i met this guy a few days ago. we kind of met through a group of friends on a friday night & we where both a bit drunk xD .. soo we started talking and got along really well. eventually he started telling me that he loved me and stuff like that. of course i knew that he only said it cause he was drunk. well we kind of made out a lot after that and he kept telling me that he has feelings for me and that i'm the second girl he ever had feelings for. he was being quite emotional as well like everytime i left to pee i had to promise him that i'll come back and stuff. and he told me over and over that he has feelings for me. the thing is that i kept telling him that i have feelings for someone else which i had back then. he didnt mind too muchthen. but after a while he got sober (i was still a bit drunk) and i was still talking about the guy i liked back then quite a lot. and he kept telling me that he had feelings for me and because he was sober i believed him that time. and he was quiet convincing as well. so he brought me home cause he was scared that i wouldnt make it or something and i remember him always saying ( I'm not (name of guy i fancied) when i hugged him or kissed him. and he kept asking me if im only making fun of him or using him.
then he promised me that he'd phone me the next day and that we'd meet up and stay friends.
the thing is that he never did. and he never told anyone why either. not even his best friend who is also good friends with me. (but the thing that really really confused me is that he texted me asking me if i got home alright cause he couldnt bring me all the way since he would've caught his bus) but after that he never replied or phoned or anything (even though he promised he'd phone me at exactly 1pm)
and i dont really get it. i wrote himn on myspace but he never replied to that either. im pretty sure that he didnt use me because we didnt do anything but kiss. and i dont think that he thinks that i fancy him either cause i kept telling him i fancy someone else so i dont think he's scared of giving me false hope or smth :S
so what do you think is his problem?? cause he was deffinetely not a player. my friend knows him quite well and she also told me that she noticed that he's thinking about it quite alot. but he just wouldnt tell her anything.
i dont get it :S
Additional info, added Tuesday August 3 2010, 2:03 pm: I'm 17 by the way and he is too :). Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Shelly_x answered Wednesday August 4 2010, 9:56 am: Maybe its because you said you fancy somebody else that he thinks he hasnt got a chance with you? Ring him and ask him to meet up or text him and say that you really like him and was just wondering why he never got in touch with you
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