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I want my husband to have sex with me while I'm asleep in bed
I have been married for 5 years and have never been satisfied in the bedroom because of this 1 thing. My husband is great but this is really weird. I have this fantasy of him having sex with me while I am sleeping. It would be OK with me if I woke up during it as long as it started while I was asleep. I know this is not normal but it's what I really want. How do I approach him about this without sounding crazy or creepy?
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bew honest with him. altho if you shy maybe apprach the subject with a question.
"imjust curious.. not that is a problem. but havbe you ever touched me while asleep, that sounds so kinky" or soemthing to that affect. then it gets the ball rolling :)
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being married for 5 years and sexually active throughout this time, i don't think creepy is a concern. crazy? that's what you need to make things fun. i think you could have a nice night together, watch a few sex flicks where sleeping sex is involved. then you could casually point out that it is an interesting thing to try. if he agrees, then there you go.
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Just tell him that's what you want. He'll probably be excited that you want to try something new.
Now on to the 5 years without any satisfaction. That's a problem, you both definitely need to address it because if you don't it will definitely make your relationship suffer.
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go up to him and say "lets try some thing different... one day soon when i fall a sleep have sex with me if i wake up i wont mind, just try it for me." tell him you want to try new things and experiment it is a great way to spice up your love life
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