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Im a sparno2 with a very wide range from alto2 to a sparno1. So I can sing almost any female song that you can throw at me. Well I have a tryout next week for a musical and Im supose to be singing a song from any boardway musical that I want. But it has to fit my person. I in my late teens early 20s and Im not the romantic type. But Im a wonderful actress. Any ideas of what I should sing? (link)
How about I'm Not That Girl from Wicked. It is sung by Elphaba and can be sung by either an alto or a soprano.

Hope this helps.


is it possible to lose weight without exercising? its winter andi cant go out and run because of my asthma but is it possible to just not eat alot or just eat like fruits and drop like 10 lbs? (link)
The only real way to do that is to not eat, which isn't healthy at all.

But, it doesn't have to be spring or summer for it to be possible to exercise. You could get a treadmill or join a gym, or even jog in place for a little while each day. You could also do 50 push-ups and sit-ups a day to stay healthy.

Another way to go about with losing weight would be to change your diet. Try and eat a more balanced diet.

I'm sure that this is all things that you've heard before, but I do hope it helped, at least a little.


The thing is we want everyone to knoww were in love but its just a thing between are familys that were trying to keep it on the downlow..and we get scared to go out because we dont wanna get caught up..but i still do feel lyke im being used and when i tell him we just arguee non stop him saying he loves me n all but i dk? (link)
'I love you' is a very overused phrase. It's possible that he is confused about his feelings for you, and when you bring this up to him, he wants you to have a reason to stay with him.

As you said, this has been going on for a while, and maybe he feels confused about the things going on his life right now.

Most of all, if you feel insecure about what's going on because he hasn't really talked to you about telling others about the both of you. The best thing to do with this is to sit down and talk to him about it. If he's not willing to listen, or tells you that what you're feeling is all wrong, he isn't worth it.


whats the difference between love and lust?? what do i have..like when me and my guy chill we ussually get intamte we dont go out or anything its just always in his car doing you kno.. we have been together for 2 years and ome months and never did we do anything fun and when i do mention to go out he doesnt like that idea because were keeping are relationship on the downlow for now and i dont even know its so confusing? can somebody help me out with this.. id appreciate it thanks (link)
Love and lust are two very different things, and you were smart to start to question your relationship with this guy. Unfortunately, the differences are somewhat difficult to explain.

It sounds to me like he is using you. Have you ever heard that phrase 'friends with benefits'? It seems to me that this is the kind of relationship that you have with him. The fact that he wants to have sex with you, but not commit, could mean he has a problem with emotional commitment.

I believe that the only way to deal with this is to confront him. If he says says something and you believe that is telling the truth, perhaps you should give him another chance to set things straight. If he doesn't, it would most likely be time to drop him. I'm sorry that I'm putting this so bluntly, but if he is using you, it's the only way to deal with a situation like this.

I hope this helps you. If he doesn't, I'm sorry. Good luck with everything.


okay so there's this guy i like and a lot of people say he likes me. I dont think he likes me because if he did he wouldn't day I was a ugly pathetic loser. BUT he still looks at me 24/7. I dont get it! (link)
It could be that he's confused about how he feels about you. Perhaps he's mentioned to some people that he could like you. Wait for him to come around. If he does like you, he'll show it eventually. If he doesn't it will also be pretty evident. Keep this in mind and good luck!


when putting music on a ipod touch do you have to use itunes or can you just put music from your computer on to it ? (link)
Usually music from your computer imports itself straight to iTunes. If it doesn't you can always import CDs straight into iTunes. I hope that helps, though you probably already knew that. :D I hope it helps out.


does anyone know if having bad credit can keep you from being able to adopt? (link)
Usually it only prohibits buying automobiles and cell phone usage plans. It shouldn't.


So my bf has really bad breath. like i call him BBB whne he isn't around because it is so bad. Everyone else knows but him. What do I do about it? He can't smell it so he thinks everyone is kidding with him but my boyfriend's breath is AWFUL!

Help? (link)
The best way to deal with a boyfriend with bad breath is always to let him know--who wants to kiss someone with bad breath?

The best way to deal with this is to sit him down and tell him gently that maybe he should consider breath mints, gum, or mouth wash. Other than that, there really isn't much else you can do. To deal with bad breath, you first have to know that its there. He can't know that if he doesn't believe anyone.


So my friend asks me for homework which i really worked on really hard. I was stupid enough to give it to her. She didn't even thank me! I was really mad at her at that time. Then, after half an hour. she replies "thnx. i didn't really need it. it was for someone else who needed the homework"
1) i know that i shouldn't have given my homework...but is this a good friend or not.. I'm gonna ignore her tomorrow..so that she knows that I didn't like what she had done.
she never even told me that she was gona give it to someone else! (link)
The best way to deal with a friend like this is not to ignore her. Let her know straight out that what she did was wrong. You worked very hard on that homework and she had no right to ask for it and then give it to someone else without your knowledge. Tell her that what she did hurt you and that you thought the two of you were closer friends than that.

If she's pulling stunts like this and acting like a jerk, she's not as good of a friend as you may have originally assumed. As hard as this is to cope with, if she doesn't stop acting childish, drop her. Ignore her completely. Perhaps it will get the message through to her.


What would you do if you know that this guy likes you and he is the GAYEST guy on earth and you HATE him?!?!
By the way: that guy keeps on asking about my feelings and talks to me...asks me personal questions which r none of his business. (link)
Well, as you said, he obviously likes you. The best way to get him away would NOT be to hurt his feelings shamelessly. Although it might seem like the right thing to do at the time, you will regret it later on.

All I can say to you is, let him know how you feel. If he's asking you personal questions that you would rather not answer, ignore him, or tell him that you simply are not comfortable with talking about those things with him. If this doesn't get him to go away, break it to him gently that you do not feel the same way towards him as he feels towards you.

I hope this helps! Good luck! :D


Hi, I'm 15/f and these past couple years I've gotten really close to two of my friends. This summer my two bestfriends (who weren't at close to eachother as they were to me) and I kind of formed a group of five with two other girls that I wasn't as close with but still was pretty good friends with. We were always doing stuff together, hanging out whenever possible, going to events together, ect. Up until mid October this year, all of a sudden my two original bestfriends started getting REALLY close. Leaving me out, ganging up on my opinions, taking sides with eachother and telling eachother everything about their love lifes. This is what they both used to do with me rather than eachother. I'm glad that they got really close but now its gotten to the point thatI don't hangout with either of them that much anymore and that its just akward when I do. I would love for me to become closer to them again but I don't want to be the only one trying. Does anyone have any advice on how to act in the meantime, what my additude should be towards this situation, what i should do in general? Please help me, I'm like really depressed :/ (link)
I'm going through the exact same thing this year. My best friend of 3 years has gotten really close with two of my other friends, and, seemingly, forgetting me. Yes, it hurts a lot and there's really nothing help get rid of that pain.

Someone gave me some advice, and I think maybe it will help you too. What they told me was; Stop. Think for a minute. Evaluate the situation. Once you've done that, turn around and spread out. By that, I mean make new friends. Hang out with other people that you don't see often. Become close with other people. Then, maybe they'll have an idea of what you're going through. If they still don't understand after that, they aren't worth it.

Breaking off friendships is a hard thing to do, but once it's done, it will feel better than having yourself forgotten by two people you trusted completely.

I hope this helps. If it doesn't, you can kick me. :D Good luck.


Ok so i am kinda thin but i would like to look like a VS model (who wouldn't right?) but as much as i work out and stuff i just can't seem to get the body that they have..... so what do they eat? (link)
They all have their own nutritionists and personal trainers.

However, I do know for a fact that most models to not eat anything. Mostly they last on crackers and water--not that I'm saying that's what you should do.


When is the worst time to get pregnant?

Is there one time that is better and another time that is worse? When is the absolute worst time so I can have sex and not get pregnant? (link)
The worst time to get pregnant differs on the person. If someone is married at the age of 19 and ready for kids, that would be different than a woman who is unmarried at the age of 30 with an unstable career.

Due to the fact that I do not know your situation, there's not much I can do to help you. Just think about yourself and when you think things will be okay to have limited mobility for 9 months.


Ok everyone please try not to make tooo much fun of me, but I am 25 and never had a boyfriend. I guess what I am asking is simple: Is my life over? Is there any hope if you haven't had a boyfriend by 25?

I don't know what I am doing wrong. I just haven't found anyone that I find really interesting yet.

Should I stop waiting for interesting just to have someone in my life? Is it better to be bored WITH someone than bored without someone? I don't know anymore! Help!

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There's nothing wrong with being your age and never having had a serious relationship. It just means that you haven't found the right guy yet. I'm sure he'll come around eventually, and when he does, it just means that you're more inviting towards him.

Don't worry. There's nothing to be embarrassed about.


Okay, so does anyone know name of the poem below:

"Back to back they faced each other, drew their swords and shot each other. A deaf police men heard the noise and came to see the two dead boys."

I'm not sure about the last line. And I don't really know the rest of the poem, but I know it goes on. Does any one know the name? Or at least the rest of the poem? (link)
The poems name is Two Dead Boys, though the author of it is anonymous. The version I was taught this poem by was:

One bright day
In the middle of the night
Two dead boys got up to fight
Back to back they faced one another
Drew their swords and shot each other
A deaf policeman heard the noise
And he ran and he killed those two dead boys
And if you don't believe it's true
Ask the blind man;
He saw it too.




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