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what if my period stopped? (link)
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ok,if your perioud stopped that is normal,for me it stops,and comes back every 4 or 3 months later,but if you had sex multipul times,and did not use protection,then well you should get a pregnentcy test done
gallina
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16/F
So I joined 'twitter' about a year ago. I joined a thing called "Fake Life." Its where you make an account as a "fake celeb" and roleplayed with others. I started to talk to this boy,Forest, and we became best friends then started to date(fake life boyfriend.) Six months later and we are still talking and getting to know eachother in Real Life. I know where he lives, what he looks like, what his family look like, his dogs name, where he goes to school and he knows the same about me. One of his friends who also have a "fake life" account told me Forest loves me. When Forest got on, I confessed that I loved him too and we were happy. But he said we could never date in real life because of the distance.I live in Iowa and hes in California. I was hurt but it was true. But after that he confessed he hated every single boy in Iowa cause they have more of a chance to be with me then him. I told him thats not true. We want to meet in real life so badly but I cant afford a trip. I really want to tell my parents about it cause they could help but they could also get angry and keep us apart. I really want to know how I should tell them.
I know this may seem wrong but I dont care.
Please help me and Im sorry if this is confusing, its just been bugging me.
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YOU should keep talking,like i do i met a guy on myspace,and now we are talking about seeing eachother but he is in florida,,and i am in md,so u should jst keep talking to him,and let him know that you too can work something out!
gallina
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My boyfriend bought a box of condoms that are marked as ultra thin or whatever. I told him I won't use them because I think they probably are more likely to break and I'm not on birth control pills so we don't have a back up protection thing or whatever. He says they aren't more likely to break than like regular condoms and doesn't want to go buy more condoms.
Are these thing condoms more likely to break or not?
Need to know (link)
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Dear Reader,
I say you should wait,no matter how lazy your boyfriend is about getting new ones,you should do it and wait and or go on the pill if you do nto want to concieve.
Gallina
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why would a self described happily married woman,who recently had a child, flirt constantly and tease a single guy that she has known for a long time,,then complain to him constantly about her husband,hint at having sex with him,then refuse? Then,when the guy refuses all contact with her,she wants to pull him back in again? What sort of malady and neurosis is this? (link)
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Dear Reader.
I DO NOT know,but i am thinking that she likes the guy,and then at the same time loves her husband.
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Okay, my boyfriend gets back in 1 month and hes always saying (this was his last email)
"I miss you so much i cant stand it here! their annoying me! i try to talk to you and then ten seconds later their saying 'cmon lets go!'. Im sorry i am not emailing alot but, Its their fault! i cant say no to Mom, you know why. Ugh..Baby wait till i get back, itll be so soon, (DESPITE THE FACT IT FEELS LIKE A FUGGIN DECADE!)
I love you, Ill see you, Bye baby"
Okay so he misses me. I get that. I miss him too!
I need some NEW ideas on what i should do to kiss him next time because, quite honestly i think ive done everything.
I wont have sex with him, unless i marry him, and he knows it. He said he will wait. So dont tell me to have sex with him.
Ive done the whole, Making out on the bed, and the floor, and the tables, and sitting on him and teasing him and shirts Have come off more than once. Skirts have been pulled up and..You see where im going with this? i think you do..
I need an idea! Thank You! (link)
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Dear Reader,
I say well your boyfriend needs to be ablel to wait,and well i think that he needs to understand that your willing to be with him,but if he can't be their to know that your not ready for what he wants,then jump him,and by the way your very special,so do not think twice to let a guy ruin it 4 u!!
Gallina
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Okay. See here's the thing. I used to be such a stubborn independ, strong willed girl. You couldn't tell me to do anything, I was crazy. But when I started dating this boy. I think I let him change me... And I think I know the night it happened. I was hanging out with him one night and we were kissing, normal stuff. But then it started getting kind of hot, like I started to press into him more (we were laying down on the couch, I was on top) then he pulled me down so he was on top and started to press into me even harder, it almost hurt. He stopped for a second because I was hesitating now. I apologized and reminded him this was the first time I've ever been this physical with a guy, cuz he was my first boyfriend. He said it's okay and kept going. He started putting his hand down my pants and I pulled it out. A few minutes later he put it down again and I pulled it out. He put it in a third time and I knew, I knew it was wrong for him to keep doing this but somehow I also thought it was okay... I can't even explain it. It's like I shut down and just let him. I let him finger me. Then he stopped and I didn't even notice it but I had started crying. I don't know why I couldn't tell him to stop... I wasn't scared I was just like lost... completely zoned out. I don't know. He didn't notice I was crying and we kept going. He then proceeded to put my hand in his pants and I pulled it away. He asked me for a handjob and I said no. He told me it was okay. The next time we hung out he pulled down his pants and put my hand... well you know where. I started giving him a hj. I don't know why I couldnt' say no!! I started to cry though and we stopped and he hugged me, I just told him I didn't want to go so fast and he said okay. Except everytime we hung out he continued to finger me. When we hit six months I knew something was wrong. It was like this kid had sucked all of my strength out of me. I wasn't myself anymore. And when he asked for a bj I said no but like usual the things he said to convice me stopped seeming ilke convincing and started making so much sense even though I knew it was wrong. He told me things like "it's been six months, I finger you and it seems like that aspect of our relationship is completely one-sided. you should be comfortable enough to do this for me." and I did it... I was shocked with myself. I couldn't believe I was fourteen and doing this. I started crying after but he held me and told me it was okay and that he loved me and I believed him. He could tell me anything and I'd believe him. I don't know how our relationship got like this. Anyway, he dumped four days later. Its been two months since the break up and I know I'm stronger now. But I'm scared to trust myself with liking a guy again. I HATED how pathetic and used my ex made me feel. I HATED being his little slave. I don't ever want that again... I don't know if I can't trust boys or if I can't trust myself... I don't know what to do. How can I get back who I was?? (link)
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Dear Reader,
You are young,and you were about to experiounce sex,you need to know that YOU are in controll of your own body and if you are forced just tell him to stop!!!!,
YOU are in a state of franting,kind of a bug,it is not ok ,well how old is this guy??? if you are 14,DO NOT HAVE SEX!!!!! DO NOT LET anyone treat you like that!!!!
You are needing to trust again,and that is understandable,and so you do not have to worry,so just when you get your new boyfriend,talk to him,and do not rush in anything!!!
Gallina
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I'm 18 and my bf is 19, we are planning on getting married, is it the right thing to do? (link)
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Dear Reader,
You know wht is right,but in my advice to you is to do not rush into anything,you are young,and if u want to get married sure,but think about what you want to do as an adult,so think what is best for you ,if you love him,then you have your answer!!!
Gallina
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Female/17
My friend and I have been friends for 6 years. The weirdist part was when he hugged me really tight and held my hand in a car ride one day. That day he said he started to like me by text and i said i did to. But I rather be friends for now. The next day, he said it was just a crush and he apologized for what he did. Well now,we're still friends, but he still teases me in a funny nice way. Not only that but he wants my family to respect him and makes sure he's on his proper behavior. Not only that, but he insists on sticking my my side just incase someone tries to hurt me. But i dont know, there is mixed signals is there somthing there that he truly did like me? Or was it just a joke...
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Dear Reader,
The way this sounds is that your friend likes you very much,and does not know how to tell you,and is trying to tell you that you are on his mind all of the time,and so i do think that you should be able to give him a chance.
Any guy who trys to tell you that he wants to see you safe and then wants to make sure that your family sees that he is a good guy ,is telling you that he wants to be more than friends,just tell him how you feel and i am sure taht he will understand.
Gallina
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So I'm italian, and I'm pressured by family/friends/media to have a tan because most italians have tanned skin.
I'm naturally light skinned (not pale) but I do tan easily. The thing is, I'm so tired of tanning..and I don't want to ruin my skin. And I hate fake tanning products! I tried it and it's so annoying having to waste my time reapplying each day. But, I feel like every guy prefers girls to have tanned skin; on TV all you see is tanned skin! I'm fine with my skin color overall. Do guys really care what your skin tone is? Does it matter if your just plain white or tan? (link)
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Dear Reader,
What does it matter what other want you to do??? why are you trying to please everybody else?? DO what you think is right,and not worry about what people say,it is in their opinion!!!
Girls and guys are different,and your great in your own way so do not worry,you are the ONLY one who knows what is good for you NOT everybody else!!!
gallina
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ooook! so if my boyfriend and i havent had sex for a few weeks because i was scared i was pregent, but i had my period yesterday.. is there a chance im pregnant? because ive read that if you have your period then your good but ive also read that some women still had there period even though they were prego?!! (link)
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Dear Reader,
As i understand it you think your pregnent,and i am here to tell you that if your period came yesterday,well you do not have to worry your not pregnent,and so if your period came it is telling you that your safe,and if you want to have a baby,well talk to your husband or boyfriend,and figure something out.
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So about 5 weeks ago i had sex and used a condom. a month later i got my period. now about a week later i have my period again. its at the very begining so i don't know if its spotting or a real period. Is 2 periods a month indication that you're pregnant? i read that some women spot when they are pregnant so my question is can i be pregnant or am i just freeking out for no reason. (link)
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Dear Reader,
You do not have to panic,having 2 periouds is telling you that your body is not having a baby,and your just regulating,and it is not a problem so your in a panic mode for nothing.
GALLINA
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