Why would a woman do this? What manner of insanity?
Question Posted Tuesday August 3 2010, 1:21 pm
why would a self described happily married woman,who recently had a child, flirt constantly and tease a single guy that she has known for a long time,,then complain to him constantly about her husband,hint at having sex with him,then refuse? Then,when the guy refuses all contact with her,she wants to pull him back in again? What sort of malady and neurosis is this?
bigdogdaddy answered Wednesday August 4 2010, 3:22 pm: there are several factors at work here, none good, and none with a positive out come.
The bottom line seems to be a driving need for attention; compliments, lasting glances, etc. she thrives on it. Apparently, if she is married then her marriage is failing; shje has either worn the guy out emotionally, constantly needing reassurance or constantly needing to be told how wonderful she is on a minute to minute basis...or, the spark has fizzled and aside from a child they have nothing in common anymore and she is looking for an outlet...i.e., you.
do not be suckered in by her; you are a link in a long line of chains from her life...her teasing is a way of validating her own self worth by second hand information; i.e. she asks you if she looks hot, or if you want her physically...
if you want it to stop, simply say "I do not see you or want you in that way"...see what happens...you'll either never be bothered by her again or she will respect you as a person but do not hold your breath on that..
RhonaKnows answered Wednesday August 4 2010, 9:29 am: I totally agree with Witty User...........women want attention and will try to get it at all costs!
WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday August 4 2010, 6:59 am: Her husband no longer worships her. He sees her for the normal person she is. She wants to be worshipped and wants flattering attention, so she toys with some guy and tries to pull him in, pretending that she's harmlessly flirting and just wants a friend.
Some women get off on being sexually desired by people they have no intent or desire to actually sleep with. These women suck, and should be avoided. It's a validation complex, nothing more complicated or sinister. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
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