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What is wrong with me????
Question Posted Friday November 6 2009, 11:37 am

what is wrong with me? I don't feel like being around anyone at all. It's a friday night and I want to lay down and watch a movie by myself. My friend said she doesnt want to go out wither and drink like usual so instead we planned on making dinner and renting a movie. I dont even feel like being around her even though the idea sounds nice. It's not her it's me I dont feel like socializing lately. When i'm in a social environment I smile but dont know what to say and I get anxious to want to leave. I use to known as a social butterfly but now I want to be left alone. When I am alone sometimes im content becasue I dont have to make an effort to communicate with anyone. Other times I cry because I dont know whats wrong with me.

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Smartone answered Saturday November 7 2009, 10:35 pm:
Why would you think there is something wrong with you? People change over the years. What was once fun and all the rage, tends to get old if you do it enough.
I, myself, used to be a social butterfly, but after so many years of it, I realized that it wasn't what I really wanted to do. I didn't want to go out and drink with my friends. I wasn't all that interested in meeting anyone and what really did interest me was to sit home with a good book and the tv remote. I just acted on my desires and didn't give it a second thought.
If I were you, I would just go with it and not try to analyze this. Just do what you enjoy. I'm also betting, that after you sit home for a few months, that'll start getting old and you'll be out with friends again. That will be fine, too.

I think, right now, you need your space and the freedom to do as you please for a while. No big deal and certainly, no reason to cry! ENJOY!

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applegirllx97 answered Friday November 6 2009, 8:51 pm:
You may be depressed or just really stressed out. There is probly something in your life right now that is either bothering you or stressing you out? Bad diets? Not enough sleep? Not enough exercise? Stuff like that can trigger the emotions your having. Its not a bad thing that you want to be alone sometimes but if you used to always want to do stuff then their obviously has been a change. I would talk to your mom, dad siblings or close friends about it and see what they say. If something deep down is bothering you..then that is probly the reason for your feelings. Hope i helped :)

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