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hidden phone
my boyfriend wont let me near his phone. he gets paranoid if i ask to see it and watches my every move. he sleeps with it in his pocket or under his pillow. should i be worried?
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Most the time I'd say not to worry. But yeah, I would be worried. But not as much as I'd be hurt. To me that's him saying he doesn't trust you, and I've got something to hide. The best way to handle it is maturally. Sit down with him and ask him what's up with the whole phone thing. If he keeps doing it tell him that it hurts you and you want this relationship to work with trustworthiness and honesty, and RESPECT!
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be slick. dont ask just do it. dont bring it up for a week.. and wait.. until he is in the shower and grab it... just be sure you want to know.. because guys are dumb.. and there is something he is hiding
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yea...he's hidding something so you should ask him first and if he gives you the'' you have to trust me '' line then its up to you to belive hi, but I really wouldnt.
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Well you should be worried... It is something that does raise suspicion, but however it dosent mean he is cheating.
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To be honest, yes, you should. It doesn't necessarily mean he's cheating, but it probably does mean he's saying/doing something he wouldn't want you to see. Your best bet is to flat out ask him (in a non-accusatory way) why he's so secretive about his phone and see how he reacts.
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Yes, I'd be suspicious.
I think in a relationship your boyfriend is entitled to his privacy, However if he is going to be acting paranoid and getting to the point where he watches your every move and sleeps with is phone...That's a bit of a sketchy situation and it's a heads up.
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yes you should worry. my ex used to do that and come to find out he was tryin to get a girl to sleep with him. i would say yes be worried. if he had nothing to hide he would let you touch it even if it makes you feel better.
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Honestly if it were me, i'd be worried, but i'm a verrrryy jealous person and worry about everything. I'd be worried he's hidding something. But it could be that he's just protective over his phone or doesnt want you getting any of his friends numbers and talking to them. Maybe you should ask him why hes so protective over his phone, if it takes him a while to answer you or looks around at something else, fiddles with his hands, or covers up his mouth when he talks then more than likely the reason he says, is a lie. Goodluck!
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I'm a firm believer that some things are private matters. Yes, even in relationships. Phone snooping is bad, unless you truly have suspicions.
But obviously you do, and his paranoia when you're asking to see his phone might very well be because he's hiding something.
You need to discuss this with him - if there's nothing to hide, then he can let you look at his phone. Truly. That means before he deletes anything.
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