Ok everyone please try not to make tooo much fun of me, but I am 25 and never had a boyfriend. I guess what I am asking is simple: Is my life over? Is there any hope if you haven't had a boyfriend by 25?
I don't know what I am doing wrong. I just haven't found anyone that I find really interesting yet.
Should I stop waiting for interesting just to have someone in my life? Is it better to be bored WITH someone than bored without someone? I don't know anymore! Help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? SerenaDivinity answered Wednesday November 11 2009, 3:40 am: I knew a man who did not have a girlfriend for 6 years straight. He had been very hurt and had pretty well given up hope on finding someone. He pictured that his life would be spent alone.
This man, an electrician, got a small job hooking up electrical for a shelf in Wal Mart. That day, a young woman and her best friend were wandering around. Their paths crossed and they fell head over heels. They bumped into each other again a month later, decided to stay in touch,
and married a year and a half later.
The point is you are NOT alone. Don't look for love, let it find you. When it does, it will be unexpected. But if you close your heart, and convince yourself you will be alone forever, chances are: you will be. The power of the mind and heart are everything, especially when you make them work together. Keep your heart open for love.
You must be a very reserved woman and I detect a strong sense of personality. Stay happy and confident.. Some lucky guy out there will discover you eventually. The time will be just right,
and it will make all the years you spent waiting worth the while.
applegirllx97 answered Tuesday November 10 2009, 7:49 pm: Omgg stop!! Your life is not over. You are so YOUNG!! Be lucky that your pure and dont have any loose baggage in the past lol. You will find someone eventually and it will be love :) [ applegirllx97's advice column | Ask applegirllx97 A Question ]
hershikissescanhelp answered Tuesday November 10 2009, 6:59 pm: hmm..maybe you're scaring men. Men are aaprobably afraid to date you because you may "seem" mean, just by the expression on your face. Do you smile when guys come around? Do you give off a positive vibe? Maybe you should put yourself out more. Start conversations, smile, laugh, show that you're interested :] Be happy. and confidence is KEY! Guys love a girl whose confident and has a luminous personality.
doodly_poodly answered Tuesday November 10 2009, 5:33 pm: There's nothing wrong with being your age and never having had a serious relationship. It just means that you haven't found the right guy yet. I'm sure he'll come around eventually, and when he does, it just means that you're more inviting towards him.
hitler_the_goat answered Tuesday November 10 2009, 2:29 pm: you could also move somewhere that has more dudes than girls. for example: athens, Ga has 118 girls to every 100 dudes. thats where I'm going. anchorage, alaska has a dude-heavy population, as does most of alaska. it stacks the odds in your favor. just wikipedia any town you want to see the ratio.
besides, I haven't had a girlfriend in years, its normal. don't sweat it.
-Gunner [ hitler_the_goat's advice column | Ask hitler_the_goat A Question ]
sunshine1232 answered Tuesday November 10 2009, 1:22 pm: No your life isn't over yes i do think there's hope for you there's hope for everyone there are plenty of boys out there you've just got to find the right one for you if you haven't found anyone that's interesting then i'd continue to wait he'll show up at some point be patient it's better to be bored without someone because if your bored with someone then they'll most likely bore you and you'll lose interest in them very quickly :) [ sunshine1232's advice column | Ask sunshine1232 A Question ]
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