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Ditched by friends..
so today there was some fourth of july events and i was expecting to see my two best friends there (lets call them sue and sally) i saw sue with this other girl who i know and i walk over and im like heey! and she keeps walking looks at me for 1 second says hey then says to the other girl "oh there they are!" and just leaves me.. then later i see sue and sally together and i walk over again and im like heey sup? and they say hey we're leaving and i make a joke awkwardly and they just leave. now sue had texted me yesterday asking me to hang out.. and i havent saw sally in forever so i wanted to hang out with both of them. So now like 6 hours later i see on facebook they're with sally's sister, another girl, and MY good friend who sue said she hates and sally's sister said she hates. So yeah. AND i asked sue earlier today on email what was going on and i know shes online but she never replied.. ;\ and just like friday we were all hanging out and having fun so i dunno why they're ditching me..
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As hard as it is to imagine, friendships come and go. The relationships you had with the girls in question is obviously over. So move on and make new friends. Sometimes people grow apart. Don't take it personally. It happens.
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That sounds bitchy. Honestly, id just ignore them. if theyre mad at you for some bizarre reason, theyll come upto you within a week and be like WHY HAVNT WE HUNGOUT I MISS YOU. theyre probably hanging w these other girls to seem cool. then theyll remember why they never hungout w them in the first place
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let me first start off by saying that I am so sorry that you are having troubles with your friends. It is not right what they are doing to you. I think you need to meet up with them and talk to them. tell them how you are feeling about what they did. And tell them that you are hurt by it. If they keep doing this to you then I think you should go get new friends you deserve to be treated way better than that good luck and best wishes
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You need to talk to them both face to face,. and ask them why they are acting like this,. because friends should never treat you like shit like that. So something is definetly up.
Just talk to them face to face and don't let them tell you that nothing is wrong because something is obviously up.
Hope this helps:)
~Jasmine*
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