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The best way to kill myself?
for nearly 2years i had been gettin depressed cause of people treating my like shit then i eventually got over it and just managed not to care anymore about anyone apart from my two horses as i just hate people who stab you in the back i am 16 so if i die my horses would have people to look after them no matter what so i can not find any real reason to keep going on like this the depression just keeps coming back i have people i talk to who call me a "friend" but i just find that only ones i care about are my 2 horses i have tryed a couple of times to wrap a cord round my neck but just couldn't bring myself to do it i just feel hate all around me cause people who call me their "freind" will also treat me like shit at the first chance they get and i just want to find a quick and easy way to kill myself can someone plz help me and tell me how?
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I relate to you in a lot of ways. I just want to enjoy life again. The activities I once found enjoyable are dull. I am 13 and feel like I need a therapist. I recommend that you do get a therapist. They will listen to you, you can actually talk and express yourself, and you may enjoy life once again. Also, try to express yourself in other ways. You could try splatter painting just to really let your anger and depression out. You could try meditation. One thing that may help is if you try to look forward to something everyday. Just try to do something new.
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no mather how lost or alone you are tryin to take your own life not t answer. you giving up before you tryed why cant you talk to people you wont let any one close there are some mean people in the world but there are some that ave a hart a gold you say u feel hate around you all t time coz peolpe will treat you like shit that will only happin if you let be strong talk to peolpe get involed in activiteys get out there to meet people to meet a real friend always keep your head up dont ever let any one put u down if they do there not worth your time x
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Well , you should , I mean you can't do that , just because people treat you like crap , you can't do that , what about your family , your friends , your loved ones , you are being not yourself. You can't bring yourself because you don't want to , and don't waste your time on thinking such thoughts. There is no need to kill yourself or do anything to yourself , go see a councellor or someone who deals with that stuff , don't let it ruin you. Also , ignoring them is the best way to go , i'm glad you did that , but if it get's out of hand get help. My advice to you is you shouldn't want to and don't want to plus you got so much to live for , don't let it get to you. Please seek help.
Good luck ! : )
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call this number and talk to someone please its not worth it
suicide hotline 1-800-784-2433
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Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
I know what it's like to feel alone. I'm not going to lie to you.
It sucks.
One day I woke up and decided I wasn't taking it anymore. I adopted a positive outlook on life, and the people around me could sense that. I started taking care of myself and feeling more and more confident, and other people were suddenly drawn to me.
Trust me, you have no idea how powerful the human mind and a positive outlook can go. Try this first, before you try to kill yourself. Give it a while.
If you ever want to vent or just chat, you can email me or ask me any other questions.
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I'm going to tell you what I tell everybody who asks for a quick, easy way to kill themselves.
There isn't one.
I got a little taste of what happens when you try to kill yourself just before Christmas last year. I tried to overdose on antidepressants, because I thought that I would be able to just slip into unconsciousness and leave behind the mess that is my life. Simple enough, right? Wrong.
The physical misery didn't matter to me. It wasn't the hours of throwing up until blood came up, it wasn't the terrifying neurological symptoms that followed, it wasn't the muscle twitches I experienced for weeks. It was the emotional pain of it all that made me determined to never get in a situation like that ever again.
My fiance was there when it happened. He was crying and holding me and telling me not to go. I had to call my parents and tell them what had happened. My father went off into a depressive spiral, started drinking a lot and ended up having to see a psychiatrist and taking antidepressants. My mother cried, and I don't think I've heard her cry since I was about 8 years old. My little sister was told after she wrote her exams, thank goodness, but it messed her up really badly. It hurt everyone around me, and I wasn't even successful. It's not easy, and it's not quick for anyone but you. Your family would be wondering for the rest of their lives what they could have done to save you. Your friends who mistreated you would blame themselves for it. Their lives would change forever. Committing suicide is a hostile act that hurts everyone around you.
If you're depressed, you need to get help. You need to get to a hospital, to a counselor, anywhere where you will be safe from yourself. With counselling and medication, you can get out of this and stay out forever. It takes a lot of work (trust me, I've been there and done that... still doing it, in fact) but it's worth it. If there's one thing I've learned, it's that everyone has a lot to live for. Every tiny thing in life is worth living for. The smell of your favourite flower, a sunny day, your favourite song, puppies! It's all worth it, because you'll never have that again if you're gone.
Backstabbing friends aren't worth killing yourself over. Be your own best friend for a while. Take some time to enjoy your own company. Read a book outside. Go for long walks. Don't depend on others to make you happy. You don't have any time or energy for people like that. Remember that you deserve nothing but the best in friendships, so don't settle!
If you're on the verge, call a suicide hotline or go to the nearest hospital emergency room. Don't let one bad decision end your life.
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I promise you, it is NOT worth it. You're only 16. You have your whole life ahead of you to make things better. If you end it now, there is SO much you'll miss out on. The reason you couldn't bring yourself to carry out killing yourself, is because you know it isn't worth it. Think twice before you try anything again. Maybe you don't think so, but there are people that love you, and by ending things, you're hurting them as well as yourself. I know you probably don't want to hear all of this, but lie i said, please think twice about this because it is not worth it.
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