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Gender: Male
Location: Where ever the USMC takes me
Occupation: Marine Snipper
Age: 20
Member Since: November 8, 2009
Answers: 3
Last Update: July 23, 2010
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As you might have guessed, my girlfriend is pregnant. She's freaking out, and I'm thrilled. She's thinks about an abortion, and I want to keep it. Not the way we pictured it.
The reason she's freaking out is that I'm in the USMC, and will be deployed for all of her pregnancy and probably a lot of the child's life. In fact, I'm leaving in about a week for my latest deployment.
She's worried that if something happens to me, she couldn't handle being a single mother. But I know she could.
Don't get me wrong, I am pro-choice. But I never considered my child to be on that line. If she wants to terminate the pregnancy which she has every right to, she can do that, I doubt I could speak to her again.

I love this woman! I want to marry her! But,I am at a lost. It's her body, but my child. I feel I should have a say, but I seem to not.

(Late-teens/early-twenties couple)

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Thanks everyone. We've been talking all day about this, and we're keeping him/her.

Thank you again. I am very grateful for the help!


guys...what do you like, and what do you not like during sex and other sexual acts with women? What really turns you on and what are some total mood kills? (link)
My girlfriend, of almost all my life (we met in preschool), never stops coming up with ways to excite me in bed.
Her, and mine, favorite to get in the mood is that she brushes her butt against my "where the sun don't shine" spot while leaning over, and keep there for a few seconds. IDK if she does this one on purpose, but it gives me ideas...
When we're in bed she tells me how exactly she wants it. You have no idea how confusing it is being a guy when you have no flipping idea how a girl wants it.
Another thing she does is that she'll text/call me when she's out, or I'm in Iraq, and say things like. "At the store, thought of you." I love that she is always, or pretends to be, thinking about me.

Oh, and never, ever, compare your guy to a hollywood actor, or any other man for that matter. It makes us go bananas. (Especially our fathers)

Hope this helps,
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Do guys really care about how big your boobs are?
because my boyfriends best friend always makes a comment about how small mine are and that i need bigger ones. but my boyfriend doesnt say much about them (link)
No. I personally like girls with a smaller chest, it looks natural and even.
Your boyfriend's best friend is an @$$. Leave him be. If he wants a major pain in the back, as my wife says, give him as size 38 DDD bra and tell hime to get a boob job.




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