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cant date til 16. what to do.
hi, my name is Caitlin and i am 14 years old. i will be 15 july 28. okay. i have had acrush on a boy since his first day of school. it was sort of obvious i liked him. even the teachers asked if we were dating. anyway... on the day of promotion he told me he liked me. i told him i liked him. he is not aloud to date til he is 16, but he acts like i should ask him out. on the day we got together with a whole bunch of friends he would put is head on my sholder and put his hands on my arms. he got really close to me and it made my stomach do flips. what should i do? ask him out or wait until he asks me when he is 16?
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If he can't date until he is 16, then you and him should follow that rule. Instead of having the label "boyfriend and girlfriend", whenever you two are together, just be flirtatious and maybe just be "together" for now. Ya know, just like each other.
If that doesn't work, the option of being friends is always there.
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I think if his parents have set the rule that he can't date til 16, he should follow it. It may be a stupid rule, but it's his parents rule & they've set it for a reason.
Now, if he disagrees with the rule which I'm assuming he does, why doesn't he just talk to them about it? If he tells them that there's a girl he really likes, and he's willing to take things slow (especially because you are both around 14 or 15 & shouldn't be moving fast to begin with), maybe they'll allow it.
I had the same rule that he had when I was 14 and I talked to my parents about a boy I liked and even brought him over so they could meet him. Once they saw he was nice, they really softened up to my suggestion, and I've been dating ever since. I'm 18 now. All he needs to do is talk to them calmly, and not through a fit, and maybe you can even meet his parents. :) Suggest that to him and see what he says. If he really likes you, maybe he'll be open to bringing it up with them. Good luck!
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you dont have to wait till he is 16. when i was at the age when boys started to like me and ask me out my parents said i couldnt date till i was 18. so i started going out with 4-5 people at once. that was ok. try asking some of yoour friends if they wanted to hang out. if they say yes, thats great then ask your crush to come with. throughout the nite still stay by frends just kind of exclude yourselves from doing what they do and do what you 2 want. at the end of the date meet back up with frends and go home. perfect night
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why not just wait hang out ack like boyfreind and girlfirend a little with things like goto event movies and things and just talk get to know eachother and make shure you are not confusing your feeling with your sexuall thoughts as most teens do make shure it is love before commiting to anything as you should with any person you wont to date what every your age
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