I love a guy, but it is an impossible relationship. He lives in a different state, our families are friends, as are we, but they don't want us to be more, he is too old for me (he will be at college soon, and I will be starting high school), and I only see him in the summer, and only for a few days. (I do talk to him and text, etc.)
I don't think he loves me, but I know he likes me, and I have had the time of my life with him, and I can't stop thinking about him. We are great friends, but we both feel like we are something else, too. Is there any way this can work? Do you have any optimistic thoughts? Should I hope, or should I resolve to be friends and leave it alone?
Additional info, added Tuesday July 5 2011, 3:17 am: (I don't know if I could leave it alone. I think about him too much, and I don't think I will every be able to look at him as "just a friend", because he is more.) . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? YoungMommy answered Tuesday July 5 2011, 4:08 am: Right now you are young and most likely your parents dont want you to date him because he is older and he can get in trouble for that... I advise you try to be just friends and not try for anymore wait until you finish high school to see if there could be anything and if you even still want anything by then good luck and I wish you the best [ YoungMommy's advice column | Ask YoungMommy A Question ]
kat15 answered Tuesday July 5 2011, 3:28 am: I've had a similar situation. I would say leave it alone, only because I dont want you to get hurt. freshmen year changed a lot for me, and hes off to college and will be gone. a goodbye kiss? nnow thats fine. but if your family friends, youll be seeing him in the future. make sure you dont leave things on a bad note. sorry this is not helpful lol. [ kat15's advice column | Ask kat15 A Question ]
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