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Friends or Lovers?
Female/17
My friend and I have been friends for 6 years. The weirdist part was when he hugged me really tight and held my hand in a car ride one day. That day he said he started to like me by text and i said i did to. But I rather be friends for now. The next day, he said it was just a crush and he apologized for what he did. Well now,we're still friends, but he still teases me in a funny nice way. Not only that but he wants my family to respect him and makes sure he's on his proper behavior. Not only that, but he insists on sticking my my side just incase someone tries to hurt me. But i dont know, there is mixed signals is there somthing there that he truly did like me? Or was it just a joke...
Please help me.
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Dear Reader,
The way this sounds is that your friend likes you very much,and does not know how to tell you,and is trying to tell you that you are on his mind all of the time,and so i do think that you should be able to give him a chance.
Any guy who trys to tell you that he wants to see you safe and then wants to make sure that your family sees that he is a good guy ,is telling you that he wants to be more than friends,just tell him how you feel and i am sure taht he will understand.
Gallina
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There's mixed signals because he's afraid to put his feelings on the line - he's risking his friendship with you if he does. He definitely loves you. I think you have to ask yourself if you love him, and then you'll have your answer as to what to do...
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I'm a guy and i can guarantee you he doesn't just like you, he loves you. He probably told you it was just a crush because he didn't want to ruin your friendship with him. So he loves you, and ifyou love him you should try to make something of it.
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Aww. This is cute.
He's probably pretty much in love with you. And I think you're probably pretty close to the same with him. And you're both too nervous about messing up the friendship or the ambiguous signals to do anything about it.
If you like him (like it sounds like) you should express it. Consider dropping into the conversation "I liked it when you held my hand the other day, and I didn't like it when you apologized" and giggle at him as his eyes go wide when the meaning hits.
Or smacking him upside the head and kissing him if he doesn't get it/is too nervous to believe it.
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I don't think that it was just a joke.Most of the time when guys do that they are trying to let you see that they like you and are trying to do it as a friend
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It seems to me that this guy really did like you. He might of thought you didn't like him so by saying he didn't like you things aren't awkward. Maybe you should try to talk to him about it.
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