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What to do with myself...


Question Posted Sunday November 8 2009, 8:30 pm

I'm 16 years old and I'm just not happy.
I've never had a boyfriend and every guy that I've "talked" to ends up screwing me over,or hurting me badly. Lately,my family has no money ..to the point where we can barely have toilet paper or food or anything and we only have one car,which is falling apart and is old and doesn't even have legal tags so that affects my happiness. Along with the fact that my grades were usually very high and now they are slipping. All of my friends that I'm surrounded by have gorgeous houses,nice cars,boyfriends,perfect grades,perfect skin,all of that stuff and it just seems as though I have nothing.I had aspirations to go to a good college because my grades would allow me too but now we may not have enough money. I have some really good friends ,which help me out but im just so jealous of all of them.I just wish I had one good thing.
Does anyone else feel the same?


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ceejay answered Sunday November 8 2009, 10:50 pm:
you do have something good..people that care about you!
and I promise you that if you set your mind to something, you can achieve it.
Work on getting your grades back up and get a full college scholarship! you can do it!
you could find somewhere close to your house to get a job at, and make a little money to buy things for yourself and make yourself feel better.
Everybody has their times where they feel just like you do right now, but just remember, it can only get better!
Good luck with everything..I hope I helped in some way.

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littleashley09 answered Sunday November 8 2009, 10:49 pm:
everyone goes through tough times your not the only one going through these things. as for the boyfriend thing dont worry about that at your age i did and shortly after i realized that boys were not something that i needed to be worrying about. my family has never had a lot of money we have enough to get by but we arent rich and our house is small. as for oyur grades i struggled with that too and i found that sports helped me with that. when you are involved in high school sports you have to keep up your grades so you can play in the games so its a good motivation to focus on your school work. another thing that helped me in school was student council. once i became involved in student ocuncil i enjoyed school more and it made me want to go to school and pay attention in class. dont give up your dreams of going to college because of your family's lack of money you can get scholarships and grants and loans to take care of that so if you want to go to college there is always a way. just keep your head up sweetie :)

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