Member Since: July 11, 2010
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My friend and I have been friends for 6 years. The weirdist part was when he hugged me really tight and held my hand in a car ride one day. That day he said he started to like me by text and i said i did to. But I rather be friends for now. The next day, he said it was just a crush and he apologized for what he did. Well now,we're still friends, but he still teases me in a funny nice way. Not only that but he wants my family to respect him and makes sure he's on his proper behavior. Not only that, but he insists on sticking my my side just incase someone tries to hurt me. But i dont know, there is mixed signals is there somthing there that he truly did like me? Or was it just a joke...
Please help me. (link)
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There's mixed signals because he's afraid to put his feelings on the line - he's risking his friendship with you if he does. He definitely loves you. I think you have to ask yourself if you love him, and then you'll have your answer as to what to do...
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Okay.. I used to not believe in love. I loved someone before, and they died in a car accident. I'm 15 years old and a girl.. and there is this guy that I used to abhor. I don't know why, exactly, but we hated each other for the longest time. Well, the other day he told my friend Kim that he was going to be crazy nice to me so I would like him. Kim told him good luck and that it is his death.. since she knows I dislike him and would think he is up too something. I concluded not to long ago that he is a nice enough person and I don't hate him. Last night, I was thinking about it and everything reminds me of him. EVERYTHING. I also came to the conclusion that.. I love him. I've had crushes before and it's nothing like that. It feels like if I don't have him here with me I'm going to explode and every time I see him smile, no matter how sad or angry I am I can't help but smile like a goofy girl. I love him and actually want to spend forever with him. I've never felt like this before and I'm angry. I'm angry that I love HIM. I don't know if he likes me or hates me, but I can't believe this would happen. I'm not exactly sure what I am asking. I just need some kind of advice!!!!!!!!! Help!!!!!! (link)
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Well, I'm thinking a few things. Why did you hate him? It would help you if you had an answer to that question, so give it some thought. Did something happen between you two? Did he just seem standoffish or not nice to you? Was there something about him that unsettled you?
But even if we don't know - hate's not the opposite of love. It's not really that weird for you to have this change in emotions. In fact, it might be what you love is that you don't have to hate him anymore - you feel relief to be rid of the hate, and it's not really about him. But it kind of sounds like there's more than that to it to me?
Ask your friend for more details, if she can help you. Why is he being nice? Because otherwise I think you're stuck until he makes another move. Good luck.
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when it comes to guys im so picky.. they have to be really good looking and have a good personality... how do i stop being so picky and start liking guys for their personality without good appearances?
also, even when i find a great guy that looks good and has a good personality, i like him and once he starts liking me back i stop liking him for no reason... whats wrong with me?? im 18/f (link)
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OK - just a guess, but how many guys have you seriously gone out with? I would guess not many.
You have high standards, and there's nothing wrong with that, but sometimes people are "picky" because they don't really want to be in a relationship, so their mate has to be perfect. And if you do find someone that meets your high standards, and he seems interested, you back aff. Again, one reason for that is you might not really be interested in dating.
If you've dated lots of guys seriously, then I'm obviously wrong. But if you haven't, then ask yourself if you want to be in a relationship. Do your parents and friends have good relationships, or are they iffy ones? Maybe you just don't want the hassle.
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