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Okay, I have sprint and I hate it. I currently have the Exclaim. It's terrible and literally in two pieces right now. So, I am looking for a new phone and I can't decide between the LG Rumor Touch and the Samsung Intercept.

Do both phones have on screen keyboards?
Which is better?
If you have either of these phones can you tell me your opinion and some problems you may be having?

Anything of the sort, I am leaning more toward the Intercept, yes it has a lower rating than the Rumor Touch but many pros and cons are equal for each phone. Thanks for any help! (link)
I have the LG Rumor touch. It has its pros and cons. It has a slide-out key board, but there is also a touch screen key pad that you can use for texting (not a QWERTY one). I've had it for about 3 months, and i have had no problems with it so far. The camera on it is decent. I also hate sprint, but if your stuck with it, i would reccommend the Rumor Touch. Then again, i dont know about the Intercept. Best of luck choosing the right phone! :)


I want to get the LG Rumor Touch from Sprint. I have watched some reviews on it and most of them, the majority of the video was good points to the phone. Some were bad such as the period being in the bottom right corner and the comma being in the bottom left corner. So, my question is, if you have this phone or know someone that does, do you/they like it? If not, what other Sprint phone should I check out? (Not to expensive, I'm buying it with my own money) Thanks! (link)
I have the phone (in purple) and i've had no problems with it. Personally, i don't really like sprint, but the phone is pretty good. ive had it for about 4 months. Good luck :)


im 18 and i always wanted to sleep naked but every time i do i get an erection right when i get into bed naked... how can i stop this? (link)
either 1, sleep with clothes on so it doesn't happen. or 2, Masturbate before you go to bed to "calm" yourself down for when you go to bed. Good luck with that :)


Hi! I need a new song for my figure skating performance. I'm 19 (almost 20) and a girl. I would prefer an upbeat song, with no words, it can be pretty much anything.

Thanks! (link)
Every time we touch - Cascada. It has words tho, but im sure you can find a karaoke version somewhere. The beat is pretty awesome. Good luck with your performancce! :)


18/f

How do I surprise him in bed?
My boyfriend (who's had years of experience) told me he loves what i do...
but I wanna do something different, sexier, but nothing freaky like necrophilia and stuff like that

Normal but sexy tips?
:) Advice from anyone is appreciated... (link)
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/tips/

Have fun ;)


16/f

im curvy (about size 12)
and i want a very cute homecoming dress
im not into very long, or very short
about knees length or a couple inches shorter.
ive been looking online but a lot are 300 dollars
i want to lean away from department stores too since many girls get their dresses there.
can anyone send me links of cute dresses?
i really like pink, blue, black and purple but im not too picky.
thanks. (link)
My sister is also about size 12, and she buys really cute dresses from "Promgirl" and "Sydney's Closet". Here are a few:

http://www.promgirl.com/shop/dresses/viewitem-PD537856

http://www.sydneyscloset.com/asp/product.asp?categoryid=73&catalogid=2337

http://www.torrid.com/torrid/Apparel/Dresses.jsp

have an awesome time at homecoming :)


I just got home from my boyfriend's house, we had sex twice, the first time there was no blood after, the second time after he pulled out there was a few drops of blood, I am about a week away from my period, and I am on BC. What could be the cause of this? Has this happened to anyone else? I am not a virgin, p.s.
16, female. (link)
Bleeding after intercourse for the first time (or even second) is totally normal. Most likely, the first time you had sex, your hymen didn't tear (your cherry didn't pop). The second time, it probably did tear causing a little bleeding. It's normal, no worries :)


I don't know what to do with him! I found out from my bff that my bf made a facebook group thing about our relationshp. I went and red a few things on it and it is personal and nothing anybody should know but us so I told him I knew he had a secret he was keeping from me but not what it was so he would tell me or something but he didn't. i kinda thought that he posted stuff and didn't think it was bad and I wanted to give him chances to say so but he just said he didnt have no secrets so i went back to read the rest and he had made it private only so now it is hidden from me.

I guess what I am asking is if he didn't think this was wrong why did he hide it when i found out? He still denies everything and now i got no proof because i cant see it anymore!!! i have been crying about this and i feel betrayed like he has a secret life on facebook or something! should i stay with him if he isn't going to be honest and still hides things?

Sorry if this is too long! (link)
Honestly, it doesn't seem like you can trust this guy. If he's keeping stuff like this from you, then who knows what else is going on that you don't know about? If he didn't think it was wrong, he wouldn't hide it from you. He's your boyfriend. He should be comfortable with telling you things, and shouldnt hide things from you. You have every right to feel betrayed. What he's doing is wrong. You don't deserve to feel like this. The best thing to do would be talk to him one last time about it, and if he still won't fess up about whats going on, then you should just leave him. It's not worth the stress. Best of luck! :)


where can i buy these shorts? for a cheap price?

http://images.meredith.com/fitness/images/2009/03/ss_NikeShorts.jpg

(link)
You can get them pretty much at any sports apparrel store. Dicks Sporting Goods, Modells, Sports Authority, and even Lady Foot locker has them. Unless you catch a good sale, they're all between $27-$30. I also suggest checking amazon. :)


I am 18 year old boy and there is a girl that I like. I am not going out with her but we work together. but it is  
strange because I like her in a different way. Usually when I (or a boy my age) has a crush or likes a girl, it is usually sexual or based on appearance. With this girl, all I have cared about was her feelings. I realize that that's a good thing, but I don't feel that way about  anybody else, not even other girls I have gone out with.

It feels like i'm in elementary school. I get really nervous around her, and I think about her the same way I used to think about my 1st  grade crush. Nothing innapropriate.
I seem to care about her feelings way too much. Sometimes when she isn't smiling, I would ask if she is alright. I think I ask her that 4 times a week. I'm not saying I'm a  careless person to other people, but when something is bothering her, it also bothers  me. If she looks upset, I will talk to her about it and it concerns me  for the rest of the day while I'm not even with her.

I am not the kind of guy to talk about my feelings, but when I talk to her I seem to let everything out, whether she cares or not. we have had a few conversations with each other and in those conversations, she would tell me about what she hates about herself and I would confort her. I would tell her about my insecurities and she would work with me. (we both seem to have self esteem issues). I feel  nervous with her, but at the same time I feel too comfortable.

By the way, she has a boyfriend, so I'm not planning on making any  moves or anything. We are just friends. (we aren't even very close  friends. Just distant friends). Even if they broke up, she just started college put of state so she is 6 hours away. I'm just not sure why I feel this way about her. It's not like any  crush I've had. By the way I realize that this is probably a normal feeling, but I'm young so it is new for me.
 If you understand what I'm going through, it would be appreciated if  you could explain.

Thank you. (link)
As a 17 year old girl, i can tell you that if any boy thought that way of me, i would be the happiest girl alive. I understand that because you're a guy, its natural for you to have "sexual" feelings toward girls your age, but that you dont have them for her like that just shows that you really care about her. Something about her personality that overcomes the whole "lustful feelings". I wish you the best of luck trying to deal with your feelings. :)


I need a good pair of shoes for my Aerobics class. I know I want Nikes, and I am down between the Nike Airmax or shox.

Any opinions? Which are better? (link)
I've personally owned the Nike Shox. I used them for running shoes, and the bottoms fell apart within a few months. I would suggest trying the Airmax. They're probably going to last you longer. :)


Recently I want to buy a present for my friend,and I found a handbag on coachoutletcom.com .The first black one.but I don't know if she likes.Can anyone give me a suggestion? (link)
Any girl would be more than happy to get such a nice purse from their friend. And judging by the purse that you got her, im sure she'll LOVE it. I know i would. (My birthday is october 1st, if you're interested :P). But really, it's adorable and im sure you have nothing to worry about :)


So if i have sex 4 or fewer days before the 14th day or 4 or more days after the 14th day i wont get pregnant? If i still can, can you please make it less confusing? sorry (link)
No, its the opposite. DON'T have sex 4 days before the 14th day, and don't have sex 4 days AFTER the 14th day. That's not 100% guarunteed, but it'll definitely lower you're chances. :)


If there wuz no way i could get birth control. Besides using a condom, how else could i become safe for sex? (link)
Well you should always always use a condom, whether you're on birth control or not. There aren't many other ways to prevent pregnancy other than those two (besides abstinence). Don't believe the "pull out" method, because pre-cum can contain sperm also, and there is a chance that that could get you pregnant. Something that COULD work is something called the "rhythm method". This is when you find out when you're ovulating, and don't have sex during this time. (Ovulating is when your egg has dropped into your utereus in preparation for pregnancy). If there is no egg, you cannot get pregnant. How do you know when you're ovulating? "lovetoknow.com" says:

Generally, ovulation takes place sometime around day 14 of a woman’s cycle. This estimate is based upon a 28-day cycle. Women with a regular cycle lasting 28 days can count 14 days from the first day of their period and mark the three days before and after as their most fertile days, just in case their ovulation date is a day or two off.

So if you can determine when those days are, mark them on your calendar and do NOT have sex during those days, especially if you're not on the pill (still use a condom though). :)


How can I tell my boyfriend i want to wait for his next birthday to have sex with him. He wants to lose his virginity now, but i want to wait 'till im a little older. How do i tell him without him getting mad or like being o.k. with me wanting to wait? (link)
You should just tell him honestly how you feel. Tell him you do love him, but you just aren't ready yet. If he respects you, he'll be okay with it, and if not, he's probably in the relationship for the wrong reasons. There are also "other" kinds of sex (meaning, oral), if you're interested in that to hold him over until his next birthday. Best of luck! :)


Thank you for all this information. Also, about how much money do you think these pills would be? (link)
You're welcome :). As far as the cost, it varies. I'm not sure what it depends on, but a months worth of pills can range anywhere from $15-$50 a month. I looked it up on the planned parenthood website, and this is the information they provided:

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Birth Control Pills at a Glance

Take a pill each day to prevent pregnancy
Safe, effective, and convenient
Easy to get with a prescription
Cost about $15–$50 each month

Are Birth Control Pills Right for Me?
All of us who need birth control want to find the method that is best for us. Use My Method to find out which birth control methods may be right for you.

Here are some of the most common questions we hear women ask about the pill. We hope you find the answers helpful.

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What Are Birth Control Pills? Birth control pills are a kind of medication that women can take daily to prevent pregnancy. They are also sometimes called “the pill” or oral contraception.

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How Do Birth Control Pills Work? It's pretty common for people to be confused about how birth control pills work. Here’s what it boils down to: birth control pills are made of hormones. Hormones are chemicals made in our bodies. They control how different parts of our bodies work.

Some birth control pills contain two hormones — estrogen and progestin. These are called combination pills. Some are progestin-only pills. Most women on the pill take combination pills.

The hormones in the pill work by keeping a woman’s ovaries from releasing eggs — ovulation. Pregnancy cannot happen if there is no egg to join with sperm. The hormones in the pill also prevent pregnancy by thickening a woman’s cervical mucus. The mucus blocks sperm and keeps it from joining with an egg.



The hormones also thin the lining of the uterus. In theory, this could prevent pregnancy by keeping a fertilized egg from attaching to the uterus.

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How Effective Are Birth Control Pills? Effectiveness is an important and common concern when choosing a birth control method. Birth control pills are very effective. Combination pills work best when taken every day. Progestin-only pills must be taken at the same time every day. That keeps the correct level of hormone in a woman’s body.

Less than 1 out of 100 women will get pregnant each year if they always take the pill each day as directed.
About 8 out of 100 women will get pregnant each year if they don’t always take the pill each day as directed.
The pill may be slightly less effective for women who are very overweight. Talk with your health care provider if you are concerned about how well the pill may work for you.

Certain medicines and supplements may make the pill less effective. These include

the antibiotic rifampin — other antibiotics do not make the pill less effective
certain medicines that are taken by mouth for yeast infections
certain HIV medicines
certain anti-seizure medicines
St. John's wort
Vomiting and diarrhea may also keep the pill from working. Ask your health care provider for advice. Use a backup method of birth control — like a condom, female condom, diaphragm, sponge, or emergency contraception (morning after pill) — until you find out you don’t need to.

Keep in mind the pill doesn’t protect against sexually transmitted infections. Use a latex or female condom to reduce the risk of infection.

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How Safe Are Birth Control Pills? Most women can use birth control pills safely. But all medications have some risks, so safety is a concern when choosing a birth control method. Certain conditions increase the risk of serious side effects. Some of these conditions may even rule out using the pill. Talk with your health care provider to find out if the pill is likely to be safe for you.

You should not take any kind of birth control pill if you have had breast cancer or think you might be pregnant.

You should not take the progestin-only pill if you have blood clotting problems that are not being treated successfully.

You should not take the combination pill during prolonged bed rest or if you

• get migraine headaches with aura
• have certain inherited blood-clotting disorders
• have had blood clots or vein inflammation
• have had a heart attack, stroke, or angina
• have had serious heart valve problems
• have lupus with certain conditions
• have serious liver disease or have had liver cancer
• have very bad diabetes
• have uncontrolled high blood pressure
• smoke and are 35 or older
• smoke and have high blood pressure

YASMIN and Yaz

You should not take the birth control pill YASMIN or Yaz if you have ever had kidney, liver, or adrenal gland disease. YASMIN and Yaz contain a special progestin that may increase potassium levels and cause serious heart and other problems.

If you have a condition that makes it unsafe to take the pill, don’t worry. There are many other methods of birth control that may be safe for you if you cannot take the pill. Read about other methods to find one that may be right for you.

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What Are the Benefits of Birth Control Pills? Taking the pill is simple, safe, and convenient. It does not interfere with having sex. Many women say it improves their sex lives because it helps them feel more spontaneous.

Women who do not need birth control often choose to take the pill for the other benefits it offers. Combination and progestin-only pills

reduce menstrual cramps
make periods lighter
offer some protection against pelvic inflammatory disease, which often leads to infertility when left untreated
The combination pill offers many other benefits, including some protection against

acne
bone thinning
breast growths that are not cancer
ectopic pregnancy
endometrial and ovarian cancers. Protection increases with each year of use.
iron deficiency anemia
ovarian cysts
premenstrual symptoms, including headaches and depression
Combination pills can be used to control when and how often you have your period. Some pills are specially packaged for women to have only a few periods a year. Other pills can also be used continuously to prevent having periods.

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What Are the Disadvantages of Birth Control Pills? Some women may have undesirable side effects while taking birth control pills. But many women adjust to the pill with few or no problems.

Some of the most common side effects usually clear up after two or three months. They include

bleeding between periods (most often with progestin-only pills)
breast tenderness
nausea and vomiting
Nausea and vomiting may be helped by taking the pill in the evening or at bedtime. But do not stop taking the pill because you feel sick to your stomach — you will be at risk of pregnancy if you do.

The hormones in the pill may change a woman’s sexual desire.

It’s important that you find a method that won’t make you feel sick or uncomfortable. If you continue to experience side effects after taking the pill for three months, talk with your health care provider about changing your prescription.

After stopping the pill, it usually takes one or two months for a woman’s periods to return to the cycle she had before taking the pill. Once in a while, a woman may have irregular periods or no periods at all. This may go on for as long as six months after stopping. This is more likely if her periods were irregular before starting the pill.

Serious Side Effects of the Pill
Many women have concerns about the possible risks of taking birth control pills. Serious problems do not occur often. And progestin-only pills have a lower risk of serious side effects than combination pills.

Combination pill users have a slightly greater chance of certain rare, but serious, problems than nonusers. These problems, that may be fatal in very rare cases, include heart attack, stroke, having a blood clot in the legs, lungs, heart, or brain, or developing high blood pressure, liver tumors, gallstones, or yellowing of the skin or eyes (jaundice).

The risk for these problems increases if you

are age 35 or older
are very overweight
have certain inherited blood-clotting disorders
have diabetes
have high blood pressure
have high cholesterol
need prolonged bed rest
smoke
Serious problems usually have warning signs. Report any of these signs to your health care provider as soon as possible:

a new lump in your breast
a sudden very bad headache
achy soreness in the leg
aura — seeing bright, flashing zigzag lines, usually before a very bad headache
bad pain in your abdomen or chest
headaches that are different, worse, or happen more often than usual
no period after having a period every month
trouble breathing
yellowing of the skin or eyes
The Pill and Breast Cancer
You may have heard claims linking the pill to breast cancer. The most recent medical literature suggests that the pill has little, if any, effect on the risk of developing breast cancer.


See the insert from your pack of pills for more information about possible side effects.

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How Do I Take Birth Control Pills? It depends on what kind of pill you are taking. Most combination pills come in 28-day or 21-day packs. Both types have 21 "active" pills that contain hormones. The last seven pills in 28-day packs of combination pills are called "reminder" pills. They do not contain hormones.

In 21-day packs, one pill is taken every day for three weeks in a row. No pills are taken for the next week, and then a new pack of pills is started.

Some combination pills contain a few months’ worth of active pills. They are specially packaged to reduce the number of periods a woman has each year. Women can also take the active pills in 21-day or 28-day packs continuously to reduce how often they have periods.

Progestin-only pills come only in 28-day packs. All progestin-only pills are active.

With combination pills, you’ll get your period during the fourth week — unless you choose to avoid menstruation by using active combination pills during the fourth week, as well.

With progestin-only pills, you may

get your period the fourth week
get no periods
have bleeding on and off throughout the month
The hormones in birth control pills prevent pregnancy throughout the entire month — even during the fourth week.

Helpful Tips About Birth Control Pills
Taking the pill at the same time each day makes it more effective. Pick a time of day that is easy to remember. You might find it helpful to take it when you do something else you do every day — like brushing your teeth or eating dinner. Many women set an alarm on their cell phones or watches. A missed period does not always mean you are pregnant, especially if you have not skipped any pills. Even though the chance of pregnancy is very low, you may want to take a pregnancy test if you miss two periods in a row. Talk with your health care provider if you have any questions or concerns while using the pill.

There is a very slight chance that you will become pregnant even if you take the pill as directed. It is unlikely that taking the pill during early pregnancy will increase the risk of birth defects. However, the likelihood of ectopic pregnancy is greater if you become pregnant while taking the progestin-only pill.

If you decide you want to become pregnant, stop taking the pill. It’s possible to get pregnant right after stopping. It usually takes about one or two months for your period to return to the cycle you had before taking the pill.



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How Do I Start Birth Control Pills? Women used to be told that they could only start the pill on the first day of their period or on the first Sunday after the start of their period. We now know that it’s also perfectly fine to start the pill on any day of the month. Talk with your health care provider about what day is best for you to start taking the pill.

Combination Pills
You may start the combination pill at any time. If you start within five days after the start of your period, you are protected against pregnancy right away. You will not need to use a backup method of birth control. That means that if your period starts on a Wednesday morning, you can start the pill up to Monday morning to be protected right away. If you start at any other time during your menstrual cycle, you will be protected from pregnancy after seven days. Use another method of birth control — like a condom, female condom, diaphragm, or sponge — if you have vaginal intercourse during the first week of use.

Progestin-Only Pills
You may start the progestin-only pill at any time. Use another method of birth control if you have vaginal intercourse during the first 48 hours of progestin-pill use — protection will begin after two days.

Taking the progestin-only pill at the same time each day is essential. If you take it more than three hours past the regular time, you need to use a backup method of birth control for 48 hours after taking the late pill.

Starting the Pill After Pregnancy
It’s possible to get pregnant again shortly after being pregnant. Starting birth control after pregnancy is an important concern for many women. And many of these women choose the pill.

You can start taking the combination pill
right after an abortion
right after a miscarriage
after waiting at least three weeks after childbirth
after waiting at least six weeks after childbirth if you are nursing
You can start taking the progestin-only pill
right after an abortion
right after a miscarriage
right after childbirth, whether or not you are nursing
Breastfeeding and Birth Control Pills
Progestin-only pills will not affect your milk during nursing.

You should wait to start using combination pills if you are nursing because they may reduce the amount and quality of milk in the first six weeks of breastfeeding.

Breast milk will contain traces of the pill's hormones. It is unlikely that these hormones will have any effect on your child. But talk with a health care provider about what birth control methods might be right for you after giving birth.

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What Do I Do If I Forget to Take the Pill? Almost all women on the pill forget to take it at some time. The pill works best when taken on time, every day — but knowing what to do when you forget could save you from having an unplanned pregnancy. Here are some general instructions. Talk with your health care provider for more information.

What to do depends on the kind of pill you take. Some birth control pills have two hormones — estrogen and progestin. These are called combination pills. Some are progestin-only pills. Most women on the pill take combination pills. Ask your health care provider if you are not sure what kind of pill you are on.

Combination Pills
You could become pregnant depending on when you miss pills and how many of them you miss. There is a highly increased chance of pregnancy if you go without hormones for seven or more days in a row. This could happen if you don’t start a new pack on time and/or forget to take the last one or two pills in the pack.

You may need a backup method of birth control if you have vaginal intercourse during the seven days after a missed pill. Some backup methods are the condom, female condom, diaphragm, or sponge.

You can also use emergency contraception (morning after pill) as backup. This is a great option if you have vaginal intercourse before you realize you have missed pills. Emergency contraception can prevent pregnancy if started up to five days after unprotected intercourse. The sooner you start it, the better it will work.

This table tells you what to do if you miss any pills from a 21-day or 28-day pack of combination pills.

Number of Pills Missed
When Pills Missed
What to do ...
Seven-Day Backup Needed?

First 1–2 pills
Beginning of pack
Take a pill as soon as you remember.
Take the next pill at the usual time.
(This means you may take two pills in one day.)
Yes



1–2 pills
Day 3–day 21
Take a pill as soon as you remember.
Take the next pill at the usual time.
(This means you may take two pills in one day.)
No

3 or more pills
First two weeks
Take a pill as soon as you remember.
Take the next pill at the usual time.
(This means you may take two pills in one day.)
Yes

3 or more pills
Third week
Do not finish pack. Throw away remaining pills.
Start next pack.
Yes

1–7 reminder pills
Fourth week
Throw away the missed reminder pill(s).
Take next reminder pill at the usual time.
No



Progestin-Only Pills
You could become pregnant if you take your progestin-only pill more than three hours past your regular time. If you do
Take a pill as soon as you remember.
Take the next pill at the usual time.
Continue to take the rest of the pack on schedule.
Use a backup method for 48 hours after taking the late pill. Some backup methods are the condom, female condom, diaphragm, sponge, or emergency contraception. Emergency contraception is a great backup method if you had vaginal intercourse before you realized you missed pills.
Many women have spotting or light bleeding when they miss a birth control pill — even if they make it up later. Women also sometimes feel a little sick to their stomachs if they take two pills to make up for a missed pill. If you do feel a bit sick after taking two pills in a day, don’t worry. The nausea won’t last long.

Are you still not sure what to do about pills you have missed?
Use a backup method anytime you have vaginal intercourse.
Take one active pill each day until you can talk with your health care provider.

"How Do I Get Birth Control Pills? How Much Do Birth Control Pills Cost?

First, you’ll need to get a prescription. Visit a Planned Parenthood health center, a clinic, or a private health care provider for a prescription. Your health care provider will discuss your medical history with you, check your blood pressure, and give you any other medical exam that you may need. If you need an exam, it may cost about $35–$250.

Birth control pills may be purchased with a prescription at a drugstore or clinic. They cost about $15–$50 a month.

Planned Parenthood works to make health care accessible and affordable. Some health centers are able to charge according to income. Most accept health insurance. If you qualify, Medicaid or other state programs may lower your health care costs.

Call your local Planned Parenthood health center to get specific information on costs."

I'm pretty sure they accept insurance, but if not, you will have to pay for it each month. :)


If you live near the elmira/horseheads area, do you know of a free clinic in the area? Also, are birth control pills free or are they at cost? If so, around how much money are these birth control pills? (link)
I do live in NY, but not near elimira. But i googled it, and i found that there's a planned parenthood right in elmira. Here's the address and the phone number:

755 East Church Street
Elmira, NY 14901
(607) 734-3313

here's the link to their website for appointment info, etc.:

http://www.plannedparenthood.org/health-center/centerDetails.asp?f=2349

:)


I am sorry i am asking so many questions, but yu are a good source. Is there a plase where you get get birth control pills? Like from a wallmart? And do you have to be at a certain age to get pills? (link)
It's totally fine, thats what im here for :). As far as walmart, i dont think they sell them there. But you can go to a free clinic such as Planned Parenthood to get them without your parents knowing. As far as a certain age, as long as you have started your period (which im assuming you have), then they will prescribe them to you reguardless of your age. I really wish you the best of luck, and if you have any question, any time, im here for you :)


This is a lead on to the oral sex scare. A day or two after i got scared, i had my period. It was more like a day after. Would i know im not pregnant that fast. Or would it like take time to miss my period? Like go for the next egg, not the one that is exiting my body right now? (link)
You can't have your period and be pregnant at the same time. Your body won't allow it. It's complicated, but here's how it works: Every 28 days, your body re-creates a lining on your uterus in preparation for pregnancy. About two weeks after this, you ovulate (when the egg drops from your ovary into your fallopian tube/uterus). Two weeks after that (the 28th day), if the egg has not been fertilized, the lining on your uterus begins to shed, which is why you bleed during your period. If the egg was fertilized, your uterus would not have shed and you wouldn't have gotten your period. However, some women do occasionally bleed during their first trimester of their pregnancy. But because it was within the first few days after your scare, its unlikely that you are actually pregnant. If you miss your next period, i would suggest you see a doctor just in case. :)


OK so i recently had oral with my boyfriend. I had him tell me when he wuz going to sperm so i could stop doing oral and jack him off to let him sperm. I wuznt wearing underwear at the time. but my vagina wasnt really near his penis. Then he kinda felt his sperm when it wuz on his stomach. It wuz also on my hand. He picked up my underwear with the hand he felt the sperm with, but the sperm wuz hardening. Then I was going to put the underwear back on but I thought about it and didnt put it back on. After all that, we washed our hands and he washed his penis and etc. Later that night he fingered me. And to be truthful he wanted me to finger myself with him so i did. Do you know if you can get pregnant from getting fingered after my boyfriend ejaculated, but then washed his hands and stuff? I am always so very worried if i will get pregnant or not. Do you think im pregnant? (link)
Most likely, the sperm probably wasn't even on his hands when he fingered you, because he washed his hands. Sperm has to live at body temperature (98.6 degrees), and when he washed his hands it most likely died. Dead sperm can not get you pregnant. Most likely, the sperm probably wasn't even on his hands anymore. If you find that your period is late next month, i suggest you see a doctor, and next time you have oral sex, you should have your boyfriend use a condom so you don't have another scare like this one. :)




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