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Last Update: August 5, 2010
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My fiance mention, for like the third time, that he would like to try new things in the bedroom. His main interest seems to be on a threesome, which is something that he knows I have done in the past. The thing is, I don't want to share him (that's why I commited to him, because before him I only had friends with benefits) and I've told him how I feel. Knowing that he wants a threesome makes me feel like I'm not good enough for him, and like he doesn't really want ME. Am I overracting? I do understand that he has only been with me, maybe he wants to experience someone else... or experience the things that I did before meeting him. I really would like a possible explanation on why he would ask for something that he knows bothers me to even think about. (link)
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We talked about it, but he didn't talk much. I told him that I wasn't comfortable with a threesome and that I would rather take a break from our relationship so he could experience what he needs and I can find friends that will not make me feel the way he did. All he could say was that he was sorry and didn't mean to upset me. He said that he wants to be with me and won't ask for it agian. I know that I should be content with his response, but I can't get over his request. I'm always thinking about what girl is on his mind, or why am I not the only one on his mind (he's the only one on mine). Sex with him is very uncomfortable now... HOW CAN I GET OVER ALL OF THIS??? I keep thinking our relationship might be over, and it's because of me; becuase of how I feel. It's just hard not to think about it.
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I have problem I don't last long when having sex. I get too excited when at the foreplay stage then when I actually come to the sex part I don't last long at all. Is there any advice people can give me please (link)
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I agree with masturbating, it should help with lasting longer. You might also look into C*ck rings, they're meant to prolong climax. There are also ointments that will desensitize your member a bit. It will make it so that you are not as sensitive to touch and should give you time to pleasure. Good Luck!
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So, this is my first relationship with a guy and I really like him. Problem is, I'm really uncomfortable with doing things around him. Like, I'm even scared to touch him on my own. I feel like I'll do it wrong and then he'd judge me in a negative way. I'm trying to open up slowly to him. He knows that I'm uncomfortable at doing certain things with him too but he says he understands and that it takes time. I know that if I stay like this, he wouldn't like it and I don't want to be like this either. How do I loosen myself up around him to make things between us more enjoyable? (link)
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My fiance was my first boyfiend, so I felt how you do. What I decided to do, was introduce one new thing each day that I felt uncomfortable doing. I soon realized that he was fine with everything I was doing and felt comfortable being myself around him. Remember... he's with you for a reason, and he wants to know YOU so try not to be reserved around him.
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