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I like him, but he's 3 years younger than me
21 female. Nick 18
So I have known Nick forever. We just haven't always been close the whole time. Well recently we started hanging out more. But just this last week I was up at my cousins cabin and Nick's family cabin is right down the street (my aunt and uncle are good friends with nicks dad and step mom) and me and Nick were together all the time. He even slept with me every night.
I am starting to fall for him. I know he likes me cause he tells me. He's the sweetest guy and hes not like any other guy. He respects me and treats me like a princess. He doesn't try to hook up with me, he only cuddled with me all night when we slept together. He holds my hand and hugs me tight and reminds me of how beautiful he thinks I am every day.
The only thing that is holding me back from dating him is that he's 3 years younger than me. I just feel so weird and sort of like an idiot for going for a guy 3 yrs younger than me. I'm scared of what people will say or think -even my family. What do you guys think? Should this hold me back from dating him? Does it seem wrong?
Any advice is welcomed!:)
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I personally think you should go out with him.. Like i always hear "Age is nothing but an number" If he makes you feel special and treats you right that all should matters .. And your family and friends should not be mad or any thing about this because like i said all that should matter is that he treats you right and you really like him and stuff . And it should'nt matter what people think it's not like their the one who wants to date him and it's your love life not theirs . (:
P.S. I hope you choose to go out with him he sounds like a really great guy i will be sad for you if you choose not to go with him, not every girl gets a guy like this .. Trust Me ! (: Good Luck !
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no!!! you guys are tottally perfect!!! its nothing age is nothing but a number if u like em go for it! :D
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It seems to me that you already know what you want, you just want someone else to reassure you that you`re making the right decision.
Well, you are. This guy seems great. You both know each other so well, there will be no secrets between you both and you don`t have to worry about impressing him.
I think you`re just stuck on the fact that you`ve probably known him since he was very young and immature. But you`re 21 and he`s 18, there`s nothing wrong with that age difference.
You wouldn`t have to be concerned about trying to impress him, or getting butterflies when you first meet someone new. He knows what you like and you know what he likes.
If I were you, I would do what you think is right, not what others will think is acceptable. Go for it girl, I wish you luck.
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This guy is 18 years old, It is perfectly 100% okay for you to date him. If it were someone under the age of 18, I'd say wait.
You are both legally adults, It is okay.
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