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how do u find your correct bra size?? I went to Victoria secret a few yeas ago and got measured for a bra. The lady that measured me told me I was a 42 DD. But I think my bra is a little too big. When I get a 38 D or 38 DD its too small I think. I don't know, But my chest is kinda big and I don't know how to get my correct bra size. I don't want to go somewhere, get measured and have a too big or too small bra. It doesn't look right when I wear the bra size that the lady at victoria secret gave me. Then when I buy bras smaller than that my mom says they are too little. When I get a bra that I think fits, my mom tells me that I should get other bras in that size but the other bras don't feel right and sometimes when I buy bras the straps never stay where I adjust them and I have to put a pin in the straps to keep them from coming down. Yesterday someone told me they didnt know if I was wearing a bra, I was weraing a bra, but its too big I think. Can someone tell me an accurate way of finding my bra size? (link)
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I was measured at VS before and they also measured too big. What you should do is go there and try on a bunch of different styles in different sizes, thats what I finally did until I found a style and size that feels comfortable and has the correct support. Not all bras are created equal. And you can be one size in one style of bra, but a different size in another. So I really reccommend just going to VS and trying on as many as possible until you find one that fits just right. There's different ammount of support and padding in each style, and that is just as important as the size. You need to find a style that fits your shape, and the size in that style that is most comfortable. Not constricting, but most definitely not loose.
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is this tanning lotion:
http://ecx.images-amazon.com/images/I/41qK1sLnSFL._SL500_AA280_PIbundle-3,TopRight,0,0_AA280_SH20_.jpg
the same as this tanning lotion:
http://www.ulta.com/images/products/detail/2211898.jpg
i know it's from the same company, and says new look, but i feel like the newer one in the bronze bottle turned me a little orange. is that possible for outside tanning lotion? (link)
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Essentially, yes. Same brand, both mild sunscreen, both have added oils to help the tanning process. I've used them before. If you use them, be careful - you can still burn.
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Due to outsoursing, a friend was let go, after 12 years of service, in March 2010. She was asked to stay an additional 3 months - June 2010, but declined. She received her severance package. Recently, she found out, that 2 temp were still there and performing her duties, which were not outsourced. Was she let go unfairly and what can or should she do? (link)
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Unfair to her, yes. Good for the company, yes. Its better to have multiple part time temporary people doing one job than to have one solid person that you would have to give benefits to. Its cheaper for the company, but I find it stupid and quite unfair.
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Hey, I'm a little confused about this... It's never happened before. The past few days when I'm laying down, or about to(like in the process of laying down, around the halfway point) I've been getting this weird falling sensation. It's actually kind of extreme, and feels like I'm falling a long distance at maximum velocity.
What could this be? Could it just be because I've been exhausted? Thanks. (link)
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I feel a little like that when I'm really dehydrated. Get some water/gatorade in your system and if you aren't starting to feel better maybe ask a doctor? It could partly be exhaustion, but I'd lean towards dehydration, just from my experience.
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I want to buy some thongs with my boyfriend's name on them and maybe a heart or something. It would be super cool if I could even design my own underwear for such things. Does anybody know of a store or a website that will let me do this without ripping me off? (link)
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I've used this website to make shirts before. I just checked and they have an underwear section.
http://www.customizedgirl.com/category/all.htm
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I was swimming today and my nipples kept getting really hard when I got out of the water. My crush was at the pool too and I didn't want him to notice because I think it's embarrassing and might give him the wrong impression about me. How can I hide hard nipple when wearing swimwear or bathing suits so I feel more comfortable about myself? I was thinking maybe some sort of tape but I'm not sure if that might work when hiding them when I am in the pool water. Thanks everybody! (link)
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Buy a swimsuit with a padded liner in the bra part - thats exactly what the padding is for, to hide your nipples when they get hard after gettting out of the water (that and a little support). Otherwise, I don't have any solution.
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Is it bad or umhealthy to wear your bra in bed? Is it a bad habit to get into, or is it okay? (link)
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I've always heard the saying "wear a bra to bed and the girls won't sag when you're old" Its probably a myth, but I wear mine most of the time. I like the support, its more comfortable for me. But like others have said, bras might be too tight when you're sleeping, so losen it.
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Alright, I am having my Sweet Sixteen next month. I am not the kind of person that goes to parties a lot nor has them, haha, I'm in the marching band.. yea.. geek. So this is why I am stressing, I want my party to be spectacular. I am planning to put a chocolate fountain on the table with the food and the blender to make smoothies and virgin pina coladas. I also want to have a paint fight. I will tell everyone to bring something white, an old shirt or something and we're gonna fill up water balloons with paint and just go wild. If you ever had a paint fight before, PLEASE tell me how it went! I'm also gonna bring out my Ipod and speakers and blare my music. Also, at around 10ish pm we are going to play manhunt.
My question is, would you come to my party, if you know, you were invited? Does it seem fun to you? If it doesn't sound fun to you, what can I do to make it more fun and interesting? Thanks for your input! (link)
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Sounds like a blast!
As far as the paint fight goes.... use something harmless like tempra paint/finger paints, or something like that. Wear goggles! And try not to hit people in the faces - paint tastes bad and isnt good for you, plus getting it in your nose/ears, etc. is just not fun. Funny, but not fun.
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i caught my bf having intimate conversations with a web cam girl. He showed her pictures of himself and our pets. he made a note to remember her birthday and wrote love _____
apparently the web cam went two ways.
i find this really creepy and im having a hard time getting over it and trusting him. we have been together 6 yr and are getting married soon.
my question is is this cheating?
will they do it again?
is this a warning sign of things to come?
personaly i feel like this is more of an emotional cheat, but also its grose... and im no prude. I love him alot but i dont understand why he would do this to me. plus he has been turning me down for sex... so im lost (link)
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If there's any kind of emotional investment or flirting or even chatting extremely often, then I'd consider it cheating. He can't share his heart. If you're getting married, his heart needs to belong to you, not to be shared with another girl, even if its "just chatting and webcam". Talk to him! That can't go on, and you need to have a trusting relationship. Are you having premarital counceling? I bet it could help if you do and bring that sort of thing up.
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I need upbeat songs to dance to that are appropriate for children! No LADY GAGA PLEASE! (link)
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Thriller by Micheal Jackson! Unless you aren't into the whole zombie dancing. But its a classic :) And crowds usually love it.
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Hello i have a 6 months old toy fox terrier shes a female. I received her when she was 3 months old. We've been trying to potty train her and she just cant seem to get it. She's very energetic and playful. The times she does go potty outside we reward her and praise her but shes so hyper all the time i dont think she knows what shes being rewarded for. We try to keep an eye on her to look for the signs of when she needs to go and when we cant we put her in her kennel. She rarely goes to the bathroom in there so we use it to our advantage as soon as we take her out of her kennel we bring her outside to go potty. The only problem is she doesnt understand to go OUTSIDE! We can be outside for like 45min and she wont go but as soon as we come inside she will. Its definitely getting frustrating! Any suggestions or tips?
Thanks (link)
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Clean the house like crazy. Get all the urine/poop smell and evidence totally gone (cleaning by human standards isn't enough, dogs can still smell where they have previously 'marked thier territory', so clean it crazily) When you witness an "accident" yell 'no' or the word you normally use for bad behavior if you don't say 'no' (a lot of people are starting to use the word 'wrong' because of the R constanant making it sound more like a bark, but personally, I stick with 'no') And as you say no, take her outside immediately and tell her to "go potty" and if she goes, reward her with "good potty" and pet her/play. Be sure to use the going to the bathroom command often, when you command her to go potty, when rewarding her for going potty, and even ask her if she needs to go potty just prior to letting her outside. Repeat the word in training as much as possible until she understands it as a command just like "sit" or "stay" or "down". I had a dog with the same problem, and she didn't get over it until she was about 9 months. It takes some dogs longer, especially hyper ones whose attention spans are shorter and want to focus on play. She'll get there.
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Hello ,
Okay I have a huge problem. I have fallen for this one guy so much , i've never fallen for a guy like this before. So , okay we have known eachother for around about 3 years now and we just met up and we were patient all that time and we finally met up and we had a blast. He was such a gentlemen and everything and we did some phsyical things and he dropped me home and waited for me till I went inside. So , we talked after and he said he had a great time , and so did I. But , the problem is he goes away for a couple months to play sports in the States , and we live a bit apart. Is it worth it?
I really don't want to get hurt , but I have really fallen for him. (link)
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If you both are very interested in each other, you can try to make it work long distance. There's the phone, the internet, maybe surprise visits? My motto is that it will always work out exactly how it should in the end. Just the waiting to see if it is meant to be sucks. I'd say, go for it. Its always worth the try, and you'd be more heartbroken if you had never tried than if you try and it doesn't work.
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My hotmail account was hacked but I want to be able to access it again to regain my personal contact list. Is there a way to do so? (link)
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I've never had to access a hacked account before, but I'm pretty sure the instructions on how to get that fixed are on the security help page from Windows Live. Here's the link:
http://windowslivehelp.com/solutions.aspx?categoryid=d48f9d16-5f7a-49bb-b235-99d827bc7649
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Hello ,
Okay I want to apply to Ottawa or Toronto University , but all my course are University level courses. I want to change my math to college because i really don't want my average going down , and I want to switch out of Biology to some other University level course , if I do this , do I still have a great chance to get into University? And while i'd be in University I would only being taken arts and english courses , nothing to do with math or science. Can this work? Please help.
Thank you ,
Betty. (link)
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Every school is different, so you can get the best answers from the admissions counselors at the Universities. I go to school in the States, so I really don't have any advice or knowledge beyond knowing that admissions counselors are always helpful and have the answers.
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I want to get the industrial piercing. I only have room for it on my left ear (too many earrings on the right). However, I alraedy had the industrial done on the left ear last September and had to take it out about a month after because it got infected.
So, is it safe? It healed but there's a scar from the old earring. Is it good to pierce over scar tissue? Any risks? (link)
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Some Piercers won't repierce over scar tissue, some will. There really aren't any risks other than worsening the scaring if repiercing on the same spot. Be sure to keep it very clean this time around. Make sure to clean the industrial prior to putting it in. And use H2O Ocean spray, or something similar, every day for about three weeks. Always clean your jewelry prior to putting it in the first time. (I sell body jewelry at my store, so I deal with a lot of peircing questions at work - if you have anything else to ask or want clarification, just ask!)
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Hey! so for mine and my boyfriend's 6 month anniversary, im making him a book of 6 things i love about him, 6 songs that remind me of him, my 6 favorite movies i have seen with him, and 6 of my favorite pics of us, things like that. only those are the only ideas i can think of so far =/ i was hoping for 6 and i only have 4. help with two more? (link)
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Six things you always wanted to tell him but didn't and six things you hope for in the future :)
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hey im a flyer in cheerleading and i need ways to stretch everyday to gain flexibility and so i can hit my heel stretches and scorpians and bow & arrows and scale and stuff really easy. i have been a flyer for three years so i know what im doing i just have a hard time to get them all right. what are way to help me like stretches i can do? thanks if your answer is good ill give u a five! :) thankss (link)
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Never do a stationary stretch, like sitting on the floor or leaning/stretching against the wall. Incorporate movement always. Jilian from the Biggest Loser has work out videos and she explains it on those, I have one. If you youtube her you might find something where she demonstrates.
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I am a 14/m and I have been talking to this really hot girl this summer I met at a pool party of my friend's. We talk on the phone a lot. She even texts me. Last night she said she was really horny and we were talking and I got horny too. We thought to maybe have phone sex or something but then she said something I got confused about. She said, "You're making me so wet," and I didn't know what that meant so I asked her and she said her panties. What does that mean though? What comes out of a girl when she gets wet or whatever you call it? It must not be the same stuff that comes out of guys because I KNOW they don't have sperm and cum or whatever. Is it like egg something? What is it? (link)
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Natural lubrication.
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I am 22 and have been having my period since I was 12. I have some really bad cramps tonight. I was thinking of having a few drinks tonight so I'd sleep better and not be waking up with cramps all night long.
I know alchol makes you bleed more though when you have wounds. If I drink tonight will it make my period heavier? Will it make my cramps worse for some reason?
Thanks (link)
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No, it won't make you bleed more. When you have your period, you really aren't bleeding. You're releasing what was stored in your uteran walls, flushing it out. You can't bleed more than what was already stored. However, some people have freak incidences where their hormones don't tell their bodies to stop releasing, so then they are releasing as more blood is filling the walls of the uterus, which is actually more like a bleeding wound. But drinking won't make that happen. But drinking won't stop your cramps either, or help you sleep. Drinking makes you tired, but interrupts your REM cycle, not letting you get quality sleep.
My advice, just take a Tynenol PM and don't go to bed on an empty stomach.
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I have been having my period for like 2 years now and I always use pads. My best friend is really pressuring me to wear tampons so we can go swimming next week but I'm afraid to. I really just don't want to do it. I've read things like it can hurt and I really don't want my vagina parts to hurt because I put a tampon in during my period. Im happy with using pads. Is that normal to be afraid to use tampons? (link)
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Its normal to be afraid. I had had my period for five years before I first used a tampon. Tampons only hurt to put in if you do it wrong or are not relaxed. Read the instructions on the box, and make sure the srting is firmly attached. Don't wear tampons for too long though, because they are really a sort of plug, keeping all the discharge and blood inside of you. So put one in before you go swimming, then take it out when you're done and just wear pads. Swimming is the only time I use tampons. Its practical.
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