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moaning?! :X
16/f well i have this boyfriend and in 4 days we'll have been together for 2 months. well he's VERY sexually active & wayyy more experienced then me [he's 16 also] but i've only done it once. [& it wasn't what i expected. i had a straight face & i stopped the guy in the middle of us doin it. he was kinda small] but back to my boyfriend. i'm not saying that we're going to have sex asap. cause i don't wanna rush it cause i really wanna be with him. but i'm just asking for when the time comes how would it go. [like kinda give me pointers on what to do and stuff] cause it'll feel weird him knowing what he's doing & me just being clueless. ohhh and moaning. does everyone moan ? cause i don't wanna be a moaner lol but i don't want him to feel like he's not doing anything. but idk i don't really like moaning sounds & i think i might sound weird . so tips on that ?
tips tips tips ?
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since he's more experienced, have him be on top until you get the hang of it. you won't really have to do much, just let him do everything but maybe like run your hands down his back or something to let him know he's doing his job well hah. and for the moaning thing, just let it come naturally, you can also breathe heavily too, apparently all that turns guys on lol.
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i think you need to learn more about anyone before stepping into having a sexual relationship.
For what i can tell your new boyfriend wants sex.. if this is what you really want in your love life then no matter what my opinion is you wont care..but as i was saying i really think youre not doing the wrong thing in really taking the time to really think about sex. If you base your relationship on sex then thats all that will exist in your relationship just sex and a booty call...sorry but thats the truth. Have sex when you are ready not when you think youre ready, and always remember you can always have sex tomorrow now may not be the right time. beofre you decide to have sex think about this sex is a benefit in a relationship and just like you can only have nebefits at a job you work for you will need to also have a lover that will work with you in your feelings, thoughts, beliefs, goals and Future see yourself with this guy as a long relationship? or will it be a booty call? would you give benefits to a worker if hes not going to be loyal, dedicated, commited, resposible?. If you think about it as much as possible it wont be difficult for you to express yourself and be sexually aroused with humger to be filled with satisfaction by your lover, and that will clear up any feelings on how you will moan, enjoy, and feel compltely satisfied.
I hope this helps, even if you low grade me.
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Don't your too young.
xoxo,
dottie4
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The best thing before that is to get to know one another. I don't mean personality wise but find out what you like and what he likes. Moaning is not something I really like either and it makes it sound so fake. The best thing to do is stay relaxed and let it come naturally, don't focus on it so much. If you think about what you are suppose to do and when, you will get nervous and make it a bad experience. The point in all of this is to make you happy so telling him things that you like is the best starting point. This could be making out, pleasurable things, feeling, etc.
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