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So confused....
Hello ,
Okay I have a huge problem. I have fallen for this one guy so much , i've never fallen for a guy like this before. So , okay we have known eachother for around about 3 years now and we just met up and we were patient all that time and we finally met up and we had a blast. He was such a gentlemen and everything and we did some phsyical things and he dropped me home and waited for me till I went inside. So , we talked after and he said he had a great time , and so did I. But , the problem is he goes away for a couple months to play sports in the States , and we live a bit apart. Is it worth it?
I really don't want to get hurt , but I have really fallen for him.
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from the way you tell the story, is it alright to assume you guys met up online (since you've known each other for 3 years and only just met up)?
i've always been so cautious about relationships started online because there's so much you can hide. but say, if you guys have been online the whole time, im sure it wont change the dynamic that much with a long distance relationship (LDR).
if you really like him, and him you, then yes, you should try to be with him. if the LDR works, then hurray! if it doesnt, then what can you do, you tried your best.
never leave a space in your life for regrets :)
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Okay the long distance thing might work and it might not. but the best thing you could do is try it out for all you know you might have found your soul mate. love ALWAYS works the way its supposed to. I might not of helped the way i planed to but i hope i helped:]
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If you both are very interested in each other, you can try to make it work long distance. There's the phone, the internet, maybe surprise visits? My motto is that it will always work out exactly how it should in the end. Just the waiting to see if it is meant to be sucks. I'd say, go for it. Its always worth the try, and you'd be more heartbroken if you had never tried than if you try and it doesn't work.
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