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too picky!!
when it comes to guys im so picky.. they have to be really good looking and have a good personality... how do i stop being so picky and start liking guys for their personality without good appearances?
also, even when i find a great guy that looks good and has a good personality, i like him and once he starts liking me back i stop liking him for no reason... whats wrong with me?? im 18/f
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OK - just a guess, but how many guys have you seriously gone out with? I would guess not many.
You have high standards, and there's nothing wrong with that, but sometimes people are "picky" because they don't really want to be in a relationship, so their mate has to be perfect. And if you do find someone that meets your high standards, and he seems interested, you back aff. Again, one reason for that is you might not really be interested in dating.
If you've dated lots of guys seriously, then I'm obviously wrong. But if you haven't, then ask yourself if you want to be in a relationship. Do your parents and friends have good relationships, or are they iffy ones? Maybe you just don't want the hassle.
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It normal to feel this way you just want perfection in a guy which isnt possible you just have to convince yourself that not everything you want is going to be in a guy and if you pick at everything your never going to find a guy you want to stop this habit now before it gets out of control and you end up hurting yourself and someone else emotionally just give yourself a wake up call when you start thinking the way you do and just remind yourself to look deeper into a guy and give him a chance before deciding you dont like him.
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