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I fell for the trick.. In love?
Okay.. I used to not believe in love. I loved someone before, and they died in a car accident. I'm 15 years old and a girl.. and there is this guy that I used to abhor. I don't know why, exactly, but we hated each other for the longest time. Well, the other day he told my friend Kim that he was going to be crazy nice to me so I would like him. Kim told him good luck and that it is his death.. since she knows I dislike him and would think he is up too something. I concluded not to long ago that he is a nice enough person and I don't hate him. Last night, I was thinking about it and everything reminds me of him. EVERYTHING. I also came to the conclusion that.. I love him. I've had crushes before and it's nothing like that. It feels like if I don't have him here with me I'm going to explode and every time I see him smile, no matter how sad or angry I am I can't help but smile like a goofy girl. I love him and actually want to spend forever with him. I've never felt like this before and I'm angry. I'm angry that I love HIM. I don't know if he likes me or hates me, but I can't believe this would happen. I'm not exactly sure what I am asking. I just need some kind of advice!!!!!!!!! Help!!!!!!
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Well, I'm thinking a few things. Why did you hate him? It would help you if you had an answer to that question, so give it some thought. Did something happen between you two? Did he just seem standoffish or not nice to you? Was there something about him that unsettled you?
But even if we don't know - hate's not the opposite of love. It's not really that weird for you to have this change in emotions. In fact, it might be what you love is that you don't have to hate him anymore - you feel relief to be rid of the hate, and it's not really about him. But it kind of sounds like there's more than that to it to me?
Ask your friend for more details, if she can help you. Why is he being nice? Because otherwise I think you're stuck until he makes another move. Good luck.
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I'm not sure what you're asking either.
Sounds like you both like each other. What are you waiting for? Go for it.
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Aww. I used to hate my boyfriend, just saying. It's kind of confusing, but sometimes you end up liking the person you hate. What help do you need? All it looks like is, you aren't liking the fact that you love him after hating him.
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