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18/f.
so i'm not asking you whether or not to do this i just need some suggestions! i want to have my good guy friend over in a couple weekends because my parents are leaving for the weekend. we've always talked about sex, and I have been pondering on the thought for probably 3 years now but things just haven't happend. I'm ready for it to happen now, don't tell me not to because I know i'd regret NOT doing it with him. The thing is I want to just kind of be in like booty shorts and a bra when he gets here to look really hot and kind of give him the impression :] do you think he would kind of be like what the hell??? I wouldn't want him to be like why aren't you dressed haha or do you guys have any other good suggestions!!
thanks!:) (link)
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I take it he doesn't know you're planning this, and if that's the case, then no, don't come to the door wearing hardly nothing or you're right, he will be like 'uhh what are you doing?' and you'll make yourself look too easy and desperate. I think you should just wear a cute outfit, maybe a little revealing, but don't over-do it. And just flirt around with him the whole time, and kinda beat around the bush about having sex. You should be able to get him to make the first move by doing that, but if not, then go in for a kiss and it should lead into it after that, if he wants it to.
Hope I helped!
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I have been taking birth control for about 2-3 years,for the majority of that time I was having sex.There was a period of time where I didn't have sex for probably 5-6 months and recently I had sex again.BUT ,ive been taking my birth control a little weird.Sometimes i would take it at random times in the day,sometimes i would keep it consistent and sometimes I would even forget to take it but the majority of it gets taken. When I had sex the other day,he pulled out and came on a towel but i feel as though not all of it was in that one spot.He swears he didn't come in me ,but I'm just a little worried.And today,i was having feelings (kinda like period cramps,but im in the middle of my birth control cycle) and when i went to the bathroom ,some clumps of what seemed to be period blood but was sort of brownish was there but not a lot ,only a slight amount.What's the deal here?! (link)
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Here's the thing with birth control pills: it is VERY important that you take them at the same time every day.
I really don't think you are pregnant, especially since you had some blood and all,but it's still possible.
I'm on birth control also and have been for about 2 years, and it has made my cycle really weird, and I'll have a little blood like that too and not actually have a period.Plus, started back having sex again after you haven't for awhile can mess up your cycle also.
But just to be sure, go ahead and take a test.
just make sure from now on that you set a specific time each day to take your pill.
Hope I helped!
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Idk if it's a yeast infection, a bladder infection, or something else.
I'm mostly a virgin.
(13/F)
I have random extreme mucusy discharge or white discharge. Like, I need two sheets of tp to clean it up! My underwear is screwed up normally.
I pee all the time and half the time it burns.
I have a rash? right below my belly button.
vj smells, bad. even if i shower.
appreciate help.
also, what are the causes of a yeast infection?
or bladder? thanks! (link)
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with a yeast infection you are going to itch A LOT.
like, it will be almost unbearable.
you should get it checked out though..
Have you started your period yet? A lot of girls start having discharge and stuff like you described before they start their period for the first time.
From what you described, it's definitely not a bladder infection,though.
Definitely go get it checked out.
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please dont judge me but im 17 and living in new jersey... is there any way i can get an abortion without telling my parents? and how expensive are then? They'd kill me if they found out... (link)
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Okay, first of all..you need to check the laws on abortion in your state, because I know where I'm from you have to have a guardian sign for you.
Second, abortions are pretty costly for someone your age..around $400.
Just make sure that's what you want before you jump into it..
Hope I helped!
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the song "finger paint" by zion i I am obsessed with, but no matter how much I try I cannot figure out the lyrics..could someone please help me?? (ive tried searching the internet but i found nothing)
thanks:) (link)
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Feel my finger paint
Color to stimulate ya
Rise relate ya
Pass in love and nature
Rhymes to break ya, take ya
Up to the maker
Away from the pain
We feelin safer
The liberate to rectify the soul
Written in red, green, black
Trim it with gold
We been in war
Hey man we seen it all before
Got you feeling the fundamentals of flow toe-to-toe
How we battle
You can light the shadow
Walking with
You bring a barrage of marshmallow
Yellow
Words and word curse
Lip style mellow
Zion the lion-hearted fellow
Bellow
Finger paint you can hold the weight
When the mind is great, then the soul create
I reperate like I'm water when I change my state
Mindscape to the next levitate
[Chorus]
Breakin all the shit that I don't want to hold
Makin all the slumbers inside me flow
So in all the seasons can make me grow
And I'm breathing
I'm breathing slow
[Pre-Verse - Zion]
Breathe In...Out
[Verse 2 - DUST]
Feel my finger paint as the world spins
Let my finger paint cleanse your sins
My finger's paintin' all colors on your skin
See my reflection in my brother, my twin
I'm sparkin' a light to your soul deep within
You can hear the echo when I drop my pen
The children hold hands under the rainbow
Everywhere we go we bring the same flow
Feel my finger-paint on my parabola
Supernovas, nebulas, satellites
My finger's paintin' all over the mic
My finger's paintin' lightning when it strikes
Bring down the rain, release the pain
Master the craft, die ya rocks ya game
My fingers paint across all terrain
My finger paint penetrates your brain
[Chorus til end]
Breakin all the shit that I don't want to hold
Makin all the slumbers inside me flow
So in all the seasons can make me grow
And I'm breathin
I'm breathing slow
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I've been trying to get birth control pills for a few days but I don't want to tell my grandma (my mom passed away and my dad lives somewhere else so I live with my grandma) I tried calling planned parenthood but they never answer. I'm allowed to stay one hour after school and I was planning on going to planned parenthood then but it's always packed. I don't know anything about my medical insurance or anything like that and I'm broke so what do I have to do to get them free? Is there any other way I can make an appointment? I tried doing it online too but it wouldn't let me make an account. (link)
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They give out free birth control at most health departments.
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okay, im 15 my cousin is 17. we have been around eachother when we were kids, and i guess you could say we have 'ecperimented' but we were only 3 and 5 so idt that counts. Well we grew up a lot after that. he ended up dropping out of school and hookin up wid all these sluts. i feel he is just a good part of the family (honestly, i dont have feelings like that for him). i get along with his gf's wen they r over. but he kept telling me to send him a dirty pic tonight. i said no. so he sends me one of his man junk. oh i wanted to throw up. that made me so freaking mad. he told me he wanted one because he has always kinda liked me. well i told him if he liked me then he wouldnt force me to send something i dont want and will never send. wat should i do? im not going to tell him tha i dont like him and i like im as just part of the family now cuz im pissed at him... maybe later i will. but how would you feel if his happened. and wat should i do?
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just leave it alone and stay away from him for now.
If he says anything else to you like that, then it's time to talk to your parents about it, since you've already made it clear to him that you aren't interested.
He is being extremely inappropriate and you should not put up with it.
You should really just stay away from him though, I know he is your family, but if he keeps being so persistent, he could try to force you to do something. It's better to be safe than sorry.
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Someone told me you can get STDs from giving head! Is it true? If it is then what STDs can you get from giving oral / head? (link)
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STDs are transmitted through bodily fluids, so yes, you can get every STD from giving heads, the guy can get them from you, from your saliva, and they can give it to you through their sperm.
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If my best time at the 800m is 2:44 and my best time at the 400 is 72 seconds, about what time approximately do you think I would be able to do the 1000 meter run. I already tried to calculate it out but I'm not sure what to estimate. (link)
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probably about 3:26
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Ok. my bf and i have been together for over a year. and well, now that we've gotten so close he's started to let his manners and thoughtfulness slide. example: the other day i was asking him to take me out for dinner to celebrate how long we've been together, and he just blew me off and told me i wasnt that important and we could just eat sandwiches at home. and i have an inclination that he might be cheating. i was looking at his text messages the other day, and some girl ( im not going to say her name) has been texting him talking about her sexual desires with him. and when i confronted him about it he slapped me and told me i was a nosy bitch. ugh i know i should dump him and move on, but i really and truly care for him. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had that i've actually loved.
what should i do? (link)
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if he got that upset about you going through his phone, then chances are there's something going on.
I understand it's hard to just walk away from a year long relationship like that, where you really care about him, but it's time to do what's right for you. I can assure you, from what you've said, that he is not the right guy for you..you deserve so much better than that. and you never know, you could break it off and him realize after a little while how stupid he was and he could become a better person because of it.
but right now, you need to get away from him..right now it may just be a slap, but if you let it slide, the abuse will only get worse.
Be strong,stand your ground, and good luck!
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i'm getting a new phone for christmas.
and i have a few choices that i can make..
i can choose between the LG Neon, the LG Xenon, the LG Vu, and the Saumsung Propel Pro.
I kinda like the LG Neon..but i'm still not sure if i would still like it a whole lot if I actually got it..
I REALLY like the LG Xenon i love how it has the full keyboard and the touch screen.
The LG Vu, i reaaaallyy like. but my dad says that I would ware it out since i'm an advid texter..
I really like the propel pro..it's got some of the same features that the phone I have now does ( the LG Shine). it's got the joystick and the buttons on the side and everything. but my dad says that since it's a microsoft phone, that it's too much for me to have, since i'm only 15 and have no use for getting on the internet or anything. i'm just a texter..
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I have the LG Xenon and love it!!
It's great if you text a lot.
I know someone who had the LG Vu and hated it 'cause it was hard to text on because of it being only touchscreen so their fingers always hit the wrong buttons.
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Well, I know that rebounding is no good, but I made the mistake of rushing into something :/. Yesterday I found out my ex boyfriend was out with this girl that he used to like (and who i know he likes now) and just hearing this made me break down. I knew I had to talk to someone, so I ended up talking to this guy who I have always had a thing for. On the phone I told him what I found out and how I felt sad and he kind of cheered me up. Then out of nowhere I told him that even though I'm not over my ex, I kind of like him! Ahh so today at school I was hanging out with my ex and my friend. My friend has a class with the guy I like so I asked her if he said anything...but my ex was confused and when I told him he seemed to change his mood. :/ I didn't think I was hurting his feelings because he flat out told me to move on because he doesn't see me as anything but a friend. My question is, was it a bad idea to tell him? Should I never bring up guys in front of him??
P.S. The guy who I like told me that he likes someone at the moment, so it didn't work out.
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He probably got a little jealous 'cause he didn't think you were going to move on so quick.
But you shouldn't feel bad at all for telling him! He went out with a girl, so you can talk to any guy you want!
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Okay so there's this party going on this Saturday and all the seniors are going including myself and I have TO LOOK absolutely fabulous and hot. I'm going with the whole sexy blonde vixen/new girl look. Anyways I've limited my dress options and I just wanna hear what you guys think. The occasion is just a house party with beer pong, keg stands probably, and I have no idea what else so its pretty casual. But I still wanna stand out from the rest of the girls in a good way.
Dress Options:
1) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=449976&CategoryID=14961&LinkLoc=2914&LinkType=SiteAd&AdID=15094&PageID=14953*1*24*-1*-1*1
2) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=449974&CategoryID=14961&LinkLoc=2914&LinkType=SiteAd&AdID=15094&PageID=14953*1*24*-1*-1*1
3) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=441453&CategoryID=14961&PageID=14953*8*24*-1*-1*1
I think I'm going to pair it with some classic YSL Pumps:
http://www.ysl.com/us/en/onlineBoutique/Women/Shoes/P-Tribute%20Platform%20Patent%20Slingback.aspx
Here's a photo of me also so you guys can see which dress would look great on me:
http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab4/lexiegoesrawr/?action=view¤t=5610_101094269905692_10000015357728.jpg
http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab4/lexiegoesrawr/?action=view¤t=5610_101094186572367_10000015357728.jpg (link)
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I like number 2.
It would look really good with your blonde hair!
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15.F
So, last school year I had met this guy in one of my classes and we became 'best friends'
He never considered us this, he always said he only had one best friend, who he always complained about.
Anyway, we would be together during school. ALWAYS. Before, during, in between classes, and after.
I started liking this guy alot. But he never felt the same. Or so I think since he never made a move the whole year.
We would have fights once and awhile and we would end up not talking for a day and he would text me after school saying he missed me, he didn't like pretending he didn't see me in the halls, he needed me, ect. So we'd make up.
But around May, I had enough of the asshole moves he would make, so I told him the friendship was done and legit said "You're dead to me"
New school year, we see eachother everyday now.
We're on talking terms, we still ignore eachother for the most part, but we talk sometimes.
Anyway, for some reason, I still feel like I like this guy. And my friend who knew everything about last year has gotten close to him and she told me she liked him. It was kind of mad.
And jealous, because I do miss him and the way things used to be. But he made it clear to me in September he moved on and I'll live.
I need ways to get over him. I thought I was, but when I saw him again it brought back all those memories.
If I don't get over him soon I have no idea what I'll do. I feel like my sadness of us not being close anymore is starting to control my life. (link)
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The best way is just to switch your focus to other things, or other people.
Go out with your friends, so they can be like your support group.
and try to only remember all the crappy things he did to you, at least for right now,while you're trying to get over him.
and don't talk to him while you still have feelings for him..
just stay away until one day you wake up and you'll feel like wow, I don't need him anymore.
Hope that helped in some way!
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i have a "thing" if thats what you want to call it with this guy, we've known each other for like 5 years now. i'm 19f.
i'm a huge flirt .. but i need new things to do because i always feel like i do dumb things. lets say a guy taps your butt gently, what would you do? i panic and smile and say "doooont ;)" but i mean come on.. that may give him the wrong impression i dont like it, right?
i can't really think of anything right now but usually if he will playfully touch me i'll panic and laugh a little and be like "stop:)!"
but i'm done with that childish stuff.. what can i do back to him?? (link)
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When he does stuff like tapping your butt and stuff like that, just playfully say "hey, I can get rough too!" and then tap his back.
or like "I'm not gonna lie..I kinda liked that ;]"
lol, just have fun with it :]
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Okay, I've been hanging out with one of my new friends Corey, and I like him ALOT. & He knows too. But I'm not sure if he likes me back. He dated one of my best friends, ( and she's okay that I like him ) and she chills with us all the time. She dated him for a very short period of time, but he didn't tell her he liked her or anything. A friend just hooked em up? I don't know if I should get her to help us? Or should I just ask him hows he feel? Or what? I'm really confused. Thanks in advanced(: (link)
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If he already knows that you like him, and he hasn't made it obvious that he likes you back, by flirting and/or actually telling you, then he might be avoiding the situation because he doesn't feel the same way.
So keep that in mind so you don't get your hopes up too much and just ask him!
keep your friend out of it and just bring it up casually to him one day while ya'll are hanging out.
Good luck, hope I helped.
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Hi! I was hoping that maybe someone can answer this for me. I am 18 years old. I got my period when I was 9. I'm 4"11. I'm a very short girl. I don't mind being short. I mean, everyone has I always thought I was adorable and I look good short. But, I've been dealing with problems with my weight since I was 9 years old.I was always very thin as a child. I was very underweight when I was little. I had a lot of trouble eating and I wouldn't eat at school and things like that. I was at a healthy weight, though, up to when I was about eight years old. Once I got my period, I started gaining weight like a mad-woman. But, interestingly, I wasn't overweight or obese or anything like that. I mean, I had gotten my period, and my body was changing. I started getting breasts, and things like that. So, most of the weight was just me growing into my body. It wasn't necessarily that I was fat. It's just that I was still growing into my body. Then, when I got to Jr. High and High School, I would say that I was pretty chubby. I mean, i was weighing like 120 and I was like 4"11. I wasn't even overweight in my BMI, but it's just that I wasn't in a weight that I liked or felt comfortable in. I went to an endrocronoligist. I know I spelled it wrong (but, basically a doctor that deals with growth and bones). I had tried everything to lose weight, but I felt like nothing worked. So, I wanted to grow a little bit, so I would feel more comfortable. At the time I was about 4"9 1/2 or 4"10. They told me they couldn't give me growth hormone shots because I got my period so early on, that it wouldn't do anything. It turns out that I grew to be 4"11 1/2. During my senior year in high school, I was so frustrated that I became anorexic. I was weight about 90 pounds. Now, at my weight, I didn't look that thin, as someone who is anorexic does. But, I started to look like a little boy. I was obviously sick. I had bags under my eyes, I had no body fat, and my heart rate was very low. I was eating like 600 calories a day and it became an obsession. I've realized that after I lost weight, my body does everything it can to stay at 112. It's so frustrating! I don't look FAT at 112. But, I'd like to be at 100 because that's where I look GOOD. If I were just 5"2, I know that I would look the same at 112 as I do now at 100 pounds. I excersise every day, but I don't think I can go on a strict diet right now. I just recovered from anorexia. The last thing I need is to go on a diet. I just need to know if there is any way I can grow just an inch or 2. I'm almost 5 feet right now. I'm not one of those people who wants to be tall or grow for superficial reasons. I just want to be able to deal with my weight a little better and not struggle so much with it. I know that we have a lot of technology now, and probably a lot of things have evolved since I was 14. If you know of anything, can you please let me know? Just so I can explore a little more on it.
Thank you so much!!
Cristy (link)
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There's really not an easy way to answer this question.
There are different methods on the market that are supposed to make you grow a couple of inches, but they are pills, and I really don't see that being healthy..
You could ask your doctor if any of them are safe to try,though.
Sorry I couldn't be of more help, but I'd hate to tell you to do something that might not be safe!
Good luck!
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anyone know any good websites were i can watch films for free ? thanks (: (link)
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hulu.com is awesome! I used it often.
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me and my boyfriend for the first time last week had sex, and we didn't use a condom for like the first 5 minutes. and i'm just worried i'm pregnant. he said he didn't pre or do anything else, but i'm still worried. i'm 15, and sex talk is bad with my mom and dad, cause i told my mom once i had sex. and she was angry. but i'm more scared this time to tell them, my boyfriends mom knows about it though. but what are signs that i am ? or do you think i could possibly be ? oh and i've been having a sharp pain in my stomach at times. i don't know what it is. but maybe i'm just paranoid. (link)
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I agree that you're probably just being paranoid, but it is possible, and he wouldn't be able to tell when he pre-came.
wait another week or two, then take a test.
I wouldn't say anything to your parents until you've taken a test, 'cause you don't want to get yelled at for no reason!
but good luck!
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errm this may be a weird question [:
but i really wanna turn on this guy who sits next to me in one class.
what are some gestures that turns guys on?
like i dont mean stuff to say but things i can do, not to him but like ways to sit etc.
haha thankies(: (link)
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one thing you'll learn is that just about anything can turn a guy on, even if you're not trying to. lol
but, flirting in a sexual way, biting your lip, touching his leg, bending over in front of him,etc.,etc.,etc.
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