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confused!!!!!!!!
17/f
so my x and i havent spoke for a few months, our past was quite hectic. at the begining we agreed no sex because i wasnt ready and he seemed fine but after some time we had i fight and broke up... after our break up we were sort of friends but he always gave me false hope and took advantage of the fact that i was ''inlove'' with him because he knew how i felt.. during this time he realisesd that i still wasnt goning to get in bed with him and he started acting funny ,i told him to leave me alone but he somehow kept coming back and we were back to sqaure 1.. until i got really tired of it and told him to leave me alone permently, he smsed a few times but i just ignored him... now i really want to talk to him even if its just to say hi bt im scared that im goging to look desparate... plz help???
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its just "hi".. how is that going to make you look desperate??
if you want to talk to him again, id suggest starting off easy. start off by saying hello and asking him how his day was. do this for a few days or even weeks until he knows you want to stay in contact. then progressively start talking to him more. the key thing to remember here is to start slow and don't rush things. if you rush things, it may come off as desperate.
then from there you take the wheel.
but i just want to give you my opinion.. i wouldn't trust him entirely right now. i'm not sure what your past was with him, but don't trust him 100% right now. be careful. let him know he has to earn your trust.
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you will not look desperate, BUT this guy doesnt deserve any kind of acknowledgement from you that he exists. its sick when guys take advantage of a girl like that. just stick to ignoring him for the meantime and im sure eventually youll meet a guy that treats you right. this advice is from someone who's been there. just stay strong. and even though you still care about him, remember how much of a jerk he is. it helps :)
remember, even snow white has to eat a poison apple before her prince comes :)
hope it helps
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