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why do men like to control there girlfriends?
Why does my man always need to know everything that I do? I have a cellphone that I bought and he wants to know every minute who I am talking to and what I text when I text. He wont let me go out or have any friends. I am just expected to sit home and wait til he gets home from events in his life. Is this love or he loves to control women? He did this with his ex and now me. I didnt know that he was like this. He is the same way as when I am on the internet. I have to even let him know when I have to pee or take a shit!!!
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I agree with Christina VV
This shows very early signs of obsession with you. If you don't take action now, follow your instinct, and end it now, then i hate to say it, but this is going to get worse.
Please, do the right thing <3
good luck.
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Take this as a warning, and a suggestion that you should put into action: DUMP HIM.
Controlling behavior is a sign of abuse. It may just be trust issues and making you tell him everything now, but the longer you stay with him, the more out of hand his behavior will get. If you stay, this situation will get more and more dangerous and will do nothing to benefit you.
Please dump him. You will be doing yourself a mighty big favor.
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You aren't going to tolerate this much longer, do everyone a favor and break it off now. Look at it this way, a guy this controlling is going to freak out and do some pretty stupid shit trying to get you back or force you back. The longer you date, the more he gets invested in you, the worse that freak out is going to be.
End it now and hopefully you can save yourself 6 months of stalking and a restraining order.
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i dont think he is trying to be controlling.
i think he just has trust issues.
if he wants to know where you are all the time it means he cares about you and loves you. he just wants to be reassured that you are being faithful to him. he wants to protect you and make sure you are ok. if you have a problem with that then confront him. tell him that you love him with all your heart but you just want a little freedom. promise to tell him anying important but also tell him that you need friends and you need time alone. just be gentle.
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I think they like to feel powerful in the relationship try talking to him and say that you aren't liking that he is controlling you and that if he continues you'll break up with him also say that there's no need for him to control every aspect of your life there's no point in staying in the relationship if your miserable i think he likes to control women for whatever reason it doesn't seem like love seems like all he's doing is controlling you
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