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My boyfriend and I were fooling around last month or so and we ended up having sex. We used protection though because we're both 15 and a baby is something we do NOT need right now. I had bought a small box of condoms just a few days before then, luckily.
So, we had sex and I had lost my virginity to him. I wasn't really worried about getting pregnant because I thought we were safe and doing it responsibly by using a condom. We had a great time but haven't had sex since then, by the way.
Now I am having a serious problem. My period hasn't come yet and it's pretty late (which is REALLY weird for me). I went out and bought a pregnancy test from the store and took it. It showed the positive sign on it so I guess I'm pregnant.
How'd I get pregnant? This doesn't even make sense to me! I mean, for one I was a VIRGIN. For two, we used a CONDOM. I didn't even have an orgasm when we were actually having sex. Is it really possible to get pregnant even though we used a condom?
My mom is going to be sooo mad! :( (link)
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you couldve gotten pregnant if the condom broke or if he didnt put it on properly. orgasms dont make you pregnant and even if this is your first time you could still get pregnant. sorry and i really feel for you. im 15 and im thinking of loosing my virginity and if i were you i wouldnt think of how it happened as much as what im going to do with the baby. if you dont want it you could give it up for adoption or if you dont want to do child birth you could have an abortion. hope this helps. and i rally feel for you. ( ps if your mom is mad at you tell her that you used a condom but it didnt work and then i would go see a doctor.)
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if i gave my boyfriend a hand job and he got sperm on his hand and then fingered me could i get pregnant? (link)
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well, yes, technicaly you could get pregnant but only if you ovulate in the time thatthe sperm iis there. hope this helps.
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I made the horrible mistake of having sex, the even worse mistake was we didn't use a condom. He told me he'd pull out, but didn't. He said it was just too hard to stop. Asshole, I know.
My last period started July 6th, and ended around the 12th-13th. I think the 12th. I have about a 24-26 day cycle. Would I be ovulating right now? I think I'm supposed to be today or within the next couple of days.
Also, I heard sperm lives inside of you ffor 3-5 days, and I think I'll be ovulating within that time but I'm not sure. Is it true that it lives inside of you for 3-5 days, and even if I wasn't ovulating today when it happened, if I am within those 3-5 days, could I get pregnant?
Basically, I'd really appreciate it if you could answer these questions for me:
1. Am I ovulating today or within the next few days?
2. Is it true it lives inside of me for 3-5 days?
3. If I start ovulating within that time, can I become pregnant?
4. Are the chances that I'm pregnant low or high?
I made such a stupid mistake, but there's nothing I can do now so please no rude comments.
And thank you so much to anyone who answers my question. (link)
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well i cant answer your first question because everyone is different. for your second question yes they do live inside you for about 3,4,5 days, more or less . third question, yes if you ovulate in that time then there is a possibility that you could become pregnant. and question four, seeing that you didnt use a condom and he didnt pull out then i would say yes there is a kind of high possibility that you are pregnant. sorry but if you want you could give the kid (if you have one) up for adoption or you could have an abortion. hope that helps. that is all i help you with.
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Some friends from school told me that having sex will make your boobs grow. I have really small boobs and I hate it so I thought I would give it a try. I'm not sure I'm doing it right though. I just dunno but I want my boobs to be pretty big.
I had sex with 7 boys from my grade at school but nothing really changed for me and my boobs were still small. I was talking to my dad's friend on Facebook and he said he thought sex made breasts grow only if the girl had sex with a guy older than her. So, we ended up having sex, obv.
It just seems like this is taking foreverrr and I just want my barely A cups to go to like a DD. I know that's a big leap but it's what I WANT. After having sex w/my dad's friend I think they seem to be a little more full but not much.
I went on and posted some match ads online and there is 4 guys who say they want to do it with me so my boobs will grow. My first thinking is that if I do it with them all at once then my boobs will grow faster all at once. They're all up for it but I want to know if it will still work that way. I don't want to like have sex with them all together and then my boobs don't grow at all. Does anyone know if you have sex with more than 1 guy at a time if your boobs will still grow? They're all a lot older than me so that shouldn't be a prob.
((And before you start answering don't worry about me getting pregnant. I know the guy has to cum in you for this to work but I haven't started my period yet so I can't get pregnant anyways.)) (link)
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OMG! your 13 and your already having sex. no offense but WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU! you should let your body do what it needs to do. and just to let you know, sex does not make your boobs grow. that is just a mith. all these guys are just having sex with you just to have it. trust me, i'm 15 and i'm a virgin. you should just leave your body alone and it will do what it needs to at the right times. it always has and it always will.
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I'm a female in my late 20's. Ive been friends with this guy since i was 16 years old. We lost contact of each other for a few years since i went to college we got back in contact about 4 years ago after he found me on face book. I found out that he just got out of a relationship which resulted in him having three children. I thought it was great he had kids they were cute. But i was no way ready for children. He revealed to me that he always had a crush on me but did not know how to tell me. I was shoked. He began flirting with me from time to time and i told him if we were to have a relationship i don't think it would work out because he has kids. its not that i did not like the fact that he had kids is just that i feel if you are with someone then you have to accept everthing about them and the kids was too much for me i felt that i would have to be apart of thier lives too and i was not ready for that type of responsility. He said that he understood my concern but wanted to be frieds with benefits I said no because friends with benefits never work. For two years he flirted and kept asking me to be frieds with benefits. After a while i broke and decided to be friends with benefits. Considering that i have needs and did not have much of a love life myself. at first it was great. we were good friends and better lovers.I thought we would not be able to handle it but it was fine and it was not all the time aside from seing each other casually and hanging out with friends. maybe every 6 months or so we'll have sex. then one day recently i sent him and e-mail on face book and noticed i was no longer his friend i tried AIM on aol and he was gone from my friends list. I sent him a text asking him what going on and he replied with a text that read WHO IS THIS? Which can only mean one thing. He ereased my number out of his phone and did not recognize me when i called. It texted back hey its me. (I stated my name) and he text back.........Time is up for me on alot of things we are still friends always but we cant do the things we did i just want to focus on my career. and that was it just like that. The thing is if he wanted to end our physical relationship i was fine with as a matter fact i was against it. I warned him that this type of thing never works and he acted like he was fine with it. he claims that we are still friends but there is no form of communication between us he erased my number i'm not on any of his online profiles so that means that he's mad that i did something to him. but i don't know what i did i tried calling he does not pick up i tried e-mailing him he does not answer back this whole thing was his idea why is he mad at me? (link)
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put yourself in his shoes. you didnt want to have an actual bf/gf relationship with him because of his kids. wouldnt that piss you off? go to his house and MAKE him talk to you. find out what the matter is and try to resolve it. if he really is your friend then he'll be your friend no matter what!
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16/F so this might be a dumb question, i dont know, but me and my boyfriend were messing around and we had had sex earlier but he didn't go inside me or anything but than later i gave him a hand job and it went every where and i was on top of him and some could have gone in me... so i don't know if that could be bad. but i am on birth control. so could you help? (link)
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well if i were you, before i did anything, i would take a home pregnancy test. then if it comes up positive see what your going to do with the baby. if it comes up negative then you have nothing to worry about. so do that first.
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