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Member Since: August 4, 2010
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When a guy tells his friend that he thinks you are too innocent what the hell does that even mean?
My guy friend was trying to hook me up with his friend, so we all went out and i asked my friend what he thought and he said, i was alright looking but was too innocent, what does that even mean? please help! and what do you recommend i do for the future? (link)
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It just means that you seem like you haven't done much in an intimate setting (ie- the 4 bases). Or you're not much of a rule-breaker.
Were you acting very shy or timid? Or were they talking about things that you didn't really feel comfortable talking about? Those might be some reasons that he said that you were too innocent.
If you give me some details on what you said or did, I could probably give you some tips.
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Okay so I am 22 female
This is embarrassing and gross but I cant let it happen again and I really dont know what to do. Please help me. Any advice will help. No rude stuff plez. I was being tongue fucked in the butt the other day. It was my first time and it felt amazing. However, I felt a pressure like I was going to fart so I really couldnt enjoy it to the fullest extent because I had to hold it in. Well eventually I did fart and I was humiliated. I think I kept doing it in my sleep too which is REALLY abnormal for me. I also felt that pressure during oral sex and regular sex. I hate it. Its not sexy and tho he is nice about it, I cant let it happen again cuz its got to be a huge turn off. Plus since I have to focus on holding it in, I cant enjoy the sex as much. What if we have anal. Thats going to be really hard to hold in. Its always been this way, ever since I started having sex, Ive always felt that pressure to hold it in (not evertime but often) but now that its happened I cant let it happen again. How can I get rid of this pressure? Is there anything I can do? Would a doctor know? Is this normal? Any advice and tips will help. Thanks (link)
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Certain foods are more likely to give you gas. Some of these foods are beans, dairy products like cheese, too much fruit, veggies like onions, and sometimes beer.
I hear Beano is really good at getting rid of gas. Maybe you should try it.
Good luck ;)
- ct
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Well, I dont know if this works for every guy. But do most middle school/ high school normal guy do they care about what there girlfriend has as in do they care if they have big boobs or a nice butt or have it all and are skinny or do they care about the girls personallity? My family just tell me not to really worry about it but i would like to know. So from your experience what could you tell me should i not worry abou it or should i just see what guy i get.? Your advice would help alot thanks(: (link)
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Well, as a guy, I've never been one to focus on looks. In fact the reason I like the girl that I'm interested right now is because she is the coolest person I know. She has a great personality and she is always joking and teasing, which I find very attractive.
Another thing you might be intersted in knowing is that she is slightly nerdier than most girls. She collects comic books and has these funny little sayings and names she uses. This always makes me laugh because I'm nothing like that. I'm in JROTC and I'm in sports so it's... strange that I would like her as much as I do. But she... she just has this way with me and when she smiles I swear, I'd do anyting for her.
So, I say be yourself. Don't worry so much about the details. Everything else will fall into place.
- ct
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What did he mean? (link)
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Your honor, in this case, is like your reputation. He wants to make sure no one is saying disrespectful things about you and to have your back. Kinda noble :)
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Hey. Thanks for answering my question.
So, now to answer your question, "How much do you like her?" She's just a good friend to me. And I'm not sure how possible it is for anything else to be subconscious, so I'll assume that's all it is.
And it's not like I was acting pushy or anything either, because 90% of the time she started it. In the beginning she actually appeared to be stalking me through the halls at school, always seeming to know where I would be before I got there. I'd be headed to chem class and she'd come out of nowhere, poke me and start a conversation making me 10 minutes late every day.
So again, thanks for answering my question. Do you have any ideas other than someone spreading rumors? It does sound realistic, because a lot of people I know do stupid stuff like that, but none of them have ever been about me. (link)
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It could be the vibes you're sending or maybe something you had accidentally done or said. I'm not altogether sure.
But I do have a feeling you might like her and nothing's wrong with that. Think about it and if you decide that maybe your thoughts about her are a little bit more personal or intimate than a friend you can follow the advice that I gave you earlier or try to talk it out with her. Maybe she likes you too but doesn't know how to react and that's why she's been acting so odd.
I know I'm that way. I can start acting pretty weird to a girl once I know she likes me. It is possible that she does something similar to this.
And, yes, you wanting her to be happy is something a close friend would want, but when tied to some other deeper feelings, it can become more.
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My Boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months but we're talking for about 4 or 5 months.. Before turned 18 (just recently) we disscussed moving out together and getting our own place. I turned 18 a month after him and thats when i started really looking around for things we could afford, and now it seems like everytime i bring it up he always says i dont know or maybe.. Does he just not want to move out? I dont know what to do anymore.. (link)
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Getting a place together is a pretty big step and he might just be getting a little nervous about the whole thing. Try to take the anxiety out of the decision. Show him the fun sides that you know he'll enjoy. Keep it casual and cool.
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Alright, I put this in the category mainly because it is dealing with the health of your mental thoughts and feelings. I have been a fan of All Time Low for quite a while now, maybe 3 years. I have known for again, quite a while about Alex's brother. I have seen that Alex does sing Lullabies live sometimes and yes, he gets emotional, if he didn't, I would think something is wrong. But most people comment "I really wish he would show his real emotions. He tries to hide them so much by laughing and joking around. A defense mechanism." I have come to realize, I do this too. My great grandmother had passed 2 years ago and yet I miss her so dearly, I am not one to cry only when things get super messy, my mom says I am like a guy when it comes to feelings. But at her funeral, I could feel my tears coming and I didn't want to cry, I thought I shouldn't, so to hide them, I laughed at things and joked around. I thought it was normal, but by the comments people are leaving about Alex, they're making it sound like it's wrong to do that. To show emotions is the best thing to do. I was just wondering, do you do this too? Or do you let your emotions lay out on the table? (link)
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Let me just say that as a guy, I was raised to believe that concealing or repressing my emotions was the way society worked. It is frowned upon greatly for guys to cry or get upset in the environment I live in. They tell you to "be a man" and "real men don't cry".
I'm not saying this is right, but it is more accepted at times. The negative side of this is that you never get the chance to really work through your emotions.
So I'm going to tell you this: It is okay to cry when you feel the tears coming. You may not feel comfortable crying in front of certain people, but take the time to uncap your pain and let it out even if you want to do it alone.
I'm very sorry about your great grandmother. I can relate to you on this. One of my great grandmothers have already died. It's so funny (not funny ha ha, but funny odd, you know?)because the simple act of her gifting me the same type of cookies every Christmas is what I miss the most. My other great grandmother is in a very weak state and it is certain that she will not live for much longer.
If you ever need to talk, by all means, hit me up. I'll listen :)
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how do you charge your physical body with energy (link)
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One form of energy is calories. The thing is that you should not eat too many calories in a day because if you don't use it, it gets stored as fat on various areas of your body.
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This girl has been my friend for a while, and about 6 months ago we started getting really close. Then, just in the past week or two, she doesn't seem to want to talk to me anymore.
She ignores most of what I say, and when she doesn't she always seems mad at me for some reason. Then when I ask if I did something wrong she'll say something like, "No, I'm just tired..." or, "I don't really want to talk to anyone right now." Then when I log onto facebook a day later I'll see that immediately after I log off she's joking around and talking with a bunch of people...
I'm not controlling, and I'm definitely okay with her having other friends, but it's just weird how she went from basically being my best friend to not wanting to talk to me.
Does anyone have an idea what might be going on, or if there's something I could have done to upset her without realizing it? (link)
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Okay dude. One question: How much do you like her? Because I'm thinking, and don't take this the wrong way, you've been showing her that you really like her with small signs or a rumor got out that you have feelings for her and that might have turned her off. She might mot like you like that and is now distancing herself from you to hint to you that she's not interested in you like that.
Next time you talk to her maybe you could drop the "friend bomb" a few times to let her know that you understand that what you guys have is just a really good friendship. Don't take what she's doing too personally. Trust me when I say there are much worse ways for her to say that she doesn't feel the same way. I've learned from experience.
If this didn't help, maybe you could write to me giving me more details so I can help :P
- ct
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so i have this crush on a guy. he's cute sweet and easy to talk to. i do want to talk to him a lot but everytime i try i get so nervous that i chicken out. he gets on facebook and my heart drops and i get so nervous and i run away from the computer. why do i react like this? also what some tips so that i feel comfortable and relaxed before i start talking to him. (link)
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I can get that way too around girls that I like. I do this thing where my cheeks start to burn and when I talk it's like I'm trying to say multiple sentences at once. But unlike you, I only get this way if the girl begins to really show me that she likes me. In fact, I think I might have messed up my chances with a really amazing girl a few days ago by doing this. Long story.
I've gotten better about it, though. The way I calm myself down is taking deep breaths and repeating one word or phrase over and over in my head. Doesn't matter what it is, but it works better if it's funny. That way it makes you laugh and you feel more loose. But try to keep the laughter to yourself...you don't want to seem crazy, do you? ;)
Hope these tips work out! If you have any more questions, don't be shy. Feel free to ask.
- ct
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