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Age: 18
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I am seeing a LOT of questions about weed and I just want to know why so many people seem to be SO into this whole weed / pot thing?
I guess the answer would come from answering what's it feel like to be high on weed?
Anyone able to explain it well? I rate! (link)
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It feels different for everyone. If you find something funny you will laugh REALLY hard about it (which is fun). It could make you more quiet, or tired. Definitly hungry. You dont really halucinate though, I mean sometimes I guess but not much. And it generally makes you feel really good. Its not a very strong drug though, your mostly aware of your surroundings other then beng drunk where you cant walk, you can still be normal while your high. Hope I helped =)
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Don't ask me why, ok? I need to know how long you can go without eating before something bad happens? I don't want to die but I need to lose weight and I have tried it all.
please don't judge me. :( (link)
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You need to eat every day. If you dont you will become ill and also known as anorexic. Eat the right foods and work out and drink lots of water. You will slowly lose weight (I promise)
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18/f
Freshman college student.
I hang out with 3 other girls who live down the hall from me. One of the girls has liked a sophomore guy(Drew) since the beginning of school. He helped her move in to her dorm. I always knew who he was but we never talked more than a few words in a group conversation. Well Friday night 2 of the 3 girls and some guys including Drew were hanging out. We started drinking and my friends left because they're uncomfortable with it so I stayed back with the guys. I had never really hung out with any of them much before but I wasn't ready to go to bed. We ended up hanging out until 5 in the morning.
Saturday night. The same thing happens, all the girls and the same guys are hanging out. The guys were drunk, I didn't have any but the girls were uncomfortable again and left around 11. Me and Drew had started up our own conversation, isolating ourselves from the group and didn't even notice the girls leave. At around 1:30am the guys went to bed, leaving me and Drew on the floor of the common room talking. We talked until 6:30am! About everything, relationships, jobs, family, sex, school, our major (everyone I've mentioned are all in the same major). At 6:30 people started waking up and came out and saw us still sitting on the floor so we decided it was best if we went to bed. He asked for my number, walked me to my door and then he left.
Sunday, we were all working late hours on projects in the studio and I was most likely going to pull an all nighter. Drew, who usually would visit my friend at her desk was now visiting me more frequently and my friend definitely noticed. She had stopped talking to me, gave Drew an attitude, and gave us both dirty looks. He didn't want to talk to someone who gave him an attitude for no reason so he just continued to stay at my desk and ignore my friend. I have yet to flirt with him! And he always comes to me but my friend is still mad. She has a very bubbly personality and doesn't know how to flirt, so I'm sure he's clueless that she likes him. I have been myself the whole time and he hasn't stopped talking to me since that night when we stayed up. Well my friend left the studio at 4 in the morning without a goodbye. We were supposed to walk back together so we didn't have to walk in the dark alone but instead she just left without me. So I stayed and finished my project until 6 when Drew and I decided to call it quits. He walked me to my room again and then left to go to his dorm.
Today we were texting and his response to something I said was "You are sooo awesome, how have we never talked before?"
I don't know what to do. The only reason I haven't flirted with him is because of my friend's feelings towards him but he doesn't have feelings for her at all and her bitchy behavior lowered the chances of that ever happening. She's turning the group against me for 'stealing her man' even though she never told him she liked him and I never flirted. If he likes me, I'm sorry but thats not my fault so I don't deserve an attitude. I thought college was about growing up and getting away from childish behavior and drama.
What do I do? I see them both everyday. (link)
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You really should just explain to her that your intentions were not to try and steal this drew guy. Its not your fault that Drew likes you and not your friend (but dont tell her that lol). She is just acting like she is in high school and seriously if you guy are in college she definitly needs to grow up or isnt a true friend obviousllyy! Hope I helped =)
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Ok everyone please try not to make tooo much fun of me, but I am 25 and never had a boyfriend. I guess what I am asking is simple: Is my life over? Is there any hope if you haven't had a boyfriend by 25?
I don't know what I am doing wrong. I just haven't found anyone that I find really interesting yet.
Should I stop waiting for interesting just to have someone in my life? Is it better to be bored WITH someone than bored without someone? I don't know anymore! Help!
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Omgg stop!! Your life is not over. You are so YOUNG!! Be lucky that your pure and dont have any loose baggage in the past lol. You will find someone eventually and it will be love :)
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Ok so i am kinda thin but i would like to look like a VS model (who wouldn't right?) but as much as i work out and stuff i just can't seem to get the body that they have..... so what do they eat? (link)
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They are verrrrrry active and eat very healthy!! they exercise alot and eat very healthy foods atleast thats what miranda kerr says ha! and yeah ofcours they are naturally thin, and tall (im the same but not their thin either aha) search miranda kerr on google and her diets, i dont remember when or where she said that she eats really healthy but i know she said she does! hope i helped :)
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 and half months now, shes 16 and Im 18.. For almost the first 4 months, we would see each other everyday and hangout all the time. But in the last three weeks, she has been hanging out with her friends way more which means I have been pushed aside. I asked her about it and she said it's because she thinks that her friends wont be around for ever and she wants to have fun with them while she can. Why do you think this is happening all of a sudden? Does it mean something? How should I confront her about it? Any advice I can get would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance. (link)
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No it shouldnt mean anything, you should just tell her how you feel and tell her that YOU want to hang out with her more. You guys just need to balance your time spent together more and spent not together. Your girlfriend needs to have friends and you need t have your friends! You both should do stuff other then hanging out with just eachother..you will appreciate each other more =)
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I'm 13 and I would like to be a professinal dancer. I've only had 2 years of dance experiance. I love dance so much. I'm very flexible. Do you think I could even consider going pro? I know most girls start when there very young. Do you think I could do it? (link)
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Most professional dancers have way more experience then 2 years and yeah they do most likely start when they are young. However, if your good then why not? You just need to practice alotttt and dance would have to be your life lol! But your still young so I dont know if you want to be a professional dancer when you grow up or now? Im confused. But anyways in the future Im sure you will have alot of practice. Hope I helped :)
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I'm 14 and my penis is 5.5 inches is that small? (link)
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Your too young to have your penis be fully grown and dont worry you wont be ready for sex in a couple years ;) Jk..but dont worry thats not small at all and it will still grow!
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18/f
So I gained weight from the craptastic food in my cafeteria (no wonder they call it the freshmen 15). I think I gained about 5lbs, which I hope isn't from the food because I just started exercising again + doing weights. It's kind of a slap to the face after losing 15 lbs. (I'm 135lbs right now)
I don't know how to balance my food out, since the food at the 'deli' area is so fattening and the only other foods include crackers+tuna dip, cereal and salad. There is no normal meat that isn't deep fried or coated in sketchy gravy. Would the only alternative for me be eating salad and crackers for the rest of university? ): I don't know how I'm going to lose another 15-20lbs by the end of university. Most of all, I want to fit into a size 2-4, instead of 6.
Other than that, I'm so far planning to exercise at least 3-4 days a week, for about an hour or so. On some days it'll be more than an hour for weights (45-60 minutes of cardio, 15-30 minutes or so of weights). (link)
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Okay so you definitly should exercise like you said!! And yeah like just try to eat the more (fattening) foods like 2-3 times a week and not all 5 or 7 lol. Eat more salads and light foods on certain days. But make sure to eat enough and always drink water! But you didnt gain much weght if you only gained 5 pounds but I totally understand how you feel, I have been eating sooo much fast food and I dont even live at my college for my first year lol its crazy..but I definitly and you definitly need to balance out diets. Im sure your college has fruits you can have in the morning, and vegetables and healthy foods! Hope I Helepd :)
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okay so yea theres this guy im a sohpmore and i see him in the hallway all the time. i think hes is really cute. i know friends who i think know him but im not sure what to do? help please. (link)
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Okay well make sure every time you see him look at him get his attention and smile at him :) If he does the same back then you know he is most likely interested! After a week or so doing those little things (if he doesnt) start talking to you say Hi one day. Or ask him a stupid question about school or something totally random. And then start asking your friends that know him about him and just simply get to know him! It wont be hard :)
Hope I helped :)
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My dad watches porn.... I know, like how creepy right? he is like old. what do old people want porn for? he is like 35!!
I found his porn and i have been looking at my dads porn. i think it is so gross that he watches porn when he is soooo old why is that? why is it ok for me but not for him?
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Um your dad isnt old at all.. Porn is for everyone NOT just teenagers..If you really think that old people dont watch porn then your obviously clueless about the world because ofcourse they do. Sorry that you had to see your dad's porn but your old enough to understand what it is and why people watch it.
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My boyfriend calls me every night and I absolutely love talking to him but I don't know what to talk about any more. It seems like we've talked about most things and I don't want to sound stupid and repeat myself over and over. I also try not to talk about sex because we both want to wait until we're married (maybe to each other in the future even, which would be so awesome!). I need some really good topics to talk to him on the phone about.
So, what are some topics you talk about on the phone with your boyfriend? ANYTHING is appreciated! (link)
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*how your day was
*watch television together (on the phone) and talk about that
*childhood memories..funny moments..etc..
*upcoming events/school stuff/holidays etc
*make sure to ask him how he is an how his day was
i dont know me and my boyfriend usually watch tv whle were on the phone and we talk about that or we will talk about our day..and stuff!
hope i helped :)
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what is wrong with me? I don't feel like being around anyone at all. It's a friday night and I want to lay down and watch a movie by myself. My friend said she doesnt want to go out wither and drink like usual so instead we planned on making dinner and renting a movie. I dont even feel like being around her even though the idea sounds nice. It's not her it's me I dont feel like socializing lately. When i'm in a social environment I smile but dont know what to say and I get anxious to want to leave. I use to known as a social butterfly but now I want to be left alone. When I am alone sometimes im content becasue I dont have to make an effort to communicate with anyone. Other times I cry because I dont know whats wrong with me. (link)
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You may be depressed or just really stressed out. There is probly something in your life right now that is either bothering you or stressing you out? Bad diets? Not enough sleep? Not enough exercise? Stuff like that can trigger the emotions your having. Its not a bad thing that you want to be alone sometimes but if you used to always want to do stuff then their obviously has been a change. I would talk to your mom, dad siblings or close friends about it and see what they say. If something deep down is bothering you..then that is probly the reason for your feelings. Hope i helped :)
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im 16/f and my boyfriend is 18/m. We have been dating for a little over one and a half years and honestly our relationship is really special. I know im in love with him, this isnt some little high school thing and we both could seriously see ourselves getting married in the future, but we havent seriously talked about it, just a few thoughts we had. So, about a month before the one year anniversary, he asked my mom what my ring size was. She didnt tell me, but when i saw her take my ring out of my room, bc she didnt know the size, i asked her and then she told me chris askd for it. so i thought he was going to give me a promise ring, you know? so hes had my ring since then, and i forgot about it for a little while until i was looking through the pictures and saw me wearing the ring. I really dont want to bring it up, but i was just asking on what you think of the matter. Why would he ask for my ring size if hes not planning on giving me a ring? and if he did get me the ring, why hasnt he given it to me? do you think hes having second thoughts or something? I know hes not using me, im planning on waiting until marriage for sex, nad we talked about it and hes fine with that. He is definitely not cheating on me, and we see each other almost every night and i see him in school every day. I just dont know what to think about this. I couldnt get it out of my head for like 2 months and now its in my head again. please, tell me what you think, girls and guys opinions. thankyouu :) (link)
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Well he could be still planning on giving you a ring..You know like maybe if your birthday is coming up ? or Christmas? Or maybe he WAS going to get you a ring but decided not to? Idk..if you really need to know then just ask him lol..hes your boyfriend what is the worse that could happen? And then you will find out the truth! Hope i helped :)
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Hi i am a guy and I am going to be having sex with my girlfriend soon but i need to know something. how fast do girls orgasm? I don't know how long i could go for since it is my first time but i want it to be good for her. (link)
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If its your first time..then your both going to be really nervous and your girlfriend might not even have one the first time. So dont feel guilty if you cant last long because you probly wont be able to lol. She will understand if she doesnt (since its your 1st)
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A bunch of girls and I are going to a concert in two weeks. I feel too stupid to ask them because they have all been to a bunch of concerts but this is my very first one.
So can anyone tell what to wear to a concert?
Thank you! (link)
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Umm it would of helped if you said what kind of band and music????????????
Wear a simple t-shirt & jeans flat shoes. Dont bring a purse bring something small to carry your money&stuff in etcc.. (Wallet, Clutch)
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how can you tell if you had an orgasm? (female, clitoral)
like, more specifically, how does it feel mentally?
what i mean is, are you're supposed to feel something besides physical release of tension?
is it possible that sometimes you feel better after it, and sometimes you don't? are there different intensities? how? (link)
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Ignore the other answer (Haha)
You will DEFINITLY know that you had one trust me..its the greatest feeling on earth lol no joke. I cant really tell you how it feels (mentally) but I guess you could say that you go to your own personal cloud for about less then 30 seconds. Its definitly a relase of tension feel, in (your vagina) I think most people feel better after they have one lol.. Hope I helped :)
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17/f
Helllpppp!!! I have what I think iss a water bubble underneath my left breast. I don't even think is a water bubble but it feels like it..anyways its quite big & it looks pinkish & the thing that scares me the most is. IT DOESN'T HURT. Which means it could be a cyst..I don't want to tell my mom because I'm terrified of what it is myself.. (link)
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It could be a fatty deposit and no you dont have to be overweight to have them lol! But you should definitly tell your mom, and go to the doctors if it doesnt go away. I just had this weird cyst in my armpit but It went away so I never went to to the doctors. But just wait a few days, if it doesnt hurt then dont go to the doctors jsut yet. But TELL YOUR MOM ABOUT IT. Then if it doesnt go away go see a doctor just in case!! Hope I helped :)
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I have 2 questions to ask you.
1.) I have 2 ulcers on the inside of my upper lip. My bf told me that they came out because of kissing, is it true that if you frenchkiss you can have ulcers? (he doesn't have ulcers in his mouth, so they couldn't be spread from his mouth).
2.) Yesterday my bf fingered me for the first time. He was with the clothes on and he didn't touch his penis, so he couldn't have sperm on his fingers right? His nails were a bit long and he hurt me and also he didn't wash his hands before!!
Next time i'll tell him to cut his nails and wash his hands. What do you think? He only did it once! (link)
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You cant get pregnant from being fingered..
and about your ulcers, umm idk it could be like an std or just an infection but go to the doctor.
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so me and my girlfriend have been fighting for the past few days and she says i need to decide if im ready to settle down and this is what i want because she dont think its what i want. we moved intoour relationship a little fast but at times i do wish i could spend more time with my family she thinks i need to stay with her all the time and gets upset if i leave there early to be with family. at times i do miss being single so i can hang out with family whenever and my mom because I am really close to her but at times i kno i would be so miserable because i do want to be with you and we were planning to move out in 8 months what swhould i do? (link)
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Okk..you need to ask yourself if 1. Do you really want to move-in with her? and 2. Are you happy with her?
If your yes to those questions then great, you just need to tell her how you feel. If she doesnt understand then, well thats her problem and you need to move on. Hopefully she will understand bc you cant be with her 24/7 time apart is good sometimes.
And if your answers are no to my questions, then do not move in with her, and pretty much just end your relationship while you can, b,c honestly it wont be worth it if she is going to be like that. Hope i helped!
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