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What should I do with a friend like this??


Question Posted Friday November 13 2009, 1:37 pm

So my friend asks me for homework which i really worked on really hard. I was stupid enough to give it to her. She didn't even thank me! I was really mad at her at that time. Then, after half an hour. she replies "thnx. i didn't really need it. it was for someone else who needed the homework"
1) i know that i shouldn't have given my homework...but is this a good friend or not.. I'm gonna ignore her tomorrow..so that she knows that I didn't like what she had done.
she never even told me that she was gona give it to someone else!


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azndude09 answered Sunday November 15 2009, 2:35 am:
I wouldn't call that a good friend because when you think about it, she is only using you as a reference to make herself look good. Fight for you right and confront her about it. You may lose her but it's not worth being friends with a cheater. Find real friends.

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Liiindax3 answered Saturday November 14 2009, 3:14 pm:
Instead of ignoring her, try to talk to her about how you feel about her stealing your homework. ESPECIALLY, if it's for someone else.

You can try helping her with her homework so she doesn't have to take yours all the time.
If you both understand eachother's feelings, everything will be fine <3

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doodly_poodly answered Friday November 13 2009, 9:35 pm:
The best way to deal with a friend like this is not to ignore her. Let her know straight out that what she did was wrong. You worked very hard on that homework and she had no right to ask for it and then give it to someone else without your knowledge. Tell her that what she did hurt you and that you thought the two of you were closer friends than that.

If she's pulling stunts like this and acting like a jerk, she's not as good of a friend as you may have originally assumed. As hard as this is to cope with, if she doesn't stop acting childish, drop her. Ignore her completely. Perhaps it will get the message through to her.

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sunshine1232 answered Friday November 13 2009, 9:28 pm:
No she isn't a good friend if she didn't tell you that she planned on giving it to someone i wouldn't suggest ignoring her if i were you i'd try and talk to her and find the person that has your homework and get it back holding a grudge aganist her isn't going to help if you do happen to talk to her tell her how you feel make it known to her that you were angry by what she did
and say that it wasn't right to do that way she'll
know that you didn't like what she did

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cuddlemonster answered Friday November 13 2009, 7:44 pm:
Okay. You're going to ignore her. What's the question?

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