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ASAP--> incest!
okay, im 15 my cousin is 17. we have been around eachother when we were kids, and i guess you could say we have 'ecperimented' but we were only 3 and 5 so idt that counts. Well we grew up a lot after that. he ended up dropping out of school and hookin up wid all these sluts. i feel he is just a good part of the family (honestly, i dont have feelings like that for him). i get along with his gf's wen they r over. but he kept telling me to send him a dirty pic tonight. i said no. so he sends me one of his man junk. oh i wanted to throw up. that made me so freaking mad. he told me he wanted one because he has always kinda liked me. well i told him if he liked me then he wouldnt force me to send something i dont want and will never send. wat should i do? im not going to tell him tha i dont like him and i like im as just part of the family now cuz im pissed at him... maybe later i will. but how would you feel if his happened. and wat should i do?
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Be very clear to him that you love him in one way, and one way only; As a family member. Tell him that you think he's confused, make sure to repeat over and over again that you are his cousin. That's sick. That's unnatural. That's not right. If he persists, tell your parents.
I am afraid you are confused as well. It sounds to me like you are afraid you have feelings for him, but you also know it's not right. It's okay to find him attractive. That does not mean you should pursue any relationship with him whatsoever outside of a family one. Don't forget that.
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Honestly I would tell him how you really feel. Do you have feelings for him? If not you need to tell him this. Let him now the past is the past and you were just a young child then. You love him as family and nothing more than that. Tell him i hope you understand but I would really appricaite if you would stop sending me dirty pictures and if you would quit asking me to send you to them and it makes me uncomfortable. that is what i would do.
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Tell yours and his parents.
xoxo,
dottie4
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just leave it alone and stay away from him for now.
If he says anything else to you like that, then it's time to talk to your parents about it, since you've already made it clear to him that you aren't interested.
He is being extremely inappropriate and you should not put up with it.
You should really just stay away from him though, I know he is your family, but if he keeps being so persistent, he could try to force you to do something. It's better to be safe than sorry.
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Tell your cousin you absolutely do NOT want this type of relationship. Be VERY clear.
If he doesn't listen, talk to other family members and warn them that your cousin is being completely inappropriate.
--Jack
(18/m)
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