly texted me the other day. well my boyfriend was only looking in the inbox so this is how he read it:
ex: hey :)
ex: that makes both of us now haha
ex: so did i haha. where are you??
ex: F*ck me right? haha. what you do today?
ex: your bf??
ex: yea
Now, this is the WHOLE conversation:
ex: hey :)
me: hey. you hella didn't answer my call the other day haha. what are you doing?
*the other day he had called me to tell me he had something important to tell me about my old friend but i was busy so i called him back but he didn't answer*
*he calls me; i reject it*
ex: that makes both of us now haha
me: thats no fair i have a reason haha
ex: so did i haha. where are you??
me: sure haha. in my little sister's room
ex: F*ck me right? haha. what you do today?
me: haha spent the night with my best friend and boyfriend. we were driving around, came home went swimming. what about you?
ex: your bf??
me: boyfriend? haha. are you still talking to that one girl?
ex: yea
and that was it. i tried to get my boyfriend to read the sent messages but he just gave me my phone back and his cousin was telling me how i messed up. which i don't understand. i got really irritated to i asked my best friend if we could leave. we walked outside, i called my boyfriend to ask if he needed a ride home, he said he was going to spend the night down his cousins house, i said okay and he hung up. I'm so lost. i don't know what to do. any advice/opinions? should i give him space? i have all the messages still saved but he said he doesn't want to see them. (link)
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That situation sounds annoying. I think you made it worse though by leaving, it makes you seem guilty. If the cousin said "you fucked up," then you just shoulda said why. And your bf is stupid for not reading the sent box. honestly id just be like way to trust me when you talk tomorrow. itll blow over.
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