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Not talking anymore...
This girl has been my friend for a while, and about 6 months ago we started getting really close. Then, just in the past week or two, she doesn't seem to want to talk to me anymore.
She ignores most of what I say, and when she doesn't she always seems mad at me for some reason. Then when I ask if I did something wrong she'll say something like, "No, I'm just tired..." or, "I don't really want to talk to anyone right now." Then when I log onto facebook a day later I'll see that immediately after I log off she's joking around and talking with a bunch of people...
I'm not controlling, and I'm definitely okay with her having other friends, but it's just weird how she went from basically being my best friend to not wanting to talk to me.
Does anyone have an idea what might be going on, or if there's something I could have done to upset her without realizing it?
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Okay dude. One question: How much do you like her? Because I'm thinking, and don't take this the wrong way, you've been showing her that you really like her with small signs or a rumor got out that you have feelings for her and that might have turned her off. She might mot like you like that and is now distancing herself from you to hint to you that she's not interested in you like that.
Next time you talk to her maybe you could drop the "friend bomb" a few times to let her know that you understand that what you guys have is just a really good friendship. Don't take what she's doing too personally. Trust me when I say there are much worse ways for her to say that she doesn't feel the same way. I've learned from experience.
If this didn't help, maybe you could write to me giving me more details so I can help :P
- ct
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you should wait for her to come to you. youve already tried talking to her and asked if somthuings wrong. shell come to you when she wants to talk. if not maybe she letting you know she dosent want to be friends anymore.
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