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My bf fingered me and I have 2 ulcers in my mouth
I have 2 questions to ask you.
1.) I have 2 ulcers on the inside of my upper lip. My bf told me that they came out because of kissing, is it true that if you frenchkiss you can have ulcers? (he doesn't have ulcers in his mouth, so they couldn't be spread from his mouth).
2.) Yesterday my bf fingered me for the first time. He was with the clothes on and he didn't touch his penis, so he couldn't have sperm on his fingers right? His nails were a bit long and he hurt me and also he didn't wash his hands before!!
Next time i'll tell him to cut his nails and wash his hands. What do you think? He only did it once!
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You cant get pregnant from being fingered..
and about your ulcers, umm idk it could be like an std or just an infection but go to the doctor.
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sia basically said everything that needed to be said. I was also going to suggest the salt thing. No pain, no game lol seriously it does help though.
If he didn't touch his penis then he probably didn't have any sperm on his fingers when he touched you. As for the whole nail thing, definitely have your guy cut those things. Longs nails can have dirt under them and he could have scratched inside of there accidentally. Tell him to keep them low and keep them clean. And remind him to wash his hands if he wants to even come near your lady part.
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1)ulcers are soo freakn annoying!they usually apear if youv bit the inside of your lip and then played with it with your tongue then it will get infected and become an ulcer.thats the main reason for an ulcer to appear.if you put salt on the ulcers it will help it heal but might sting.there is also something called bonjella that you can buy that works a charm for ulcers.
2) yeah he wouldnt have sperm on his fingers and even if he did its most likely the sperm would of died before it got near you. yes he really should cut his nails because he could hurt you from inside.
hope this helps
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By ulcers, do you mean cold sores? If you have cold sores, you should refrain from kissing or oral sex until they're completely healed over because they're contagious. You may have contracted them through kissing, but sharing glasses as a kid, face cloths, things like that could also have transmitted it to you.
It's a virus that enters your body and never leaves, and occasionally it can flare up and bother you. See a doctor about getting some treatment to minimize the length of time you have to deal with your sores. Lots of people get cold sores, it's a very, very common issue. It may also be bacterial, fungal, or just a result of not enough fruits and veggies. Your doctor will know for sure.
Now, as for your boyfriend, if you're worried about pregnancy, you will not get pregnant from fingering. It's a safe activity. He would pretty much have to ejaculate all over his finger and insert it into you immediately for it to be a concern.
And yes, I would have him keep clean hands and trim nails before ever allowing him to finger you again.
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Ulcers can happen for a lot of reasons, some of which are: stress, biting your cheeks/lips, lacking certain vitamins, certain medications, etc. They are very common, particularly in children and young people.
Chances are it had nothing to do with the kissing. However, be aware that ulcers are open sores, so if your boyfriend has any nasty bugs floating around in his system you are at increased risk if you kiss him while you've still got them.
Good idea with the short nails and clean hands!! If he didn't touch his penis, and he didn't ejaculate through his pants and then touch them, there was so sperm on his hands. It's a good thing you are thinking about this - and it's always best to try to think things through before you actually get ito the heat of the moment!
It's worth considering why he hurt you - was it just the long nails, or something else? It's common for fingering to be quite sore the first few times, but there are things that can be done to minimize any discomfort. After all, these things are supposed to feel good! Examples are making sure you are really ready (physically and emotionally), using lube, etc.
I wish you the best.
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I've never heard of anyone ever getting an ulcer from kissing. Oral sex maybe but not kissing. I think what you have is a canker sore. They're white & small. They're pretty painful & sting when you're eating ketchup, salt, or other tangy foods.
Because your boyfriend didn't wash his hands before he fingered you, the chances of you getting an infection inside your vagina are high. He should always wash his hands because it's just good hygiene & stuff like that can be prevented. If his nails were long, he may have just scratched you a bit. If you experience any burning sensations while peeing or if you have to use the bathroom a lot, you may have an infection so I would definitely check out a doctor.
Hit up Rite-Aid or Walgreens or whatever for canker sore medicine. And again, if you feel a burning sensation or have frequent urination, hurry & see a doctor because you may have an infection. Have him wash his hands next time he touches you intimately.
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