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Am I asking too muchh???
My Boyfriend and I have been together for 6 months but we're talking for about 4 or 5 months.. Before turned 18 (just recently) we disscussed moving out together and getting our own place. I turned 18 a month after him and thats when i started really looking around for things we could afford, and now it seems like everytime i bring it up he always says i dont know or maybe.. Does he just not want to move out? I dont know what to do anymore..
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FIrst off it's a horrible idea to live with someone you've been dating for less than a year ( i know this by my own experience and friends have said the same). You get too much of each other and it can get exhausting emotionally.
Second of all, if he REALLY want's to , he will come to you and take initiative. Guy's tend to say stuff they regret later, and if he is acting like that, then the best thing to do is lay off the issue for a while and bring it up in a few months. Pushing him to do something he doesn't want can put a lot of strain on a relationship.
You're young, live your life. Don't rush into things.
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InVision
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He's not cool with it obviously, so stop bringing it up. Jesus Christ.
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You might want to give him some time. When you rush to move in together, most times it turns out to be a nightmare, BELIEVE ME. Take your time and do things the right way, you will be grateful later. I would ask him if he's ready, or what he's thinking about the subject, but I wouldn't push it. Men are crazy about those things, and they don't like to be pushed too hard. You don't want to feel like a married couple already. I know that the idea is some what fairy talish but it really is hard work, and takes a LOT of compromise and sacrafice. When you get to living with someone, you're in eachother's faces a lot and depending on work/school schedules, you may end up getting annoyed with eachother by spending way too much time together. Your boyfriend is probably just thinking about smarter options for the best of your relationship. Good Luck
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Getting a place together is a pretty big step and he might just be getting a little nervous about the whole thing. Try to take the anxiety out of the decision. Show him the fun sides that you know he'll enjoy. Keep it casual and cool.
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sounds to me like hes not sure or he is running a little low on cash but like yous said its only been six months maybe hes not sure about the future or how long you two will last
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