i have a "thing" if thats what you want to call it with this guy, we've known each other for like 5 years now. i'm 19f.
i'm a huge flirt .. but i need new things to do because i always feel like i do dumb things. lets say a guy taps your butt gently, what would you do? i panic and smile and say "doooont ;)" but i mean come on.. that may give him the wrong impression i dont like it, right?
i can't really think of anything right now but usually if he will playfully touch me i'll panic and laugh a little and be like "stop:)!"
but i'm done with that childish stuff.. what can i do back to him??
'oooh i kinda like that'
'you like that dont you ?'
'oh come on you can do better than that'
just playful things like that, or you could touch his butt back ! if youve known this kid for 5 years you should be able to be comfortable with him. he prolly wont think anythin you do is stupid, but just try to invite him to do it more ya know ? :) good luck
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ceejay answered Friday November 13 2009, 10:18 am: When he does stuff like tapping your butt and stuff like that, just playfully say "hey, I can get rough too!" and then tap his back.
or like "I'm not gonna lie..I kinda liked that ;]"
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