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what happens if you have unprotected sex twice, with a guy a day after your menstrual cycle finishes but you have the implanon in your arm and have taken the morning after pill next day to avoid any pregnancys but you still havent had your periods in two months ? ive recently had a freind ask me this but can find the answer so was hoping for some advice for her ? (link)
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your friend needs to take a pregnancy test asap. even though she has those things thats not 100% protection against getting pregnant there is still a chance that she might be.
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My now-boyfriend fell in like with his "ex" over a month's span of time, but she was in rebound and accepted when he asked her out because she had been treated so badly in her prior relationship, which she had just gotten through with. My boyfriend and her were such good friends, though, that she called it off after four days. He was having a lot of difficulty getting over her. 3 weeks later, he met me. He admitted to me that when he met me, he still liked her, and for about a week had conflicting feelings about whether to cling to her or go for me. But we went on our first date a week and a half after meeting. We dated for a little over a month and have been officially going out for 3 weeks.
Was -I- his rebound girl? =/ What even defines a rebound girl? (link)
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if you were just a rebound girl he wouldnt be dating you at all. guys arent like girls in that sense. when girls get out of a relationship they feel like they need to be in one again as soon as possible where as guys dont mind being single and playing the field for a while. also from what you say he seems very open and honest with you so im sure he wouldnt date you if he didnt truly want to be with you :)
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My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 and half months now, shes 16 and Im 18.. For almost the first 4 months, we would see each other everyday and hangout all the time. But in the last three weeks, she has been hanging out with her friends way more which means I have been pushed aside. I asked her about it and she said it's because she thinks that her friends wont be around for ever and she wants to have fun with them while she can. Why do you think this is happening all of a sudden? Does it mean something? How should I confront her about it? Any advice I can get would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance. (link)
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if you guys hung out all the time for four months maybe she just needs a little space. she needs to hang out with her friends sometimes too not just you all the time. i dont think you should confront her about it unless she isnt hanging out with you at all anymore but a few nights out with the girls wont hurt anything :)
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theres this girl coming over to my house this weekend and i want her to like me because ive liked her for a really long time. what are some things i can do to make her like me and how can i act like sexy and stuff? (link)
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just be yourself! girls hate when you try to impress them so dont try to be sexy and stuff just be yourself. be cutsie but not desperate. just go with the flow and everything will work out fine :)
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Alright. Here we go. Here's the info. I am a freshman in high school and 14 years old. It all started back in seventh grade. I basically fell into obsession with this one guy (We'll call him Mike). Well I liked him all of seventh grade but he barely knew I existed. Then eighth grade came around and he and I started getting to know each other. We talked ALL the time. Over IM, at school, hung out... and we were open with our liking each other. Thing was, he didn't want a girlfriend. And I totally understood that. We were in eighth grade and I felt that was pretty young and that we weren't quite mature enough for that yet. So I thought "Okay, just wait until high school, see if you still like him then..." Well… I wasn’t really expecting to hear the news I did halfway through eighth grade. He was going to move the summer before we went to high school and coming back AFTER freshman year. It sucked. There went any chance of us working at all and I told myself I would stop liking him. I told myself that I COULDN’T like him anymore. But I did. You can’t control your feelings and I continued to like him. And it was hard. All through the rest of eighth grade I knew he would be leaving but I still liked him and he still liked me. And we still refused to make a relationship… well he did. I still kind of wanted one but he continued to insist not to. Said he didn’t want to get involved and then have to leave but he still acted like a boyfriend to me. We were honestly a couple without the title. And then he left… He left right at the beginning of summer and he stopped talking to me… And that hurt because I thought maybe we could keep this going through just one year and then try again sophomore year. Yeah well he wouldn’t get on IM, he wouldn’t return calls or texts, he literally left me. And I can understand why… kind of. He didn’t want it to hurt anymore than it had, but he was coming back! We could have made it work. Anyway. I was stupid and vulnerable and I threw myself at a guy from a different school, and a grade above me. We’ll call him Jack. He was a total man-whore and a complete player, a very good player. He had me on a leash pretty much all summer. I fell for everything he said. And after about two months, when he told me he loved me, I believed him. To this day I still blame Mike for this. (I know, I know, I was being stupid and it’s not technically Mike’s fault but I still blame him) Jack was everything Mike wasn’t. He was smooth and hot and wild and he called me things like “sexy” and “gorgeous” and I loved it. I genuinely like Jack. Head over heels. But he hurt me. It was towards the end of the summer and Jack asked me to sneak out with him that night. (We snuck out a lot, which is something I would have NEVER done before I met Jack.) We were making out, and he asked me to have sex with him… I told him I wasn’t ready, that I am only fourteen (he was sixteen) and that I couldn’t. Bye-bye Jack. He broke up with me. Just because I wouldn’t have sex with him. And he told me the only reason he had bothered with me that long was because he liked making out with me and thought it would be easy to get in my pants. And unless this has happened to you, you can’t understand how it makes you feel. It makes you feel like shit. Like you just aren’t good enough to be worth sticking around for if you won’t put out. Like you’re personality must suck so much that sex is the only thing that could possibly make you mean something to someone. And it hurt so bad. I moved on though. I stopped talking to him even though for awhile he would call and ask me to sneak out with him. But I was smarter then, I knew what he wanted from me. Luckily I have awesome friends that helped me through it and didn’t let me go back to him. And for a few months I was just boy free, taking a break. Freshman year started, and I started to occasionally hear from Mike. But briefly, and just in text. Then I met Sam. Sam is a sophomore (grade above) and currently my boyfriend. He’s perfect. He’s not Mike where he seems to only want my personality and not like Jack who definitely only wanted my body… hahaha. He’s a gentleman and kind and funny and I honestly have never been happier. So of course this is perfect timing for Mike to decide he wants to make things work again. Yup he’s been trying to call me and visit… and I haven’t exactly told him about Sam yet… I don’t know how to tell him. And worst of all, I’m scared. I’m scared that I’ll start liking him again. But I’m also angry. I’m angry that he just left me and ignored me for three months. He left me here and just let Jack have me. He hurt me and then let another guy do the same thing. He ignores me and now he wants to try again??? What the hell? And right now? After I’m so happy with Sam? I don’t know what to do. I CAN’T start liking him again. But I think I might… Help! I really just don’t want to get hurt again… (link)
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i have encountered all three types of the guys you describe here. at this time all you can do is tell mike about sam and ask him why he ignored you even if it hurts you to hear it you need ot know the real reason. if you do start to like him again then there is a reason for it. if you start to like him then obviously you like him more than you do sam and you have to do what makes you happy. in relationships all you need is patience :)
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I'm 16 years old and I'm just not happy.
I've never had a boyfriend and every guy that I've "talked" to ends up screwing me over,or hurting me badly. Lately,my family has no money ..to the point where we can barely have toilet paper or food or anything and we only have one car,which is falling apart and is old and doesn't even have legal tags so that affects my happiness. Along with the fact that my grades were usually very high and now they are slipping. All of my friends that I'm surrounded by have gorgeous houses,nice cars,boyfriends,perfect grades,perfect skin,all of that stuff and it just seems as though I have nothing.I had aspirations to go to a good college because my grades would allow me too but now we may not have enough money. I have some really good friends ,which help me out but im just so jealous of all of them.I just wish I had one good thing.
Does anyone else feel the same? (link)
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everyone goes through tough times your not the only one going through these things. as for the boyfriend thing dont worry about that at your age i did and shortly after i realized that boys were not something that i needed to be worrying about. my family has never had a lot of money we have enough to get by but we arent rich and our house is small. as for oyur grades i struggled with that too and i found that sports helped me with that. when you are involved in high school sports you have to keep up your grades so you can play in the games so its a good motivation to focus on your school work. another thing that helped me in school was student council. once i became involved in student ocuncil i enjoyed school more and it made me want to go to school and pay attention in class. dont give up your dreams of going to college because of your family's lack of money you can get scholarships and grants and loans to take care of that so if you want to go to college there is always a way. just keep your head up sweetie :)
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18/f
I've tried masturbating a lot and I can never orgasm. Sometimes it feels kinda good, but nothing ever happens. I've tried a lot, I've even used a shower head but I feel like I'm doing it wrong. does anyone have any specific advice? i feel like i'm broken!
i know, everyone always says that everyone is different and i have to find whats right for me, but i just want some tips! also, i don't want to buy a vibrator because i've heard that if you use one all the time you become dependent on it and can't get off on anything else or even a guy after using one. (link)
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i have tried to masturbate but it doesnt work for me the only time i have an orgasm is when i am with a guy i cant please myself. my thought is becasue since i have to do the work i cant truly enjoy it. i doubt you are doing anything wrong you just cant pleasure yourself and im sure that is perfectly normal :)
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hi when ever i do any thing on the horse i always ride bob i get told off byt it is not my faultthe horse pulls at the reighns really hard untilk i am about go over when i pull back to stop him he walks back.They have said i have to learn to ride this horse then i can't progress on. i will never do it do you think i should quit even though i can ride some other horses really good and get them jumping and galloping well and i have got a hat,johdpurs,body protecter,chaps and a wip please give me your honest opinion thank you (link)
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its hard to go from a well behaved horse to a stubborn one trust me i know. i have shown horses for about 9 years and i always had very well behaved horses until my newest one he is very difficult to handle and i have had him for 4 years now and i still have days where i can barely handle him this summer at the world shows we were top ten in two events and third in the world in another event and made finals in almost every event we went in but just a month ago he threw me and i pulled muscles in my leg sprained my wrist and fractured my elbow. really all you can do with this horse is be patient. if the horse is pulling the reigns put a stronger bit in his mouth my horse does this a lot so what we do is when we practice we have one bit that we use and then when we show we use a one that is a little stronger so try bumping up the size of your bit. another thing dont pull, if you pull you will only make things worse when your horse starts to pull on you widen your hands and slowly and gently pull from side to side but while you are doing this make sure to lightly tap with your legs so he knows not to stop. if you pull from side to side and tap with your legs he has no choice but to bridle up so he will be forced to listen to you. another thing i would not use the whip unless you absolutely have to try riding without it for a while some horses dont like the crop whips and that will cause them to misbehave. every horse has their little quirks you just have to find them. and another thing if your horse is very high strung try tying him up at night. not every night but maybe once or twice a week tie him up in his stall so he can get to his feed and water but so he can not lay down and leave him like that until you ride him the next day this will tire him out because he will not be able to lie down to sleep. but like i said do not do this every day just when you feel he is uncontrollable. i hope this advice helped you please feel free to ask me any questions you may have with your horse i have been through pretty much anything you can imagine horse wise. but please dont quit riding horses is the most amazing thing that you can do i encourage everyone to try it and if you like it you should never quit.
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