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This is probably really gross to be talking about, but I have to find out what the deal is.
I usually shave "down there" every couple of days. Recently, I went about 2 weeks. I guess since my pants are really tight it irritated it somewhat. Now there's this bump on my pubic area. Not on the lips or any of that. Probably about an inch below my pants line. After I shaved, it worsened. Does anyone know what's the matter & is there any way to make it go away fast ?
it's probably an ingrown hair...whenever i get one i just squeeze it like a pimple and it goes away. however, if it is too sore i probably wouldn't reccomend it and maybe go see a GP. hope i helped :)
I've always been a positive person. Though deep down inside I've dealt with a lot. I hate the person I am, and it's hard to change without any help... I've seriously thought about killing myself so I won't bother those around me, and so I can be done with being miserable. I can't afford to see a Psychologist, and I just want to know if anyone has ever been in this type of situation. A situation where everything is going downhill, you hate your own self, and you seem to have no way out. Thanks to everyone who answers.
its okay. just dont do something stupid. i get depressed at times as well. just think about all the good things in your life. (sometimes this is hard but theres ALWAYS something) also theres free helplines you can call, where they talk to you about it. there is ALWAYS someone to talk to.
hope i helped :)
17/f
so my x and i havent spoke for a few months, our past was quite hectic. at the begining we agreed no sex because i wasnt ready and he seemed fine but after some time we had i fight and broke up... after our break up we were sort of friends but he always gave me false hope and took advantage of the fact that i was ''inlove'' with him because he knew how i felt.. during this time he realisesd that i still wasnt goning to get in bed with him and he started acting funny ,i told him to leave me alone but he somehow kept coming back and we were back to sqaure 1.. until i got really tired of it and told him to leave me alone permently, he smsed a few times but i just ignored him... now i really want to talk to him even if its just to say hi bt im scared that im goging to look desparate... plz help???
you will not look desperate, BUT this guy doesnt deserve any kind of acknowledgement from you that he exists. its sick when guys take advantage of a girl like that. just stick to ignoring him for the meantime and im sure eventually youll meet a guy that treats you right. this advice is from someone who's been there. just stay strong. and even though you still care about him, remember how much of a jerk he is. it helps :)
remember, even snow white has to eat a poison apple before her prince comes :)
hope it helps
16/f. for halloween this year i want to be belle from beauty and the beast. i dont want to wear a long gown because it would just get in the way when i go to a party. I want a short yellow dress, a little above the knee, thats poofy like belles. I dont want to look slutty, but i do want to look cute. also, i want it to be under $100, hopefully around $50. THANK YOU!
here is a few. on the picture they might be a different colour but when you order them you can choose yellow, or gold.
http://www.dressdress.net/detail.asp?product_id=7017 Bubble Prom Dress
http://www.dressdress.net/detail.asp?product_id=7006 Purple Mini Short Dress
http://www.dressdress.net/detail.asp?product_id=2617 Mini Prom Dress
http://www.dressdress.net/detail.asp?product_id=7001 Mini Gold Dress
hope they help :) most of them were under $100 but a couple were over $100 but under $200
13/f
Some friends from school told me that having sex will make your boobs grow. I have really small boobs and I hate it so I thought I would give it a try. I'm not sure I'm doing it right though. I just dunno but I want my boobs to be pretty big.
I had sex with 7 boys from my grade at school but nothing really changed for me and my boobs were still small. I was talking to my dad's friend on Facebook and he said he thought sex made breasts grow only if the girl had sex with a guy older than her. So, we ended up having sex, obv.
It just seems like this is taking foreverrr and I just want my barely A cups to go to like a DD. I know that's a big leap but it's what I WANT. After having sex w/my dad's friend I think they seem to be a little more full but not much.
I went on and posted some match ads online and there is 4 guys who say they want to do it with me so my boobs will grow. My first thinking is that if I do it with them all at once then my boobs will grow faster all at once. They're all up for it but I want to know if it will still work that way. I don't want to like have sex with them all together and then my boobs don't grow at all. Does anyone know if you have sex with more than 1 guy at a time if your boobs will still grow? They're all a lot older than me so that shouldn't be a prob.
((And before you start answering don't worry about me getting pregnant. I know the guy has to cum in you for this to work but I haven't started my period yet so I can't get pregnant anyways.))
WTF??????? ur 13! you've barely started sex ed in school! that is a myth. sex DOES NOT make ur boobs grow. having sex with guys alot older then you! sheesh. you better stop now or you will be miserable for the rest of your life. sex is called making love for a reason. you make love with someone you LOVE not any random horny sick bastard who wants to play. sorry but its true.
My niece is turning three years old and my sister is going to throw her a birthday party. My sister wants an original birthday party. What we have so far is a safari party and bumblebee party. Any suggestions would be helpful. Also maybe something to put on the invitations to go with the theme. Thanks in advanced!
you could have a fluffy party, where kids dress up as something fluffy? a reptile party, but shes a girl so not that sure about that one.. pop star party
just suggestions :)
My schools Sadie dance is February 13 but I play hockey and we have a tournament that weekend :( my parent said I could still go to the dance though :) but I won't find out what time we play (morning or afternoon shift) until next week. I'm
going to ask my boyfriend to the dance but I need a clever/corny way of asking him. I was thinking about taking glow in the dark stars and spelling it out on his car at night?
Also I want to do something nice and romantic for him. We are both 17. Please nothing vulgar and sexual. I'm looking for cute/corny/lovey dovey ideas :) thank you!!'
well... if you live near a beach, guess what ...?
you're going for a picnic. non alcoholic champagne, a beautiful starry night.. how romantic. towards the end you can say well, you know i was thinking, would you like to go to the dance with me on such and such night? if there's no beach then go to the local park. or you can take him to your favorite spot and have a picnic there. if you have a portable cd player or ipod speakers or something like that, have some nice jazz music on. hope it works out for ya!!!
all the best!!!
frangipani=)=)=):):):)
well since you live where its cold, you can make a home movie night, something you will both enjoy, make some popcorn, these are just suggestions anyway.
frangipani:)
17/f
i've spent my entire adolescence looking for an easy and good way of removing hair.. like under your arms mainly! i use an epilator for my legs, you think thats good?
i do use the epilator under my arms, but im just so sick and tired of the time i need to spend doing it because it doesnt pluck out all the hair at once, and this sometimes causes me to bleed, and my under arms are all dark now and scar-y! like i got some scars and pink bumps and that sort!
so i was thinking of starting to shave my under arms! what do you think? do you think it will help me? like it wont take so much time, and i'll end up with nice hairless under arms like the celebs?
and if you think shaving is a good idea for me, can u recommend me a brand? nair? veet? ok, i don't know much about them, so LOADS of help would be great!
thanks a bunch!
DO NOT USE...... cheap nasty razors with one blade. the blade is usually too thick which.... causes irritation, make cuts easier and doesnt remove hair as well as good razors.
i use schick and gillette for women. i also use gillette shaving gel which moisturizes as well as helping to spot hairs. hope i helped!!!!
the song "finger paint" by zion i I am obsessed with, but no matter how much I try I cannot figure out the lyrics..could someone please help me?? (ive tried searching the internet but i found nothing)
thanks:)
[Verse 1 - Zion]
Feel my finger paint
Color to stimulate ya
Rise relate ya
Pass in love and nature
Rhymes to break ya, take ya
Up to the maker
Away from the pain
We feelin safer
The liberate to rectify the soul
Written in red, green, black
Trim it with gold
We been in war
Hey man we seen it all before
Got you feeling the fundamentals of flow toe-to-toe
How we battle
You can light the shadow
Walking with
You bring a barrage of marshmallow
Yellow
Words and word curse
Lip style mellow
Zion the lion-hearted fellow
Bellow
Finger paint you can hold the weight
When the mind is great, then the soul create
I reperate like I'm water when I change my state
Mindscape to the next levitate
[Chorus]
Breakin all the shit that I don't want to hold
Makin all the slumbers inside me flow
So in all the seasons can make me grow
And I'm breathing
I'm breathing slow
[Pre-Verse - Zion]
Breathe In...Out
[Verse 2 - DUST]
Feel my finger paint as the world spins
Let my finger paint cleanse your sins
My finger's paintin' all colors on your skin
See my reflection in my brother, my twin
I'm sparkin' a light to your soul deep within
You can hear the echo when I drop my pen
The children hold hands under the rainbow
Everywhere we go we bring the same flow
Feel my finger-paint on my parabola
Supernovas, nebulas, satellites
My finger's paintin' all over the mic
My finger's paintin' lightning when it strikes
Bring down the rain, release the pain
Master the craft, die ya rocks ya game
My fingers paint across all terrain
My finger paint penetrates your brain
[Chorus til end]
Breakin all the shit that I don't want to hold
Makin all the slumbers inside me flow
So in all the seasons can make me grow
And I'm breathin
I'm breathing slow
15f
so i have this guy friend who i liked for like ever, and he finally made a move.. but i was already about to get with this guy, and the guy who is my bestfriend held my hand and i kissed him, but my dad would never approve.. well he would but then he wouldnt be able to come stay the night with my brother.. and they are bestfriends.. and so therefore our relationship would be a lie and secret.. and i want a real relationship.. so i am dating this guy who is amazing, but i keep seeing my friends face, and my boyfriend said he loved me and he cares.. but my friend has always been there.. now we are in a fight.. and i care so much for my friend.. but feelings are forming for my boyfriend.. and i dont know what to do.. this should be so much longer haha.. but i balled over my friend because we are in a fight...help.. also my friend has a huge poker face.. he can bury his feelings sooo deep... and right now he is.. and i just want to tell him i love him..
it seems like you have settled for second best to be your boyfriend. But beware, do not use the word love when you tell your friend. it might scare him off, (it happened to me in a similar situation)instead, tell him you like him but are you sure he made a definite move????? did he kiss you back? if yes then go forward to tell him, if not.... then wait till your absolutely sure. if your boyfriend is understanding it would be better to tell him. if he doesn't understand then he wasn't worth liking him. if your only starting to form a liking for this guy then that scares me. only if i already liked someone first up, then i would be their girlfriend. about your dad, do you have a strong trust with him? does he trust you? if yes then tell him you like this guy. it will only make your relationship with your dad stronger. i hope i helped. =) if you have any problem, ask me on my column. if you are embarrassed about a question, email me at missfrangipanifreak@hotmail.com
hope all goes well. ;) :) =)
does anyone have the lyrics from jeremih - i'm a star(everywhere we are) ??????? thankssss =)
ever heard of google?
How do you make out??? What do you do? What do u do after? HELP ME!
wow, you asked this in 2004?
anyways,usually it just kinda falls into place, relax and it will come.
ok so i had a tattoo and my stupid ex bf told my mom and she made me get it off and they couldnt scan it off or whatever they do so they cut it off me and i have this ugly scar they said id go away deff in two years but its ugly and embarrassing telling people what happend anyone know a way to get of scars? Some kind of cheap scar remover or not to expensive. Thanks!!
try bio oil
So my friend and I are running for co-presidents of the senior class and I was wondering if anyone has any good ideas for fundraisers or activities we can advertise. If anything fun happened at your school or if something really unsuccessful happened but you have a suggestion of how to make it better, please let me know. Thanks!
well a fate or fair or whatever you call it is always fun especially if you get to throw something at a teacher
I just moved into a rent house and found out that it has roaches. I put down Combat Platinum gel and it got rid of a lot of them, but I still see some here and there.
I keep the place clean. I never leave food out. All my food is sealed up in air-tight containers. I can't afford Terminex or any other pest control service. How can I get rid of the rest of the roaches?
as ninjaneer said the landlord is fully responsible, if anything he should give you the money back that you spent, and im not sure how it is where you live but in N.S.W. Australia you can hire someone that charges up to $1000 and the landlord has to pay for it.
hope i helped!! =)
whats a really cute happy love song? preferably from a band and not country. thank you!!!! just tell me your favorite love songs :) i'll rate ♥
love story-taylor swift
i know that taylor swift is said to sing country but it doesnt seem like country
Hi this is my senior prom and I want it to be perfect, but I can not find a hair style that I love. I am thinking about doing a curly pony tail or either curly half up. but i can't decide what to with the front. Like should I have it twisted back in rows or what other things could you do???
could you describe yourself to me, hair colour, eye colour etc
that would be very helpful thanks :)
18,f
i like my best friend. yeaaaaah i know, many say its a bad thing but like i really love the kid. the only thing, he had a girlfriend of almost three years, but they just broke things off like two months ago but still hangout and are still close friends which is still heartbreaking because who knows whats going on with them still you know. i just dont know if he likes me back or not. like whenever i bring up a guy he will act like he is not jealous at all and just be like "haha ok" or like someone told him i was going out with this guy and he got reallly mad at me for not telling him AND because he didnt like the kid at all, he was like you better not, oh my god how could you? but it wasnt true at all! i try to be flirty with him and when we're together it's really like a sexual attraction even though we havent done anything yet we flirt ALOT and he always touches me in a way that tells me he wants me. but when i text him sometimes he will be short with me and just be like "lol" or "ok" and it's like okaaaay? but then sometimes he will be all flirty with me when texting. and sometimes we'll be texting and i'll say something and he wont say anything back which makes me feel REALLY stupid. i just don't know what to do. i don't want to confront him about me liking him because i don't even know if he likes me like that and i wouldnt want to ruin our friendship because we're so close.
hold your horses!
you've been flirting with this guy, for how long?
and you still haven't made a move?????
you seem like a replica of me. i had known this guy for seven years, we we're friends, then our friendship grew and grew, then finally, last year i took a hint when he gave me rose scented candles with hearts and roses on them. i told him that i liked him, and ends up he likes me too.
hope you follow the path i did, now i couldn't be happier. i love him to bits. hopefully he will love you to bits and treat you right.
hope i helped
13/F
The problem is that he and my mother got into a big fight and about him not coming home with his complete paycheck which ended in him leaving. He came back and confessed that he had ruined everything he worked for. He is a recovering addict and before he and my ma fought he was hanging with old friends and one of them happened to have drugs and my step father was drunk and had a pocketfull of money and made a really stupid decision. A whole year ruined by one night. I was so proud of him, He was so proud of himself. i dont know what to do. im so disappointed but i feel so bad for him. he and i just sat here and cried while he told me everything. and i all i could think to say was even the strongest ppl. give in. It hurt me so much to see one of the people i love the most and the strongest guy in my life to break down right in front of me. Im lone of the only people that can help him i just have no idea how. I cant just sit back and do nothing. How do i help him? I need to help him.
it isnt good to be under this much stress, if he doesn't be careful he might end up haveing a mental breakdown, then again, he doesn't have to have one. i would say to take him to a doctor, a psychologist or even a gp. him being like this isnt good for you either, by the sounds of it, you seem to have the whole world on your shoulders! helping him would help you as well.
hope all goes well.
if you would like to ask me privately you can email me on
vendulka.w@hotmail.com
When does summer start? I know it offically start the 21st of June but when do most schools get out for summer break?
where?
America, Australia?