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Member Since: November 8, 2009
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My sister is 18 years old. I'm 22 years old and recently moved back with my family after college.

She is ruining our lives. We live in a small apartment (It's me, her, my mom, and my brother). Everyday she creates a mess. There are clothes everywhere. She saves trash for some odd reason, which has caused a rat to come inside. I went into our closet and found rat poo everywhere because she had saved old food in there. She was supposed to go to college, but she lied about getting a scholarship there. They wanted us to pay $5,000, which we couldn't afford because we didn't know. We really want her to leave. I'm doubtful she will go to college. She steals stuff from me and my mother. I have things my friends gave me that she destroyed. She totally destroyed an expensive Chanel bag someone gave her. My grandmother passed away and left us a blanket she made, she destroyed that.

The biggest problem is she doesn't realize what she is doing wrong. She thinks she is doing nothing wrong. She gets mad and me and my mother, if we throw her trash away. She really makes everyone in out home mad. She constantly starts fights. We are perfectly happy when she is not home.

We don't know what to do. She won't leave, we can't force her to live on the street. People think she's nice, but they don't realize how much she has ruined our life. (link)
get to gether the $5000 and send her off it dosen't matter what you have to sacrifice it sounds alot better.


I am 14/f. I am really good friends with this guy in my school, but he is 17.. I've fallen madly in love with him because he is everything a girl could want in a guy. I've told him that I like him and he says that he feels the same way too.. When I only liked him as a friend, we could talk for hours. Now that we know that we like each other, it gets really awkward when we are around each other and we are both just silent. I miss the days when we could talk to each other! What's happening!? Is he too old for me? (link)
start a convesation talk about somthing you both have in common ,complement him ,just talk and then he will


Lately I have been extremely stressed out. I have been riding for about nine years. I own a horse, and I have competed all over the states, and canada. Usually summers are my busiest riding time. I look forward to spending my entire summer at the barn. Well this summer started out great, I was riding alot and having fun. But then things changed. There was drama at the barn and like people were gossiping all the time, and it just became really competetive. So for the past few weeks I haven't ridden at all. I have sadly outgrown my horse, and I think I have outgrown my teacher. But the area I live in, there isn't any coaches besides where I am. And my parents think I'm just quiting, and I don't want to quit because I love it. I just don't know what I can do to show them I don't want to quit. Or like what I can do period. I don't want to sell my horse, but I have outgrown her. And its so expensive.. Please help me.. (link)
Find another center if you can't ignore them have fun on your horse and hopfully they will stop if they don't then explain to them that the point of riding is not to gossip and have a competion it is to enjoy being on top of a horse i hope i helped.
P.S what ever you do don't give horse riding up




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