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Uncomfortable Around Boyfriend
So, this is my first relationship with a guy and I really like him. Problem is, I'm really uncomfortable with doing things around him. Like, I'm even scared to touch him on my own. I feel like I'll do it wrong and then he'd judge me in a negative way. I'm trying to open up slowly to him. He knows that I'm uncomfortable at doing certain things with him too but he says he understands and that it takes time. I know that if I stay like this, he wouldn't like it and I don't want to be like this either. How do I loosen myself up around him to make things between us more enjoyable?
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My fiance was my first boyfiend, so I felt how you do. What I decided to do, was introduce one new thing each day that I felt uncomfortable doing. I soon realized that he was fine with everything I was doing and felt comfortable being myself around him. Remember... he's with you for a reason, and he wants to know YOU so try not to be reserved around him.
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dont be scared to do anything around him if he understands how you feel then you really have no reason to be scared around him i used to be like that and it was soo bad i couldnt even talk to him without someone with me so i understand how you are but just let your self feel safe when your in his arms or holding his hand. hope i helped :]
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It's okay! It sounds to me like you just need to test the waters :) I'm sure he'll be totally understanding knowing the fact that youre new to it all. He might even give you some tips if you ask for them :p Just be open to learning as you go and you'll get some experience on the way. Once you get the hang of it, things will only get better :)
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