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Guy trouble Well, I dont know if this works for every guy. But do most middle school/ high school normal guy do they care about what there girlfriend has as in do they care if they have big boobs or a nice butt or have it all and are skinny or do they care about the girls personallity? My family just tell me not to really worry about it but i would like to know. So from your experience what could you tell me should i not worry abou it or should i just see what guy i get.? Your advice would help alot thanks(:
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Well, as a guy, I've never been one to focus on looks. In fact the reason I like the girl that I'm interested right now is because she is the coolest person I know. She has a great personality and she is always joking and teasing, which I find very attractive.
Another thing you might be intersted in knowing is that she is slightly nerdier than most girls. She collects comic books and has these funny little sayings and names she uses. This always makes me laugh because I'm nothing like that. I'm in JROTC and I'm in sports so it's... strange that I would like her as much as I do. But she... she just has this way with me and when she smiles I swear, I'd do anyting for her.
So, I say be yourself. Don't worry so much about the details. Everything else will fall into place.
- ct ]
For both girls and guys, a nice body may be what attracts you to another person initially, but is not the most important thing.
A guy usually won't date a girl if she has a terrible personality. Girls who are only pretty but have nothing to offer personality or commitment wise are typically 'hook ups' and not girlfriend material.
Would you want a boyfriend who was a jerk, or an airhead, or just really dull and all he had going for him was his looks? I guarantee you would get bored of him.
Don't worry so much about your body and focus on being you. Guys are attracted to eyes and a great smile and laugh. Show them your fun and flirty side!
And don't settle for the first guy who asks you out! You deserve the best, make sure you really like him.
Good luck,
-Abby ]
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