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Problems with my Girlfriend
My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 and half months now, shes 16 and Im 18.. For almost the first 4 months, we would see each other everyday and hangout all the time. But in the last three weeks, she has been hanging out with her friends way more which means I have been pushed aside. I asked her about it and she said it's because she thinks that her friends wont be around for ever and she wants to have fun with them while she can. Why do you think this is happening all of a sudden? Does it mean something? How should I confront her about it? Any advice I can get would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance.
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if you guys hung out all the time for four months maybe she just needs a little space. she needs to hang out with her friends sometimes too not just you all the time. i dont think you should confront her about it unless she isnt hanging out with you at all anymore but a few nights out with the girls wont hurt anything :)
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No it shouldnt mean anything, you should just tell her how you feel and tell her that YOU want to hang out with her more. You guys just need to balance your time spent together more and spent not together. Your girlfriend needs to have friends and you need t have your friends! You both should do stuff other then hanging out with just eachother..you will appreciate each other more =)
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I agree with the person before me.
Plus, usually it's all good when you spend all your time together for the first several months, but then it starts becoming a burden on both people, and you don't want that! so let her have fun with her friends, and you go spend time with yours!
It will make for a much simpler and healthier relationship..I
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I don't think that this is anything to worry about. I'm a girl, and a lot of the times when a friend in the group has a boyfriend, they spend sooo much time with the boyfriend that it seems like they don't care about us...like they can't make time for us and their boyfriend.....i think that maybe your girl's friends talked to her about how she was hanging out with you "EVERYDAY, ALL THE TIME", and the way that it was making them feel "Pushed aside" like you are feeling now. I bet you anything that she is just trying not to lose her friends. she is just trying to make time for You, and them. So don't worry!:)....You can confront her about it,by telling her, " have you been hanging out with your friends so much lately because you hadn't been before?....as much as i would love to hang out with you all the time like we used to...i think its great that you are making time for me and them :)." you can say something like that, just to make sure that that's the reason....there can also be a downfall to hanging out everyday all the time. The fact that she is with her friends some of the time is good because you miss her more!!!!! you don't have that thing like, oh, i'm going to see you today....and then you end up not being so excited to see her...it makes your realtionship stronger :) i hope this helped and good luck! there is nothing to worry about :)
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