Question Posted Wednesday December 2 2009, 8:28 pm
15f
so i have this guy friend who i liked for like ever, and he finally made a move.. but i was already about to get with this guy, and the guy who is my bestfriend held my hand and i kissed him, but my dad would never approve.. well he would but then he wouldnt be able to come stay the night with my brother.. and they are bestfriends.. and so therefore our relationship would be a lie and secret.. and i want a real relationship.. so i am dating this guy who is amazing, but i keep seeing my friends face, and my boyfriend said he loved me and he cares.. but my friend has always been there.. now we are in a fight.. and i care so much for my friend.. but feelings are forming for my boyfriend.. and i dont know what to do.. this should be so much longer haha.. but i balled over my friend because we are in a fight...help.. also my friend has a huge poker face.. he can bury his feelings sooo deep... and right now he is.. and i just want to tell him i love him..
LOOSEY answered Thursday December 3 2009, 8:27 pm: well gurl im kinda in your same spot and the only that i could tell you is listen to your heart it cant never be wrong and lucha for what you want [ LOOSEY's advice column | Ask LOOSEY A Question ]
frangipani answered Thursday December 3 2009, 2:46 am: it seems like you have settled for second best to be your boyfriend. But beware, do not use the word love when you tell your friend. it might scare him off, (it happened to me in a similar situation)instead, tell him you like him but are you sure he made a definite move????? did he kiss you back? if yes then go forward to tell him, if not.... then wait till your absolutely sure. if your boyfriend is understanding it would be better to tell him. if he doesn't understand then he wasn't worth liking him. if your only starting to form a liking for this guy then that scares me. only if i already liked someone first up, then i would be their girlfriend. about your dad, do you have a strong trust with him? does he trust you? if yes then tell him you like this guy. it will only make your relationship with your dad stronger. i hope i helped. =) if you have any problem, ask me on my column. if you are embarrassed about a question, email me at missfrangipanifreak@hotmail.com
hope all goes well. ;) :) =) [ frangipani's advice column | Ask frangipani A Question ]
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