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Haii waddup waddup. Im short (5'2") but i have a big heart. I'm happily taken by the boy of my dreams. I always want to see the best in people even if they're huge assholes. I am huge into photography and i hope i can get somewhere with that in my life. Partying is where it's at for me. I'm a teenager, shaddup. I sometimes don't abide by rules, but I try my best to follow. I hate blending in with all the trends now a days. What happened to the originality in people? Damn. I prefer to stand out and try to create my own style that fits my personality. I could care less if you copy me. Oh you hate me? Oh, you heard that I did this & that? That's cool. Tell it to someone who cares because NO ONE will bring me down no matter what. I live for myself. I don't need to please you. Family and friends are my utmost highest priority. They have made me into the young woman i am today. I sure as hell know how to have fun. Please don't label me. Today's standards are so lame. I sometimes wish it was still the 70s. No one gave two shits about anything back then. One day I really want to change the world. Making peace is where it's at. I feel like I was put on this earth for a reason and I'm sure as hell going to find out what that is. If you ever meet me for the first time, you'll remember me from my huge hug or obnoxiously loud, adorable laugh that everyone loves. People say I am conceited? I tell them to suck it. I've had my heart broken multiple times but somehow it still manages to love. I got kicked in the ass so many times by "friends" but I somehow still give two shits about people. I get in trouble pretty much all the time and I still have yet to learn how to say "no". I can be your best friend or your worst enemy. You can spill your heart out to me and I'll give you the best advice I can. I curse like a sailor and I couldn't care less whatchu think about me ;D Chat it up because I love new people! Oh & ask me questions because I love giving advice.

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at parties how do i get guys to want to dance with me? yuh know like when they want to get a girl to dance with them they just go behind her and start dancing .. well they dont do that to me and then there dancing with my friends and im dancing alone how do i change that

Don't be a wallflower! Dance and have fun. Even if you have a guy or not. Some helpful advice to get the guy to dance with you, shoot the boy some cute smiles or winks while you're dancing.

You'll definatley get his attention if you bring it :)

Good luck!

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16 year old guy ive been seeing my gf for about 4 months and im a bit worried my penis is 4.5 inches long when erect is that an ok size?
what size do girls like?

Size doesn't matter as long as it gets the job done. Now a days girls and guys are so obsessed with dick sizes and boob sizes.

I hate to break it to ya but not everyone can have the perfect body and others just need to learn how to cope with it. Sex standards are so overrated.

Don't worry about anything,hun

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So I went out with someone a little over a week ago...and he hasn't really talked to me ever since...in fact, I think he's ignoring me almost completely. I think maybe I did something wrong...should I confront him about it?

Instead of jumping down his throat and asking him about why he has been ignoring you, ask him if everything is okay because maybe he has a lot on his mind and he doesn't want to be by anyone.
If nothing is going on and he just doesn't want to talk to you, then that's your cue to confront him.

I highly doubt you did something wrong in a relationship that's been going on for a week.

You have got to talk to him about this before your feelings for him start to diminish.

Good luck

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hi, my name is Caitlin and i am 14 years old. i will be 15 july 28. okay. i have had acrush on a boy since his first day of school. it was sort of obvious i liked him. even the teachers asked if we were dating. anyway... on the day of promotion he told me he liked me. i told him i liked him. he is not aloud to date til he is 16, but he acts like i should ask him out. on the day we got together with a whole bunch of friends he would put is head on my sholder and put his hands on my arms. he got really close to me and it made my stomach do flips. what should i do? ask him out or wait until he asks me when he is 16?

If he can't date until he is 16, then you and him should follow that rule. Instead of having the label "boyfriend and girlfriend", whenever you two are together, just be flirtatious and maybe just be "together" for now. Ya know, just like each other.
If that doesn't work, the option of being friends is always there.

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ill just get right to the point ......... how do you do the best bj to your boyfriend cause hes saying i need to buy a book about it!

He was probably just messing with you saying you need to buy a book on it. He probably meant to just look up how to do it better so it's pleasurable for both of you.
There are probably plenty of websites you can find on google about how to give the best blowjob.

If you don't do that, it's pretty quite simple. Just relax and be comfortable.
And if you don't want to do bj's, tell your man that so you don't seemed forced into doing anything you really don't want to.

And if he doesn't understand, screw him.
I'm sure you can do much better

Good luck!

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Post by: Corez3r0

Just as the title asks "Whats your favorite song?" Theres no wrong answers here. : ) Please respond with an artist name and song title. Just one!

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almost lover (remix) by a fine frenzy

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Why does my man always need to know everything that I do? I have a cellphone that I bought and he wants to know every minute who I am talking to and what I text when I text. He wont let me go out or have any friends. I am just expected to sit home and wait til he gets home from events in his life. Is this love or he loves to control women? He did this with his ex and now me. I didnt know that he was like this. He is the same way as when I am on the internet. I have to even let him know when I have to pee or take a shit!!!

I agree with Christina VV

This shows very early signs of obsession with you. If you don't take action now, follow your instinct, and end it now, then i hate to say it, but this is going to get worse.

Please, do the right thing

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How do i make a girl want me? Everything iv sad or dont she has sad she heres it all the time from other girls and she always gets screwed over. How can i show her that im not gonna screw her over and that i truley want to be with her and that i am different from every other girl? helppp

The best way to answer this is just be yourself. Instead of using other lines people have used in the past, be creative. Don't hover over her all the time to get her to notice you because that's a little creepy. Every now and then, give her a nice smile whenever you see her or say hi and keep walking. If you keep it short and sweet and make yourself irresistible, she will want to talk to YOU.
Once you two get comfortable with each other, explain to her that you are not like anybody else she's been with. You do truly care about her and want nothing but the best for her. Maybe you won't use these exact words or this method. But, if you sit her down and have a conversation and spill your feelings out, from your heart and soul, she sure will understand and make up a decision.

I hope I helped :) GOOD LUCK!

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I see HXC everywhere but I can't find out what it means cause none of my friends know.

Can you tell me?

HXC=Hardcore

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I am looking for a new line of hair shampoos/treatments. I need a new line that suits my hair, which is frizzy, very dry and damaged, straight but poofy and has a lot of kinks in it.

so far i've found

Pantene Pro-V
-time renewal
-hydrating rinse
-deep treatment
-anti-frizz serum

Aussie
-3 minute miracle
-moist shampoo and conditioner

Garnier
-smoothing milk
-leave in cream/serum

Sunsilk
-thermashine shampoo
-pin straight shampoo

Herbal Essences
-hydralicious shampoo

can anyone give me recommendations or their opinions on any of these lines and products? which ones work better?

thank you!!!

I hear that if you want silkier/shiner hair, comb through some apple cider vinegar.

And if you want your hair to become more manageable and regain it's natural oils, heat up olive oil for about 15 seconds, and rub it through DRY hair. Then, wrap your hair in saran wrap and blow dry your hair while the saran wrap is on it. While your head is still hot, place a towel around it and let your hair sit for at least 25-30 minutes.

If those don't work, buy "cholesterol" at your local drugstore.
What that is, is a leave in hair conditioner that makes your hair soft, smooth, and healthy.

I've had dry hair and I've used these methods and they've all worked great! My hair is shiny, smooth, healthy, and more manageable then ever before!

Also, look for hair masks that are for your hair type.

Hope that helps.
Good luck!

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Ok, so for a while I have thought that I was bi-sexual (I am 15/female) I am attracted to boys, but i offten feel for girls too.
So, I have known this girl for a while and we have only been friend for about 6 months, but recently we have been getting along better, and spending more time together.
She has started to joke around with me more and touch me and poke me and stuff, and it isn't helping because I have these strange feelings about her that I am trying to make go away!
I am pretty sure that she is heterosexual. So I am kinda dissappointed because I really want to do something with her like... sexually. and I sometimes fantasize about her and stuff like that. I have felt for girls before but nothing like this.
How do I stop feeling this way? Do you think I am bisexual? Do you think I should kinda hint to her about if she likes girls a bit? Any advice is appreciated, thanks. :)

The way you described what you would like to do to your friend, you are bisexual, or even bi curious.

If your friend isn't bisexual, then you should hold off on telling her because you have just been talking to her for only like 6 months, and you don't want to make anything weird or awkward.

But, if you do want to find out information about her sexual interests in girls, bring it up very indiscreetly and see what she says.
If she becomes uncomfortable change the subject and you have your answer. Shes not into girls.

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Hey! I woke up like a week ago and my boobs hurt. They hurt a lot! This is almost a week later and my boobs still hurt. What does this mean? Do I have cancer? :'(

You definatley don't have cancer.
Whenever my boobs hurt, it's because my period is late, or my period is coming.

Or, it's the occasional growing pains.

But, if the pains continue, talk to your mom or sister or whomever, and maybe get it checked out just to be sure.

Good luck !

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So I was in my room last night and my mom just walked in to bring some towels in and there I was on my bed. :(

She didn't mean anything bad to happen she didn't even think I was there cause I snuck in to do it before I told her I was home. Stupid me!

Anyway, now she is looking at me differently.

What do I do about this?

Has this even happened to anyone else?

I feel terrible! :(

You are definatley not the only one that this had happened to. This had happened to so many of my friends, and what they did, they talked to their moms/dads about this and how they want to start to understand how their body works in this specific environment.

You should do that too. Sit your mom down and talk to her how interested you are in sex and you think you're ready for "the talk"

It may be awkward at first, but remember, your mom will know more about this subject and you will be informed more so you can be careful while having sex.

Good luck :)

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So my friend asks me for homework which i really worked on really hard. I was stupid enough to give it to her. She didn't even thank me! I was really mad at her at that time. Then, after half an hour. she replies "thnx. i didn't really need it. it was for someone else who needed the homework"
1) i know that i shouldn't have given my homework...but is this a good friend or not.. I'm gonna ignore her tomorrow..so that she knows that I didn't like what she had done.
she never even told me that she was gona give it to someone else!

Instead of ignoring her, try to talk to her about how you feel about her stealing your homework. ESPECIALLY, if it's for someone else.

You can try helping her with her homework so she doesn't have to take yours all the time.
If you both understand eachother's feelings, everything will be fine

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does anyone know how to use hulu.com the online film watchin thingy.
thanks (:

I used that website once and I couldn't watch movies without taking this long quiz beforehand. I asked so many people how to watch a movie without going through that long process and they said you couldn't.

SO i don't think you can. If you find out how pleeaseee let me know :)!

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Okay so I nee this question answered immediately! -November 13!- I need to know what to wear tomorrow! i have a date at the movies and I usually Know what to wear but I don't this time! Help me! My style is kind of Punk/gothy so I need something in that region!

You should defintaley wear a pair of ripped skinny jeans, if you have them. If not, find an old pair of jeans and cut them up, fray them, and there ya go! For a shirt, wear a colored v-neck with a different colored camosel (preferably black or white) underneath the v-neck with the camosel sticking out on the bottom. Shoes. Hmmm, either converse (hightops, tuck your jeans in them if you're wearing skinny jeans) or checkered vans. For a jacket, wear your best hoodie, of course it has to match. Jewerly wise, maybe a long necklace with either Hello Kitty on it or some other punk jewerly item.

I don't know what you have in your closet so I'm just throwing some ideas out there that you may like (:

If you don't have anything like that, try a band t-shirt, with a plaid shirt over it (colors have to somewhat match), with black skinny jeans, and converse or whatever shoe you would like to wear.

Good luck on your first date! I'd love to hear how it went

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Recently, my friend has been talking about how hot he thinks his teacher his. He keeps saying he fantasizes about her and he worships her. He said he likes walking past her room having excuses just to walk by her and at the end of the day waiting to see her leave, he said he wants to buy the yearbook and school newsaper just to oogle and at any pictures of her in them, saying "pictures of my hot teacher are like what pornography is to other people. Worst of all, he said he wishes she was a pedophile and if she wanted to rape him he'd be all for it, and he also said he hopes her boyfriend dies. This sounds kind of funny but also weird to me. I guess you could find a teacher hot, but still. Is this normal, or has he gone too far?

friend is 16 teacher is about 26

Oh boyyyy-
Uhm, I believe it is normal to have little teacher crushes.
Boys do have these weird sex fantasies about hot women they wish were theirs. You cant help how this boy feels, or control it for that matter. If it makes you feel uncomfortable when he talks about this, then tell him that. Make sure he knows not to talk about it with you. Maybe the other boys who want to have sex with her.

GOOD LUCK

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Well I'm a junior in high school, and last year this boy, who flirts a lot with many girls, including me, started to really have feelings for me, and I just blew it off because he was always just play flirting. He finally convinced me he was serious, and I really started to develop feelings for him. I found out he had a girlfriend this whole time, and got mad at him for flirting so much with me. He told me he didn't like her and broke up with her. I really liked him so we started dating over the summer. He started acting very weird and ignoring me after a few weeks, I finally got sick of it and we decided we were going to take a break, which turned into a break-up. We came back to school and he apparently liked a new girl. He still texts me and tells me he misses talking to me, but always changes the subject when it comes to our relationship. He also told me he didn't like the other girl. I don't know what to do because I've tried to get over this boy but I really think I fell in love, and now I'm stuck because I know I should get over him but I cant. I don't know what to do because he obviously has problems with staying with one girl, but i just dont get how he can go from being sooo into me, to this. I'm just miserable and don't know what to do because I dont want to give this up when I know hes the one for me. Please any advice that would help would be greatly appreciated:)

Aw, I know exactly how you feel because I've been in the same situation. Boys always send mixed signals and it gets you so frustrated that you want to pull out all your hair, right?
In this case, this boy may like you a lot, but he sounds to me like a player. He flirted with you while he had a girlfriend, dumped her, went out with you, ignored you, you two broke up, and then when school starts, he's liking another girl !
He may have seemed worth all the trouble in the beginning before you found out about him fully, but now since you know what he's like, you should still be his friend of course, but nothing more. But, if you really want to be with him, you should tell him how you feel about this situation and how it's affecting you emotionally, and if he understands, you have to tell him that he must change in order for this to work.

If you need anything else, just ask !

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