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Wanting to kiss my friend?
Ok, so for a while I have thought that I was bi-sexual (I am 15/female) I am attracted to boys, but i offten feel for girls too.
So, I have known this girl for a while and we have only been friend for about 6 months, but recently we have been getting along better, and spending more time together.
She has started to joke around with me more and touch me and poke me and stuff, and it isn't helping because I have these strange feelings about her that I am trying to make go away!
I am pretty sure that she is heterosexual. So I am kinda dissappointed because I really want to do something with her like... sexually. and I sometimes fantasize about her and stuff like that. I have felt for girls before but nothing like this.
How do I stop feeling this way? Do you think I am bisexual? Do you think I should kinda hint to her about if she likes girls a bit? Any advice is appreciated, thanks. :)
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The way you described what you would like to do to your friend, you are bisexual, or even bi curious.
If your friend isn't bisexual, then you should hold off on telling her because you have just been talking to her for only like 6 months, and you don't want to make anything weird or awkward.
But, if you do want to find out information about her sexual interests in girls, bring it up very indiscreetly and see what she says.
If she becomes uncomfortable change the subject and you have your answer. Shes not into girls.
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theres two things that could be happenin here:
1. you are indeed bisexual and you really want to do somethin with a girl !
2. you are bi-curious and you really want to do somethin with a girl, which could lead you to either bein bisexual or realizin you werent !
if either one is the case, this girl who is youre good friend is the center of your sexual frustration.
maybe when she touches you just kid around and be like 'homo' and see what she says about it. if she says somethin that kind of sounds like she could be, ask her ! if she seems freaked out about it just say your kidding
orr....
you can just flat out ask her if shes ever thought about girls before ! if youre comfortable enough with her then it shouldnt be a problem !
i told my best friend, and it ended up we both were bisexual haha.
good luck :)
x sweeethoney
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This is just my recommendation. Calmly confront her. Sit down and ask her one day. You two are really close friends, the most that could happen is that she tells you she's straight. I really don't think that would ruin your friendship or anything. Go for it! : )
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Yes i do think your bi also it's worth a shot to
hint to her about if she likes girls i say go for it if for some reason something goes wrong you'll still know you tried trying is better then not doing anything it seems to me like you like her which is a advantage for you if you feel those feelings starting to come then take a deep breath and calm yourself do something to take your mind off them keep yourself busy :)
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