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I want to make her feel special
If I want my girlfriend to feel special what do I do? I don't date alot of people, I try to keep my life plain and simple but about a two months ago, I met this girl and something amazing clicked in my head and I said, "I want HER". So we have been dating for the past month and I really really want her to know how much I really care about her. I need to know what to do and not make her think that I'm a creep. Will someone please help me?
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Girls are fairly simple to please in the dating scene. We want what all girls want--candy, flowers, and your undivided attention! We want other people to see how much you care about us. We like to be wanted by you.
I'm not sure your age but if you are of working age and you both have jobs then send her a bunch of flowers (her favorite, preferably) to work. This way she can leave them on her desk for all of the women in the office to ask about and notice. It's a nice surprise and I don't think any girl would dislike that unless they were highly allergic to flowers! ;)
Take her out and do something nice with her. Women like to be shown off. Take her out dancing (take some dance lessons with her if needed) or out to a nice restaurant all dressed up. The goal is for her to be seen with her. To show her that you aren't ashamed of her being your girlfriend and that you are proud to show her off as being yours.
Then there's the basics: Take her to a special showing of a movie she loves or has been dying to see. Catch her favorite play that is going on. Surprise her with taking to her a musical she's mentioned before.
Take a walk together around the lake, park, beach, or other outside scenery at dusk. You might want to watch the sunset together. You might want to just walk around and tell her about how happy you are to be with her, how gorgeous she is, and how she's a special woman to you.
Take her out one day to a candy shop and buy her any candy she'd like. Treat her with her favorites and keep note of what she liked so you can pick it up as a surprise another time. ;) Make a day of it and see a movie, too.
Make a mental list of things she really, really likes and try to incorporate them into a surprise for her. Anything works, really. If she absolutely loves one band then try to get her tickets to them. If she really likes vegetarian lasagna then find a nice restaurant around that serves it and take her that (mention the dish when you get there so she knows)! If she's into star gazing then set up a telescope in her yard and invite her outside with you to see the stars together.
You're not going to come off as a creep unless you're pushy about going further or if you start talking about marriage (one month is a bit rushing it, of course). This is really the time where you need to be as romantic as possible so she will be impressed. Prove to her you're interested and you're good to go right now.
I remember in high school girls thought it was sweet when a guy bought his girlfriend a rose each month for this "anniversary" day. For month one, he bought one rose. For month two, he bought two. He went up and on their one year he bought her 12 dozen roses and surprised her with them, as she was expecting just one dozen ;)
If you're broke then make dinner at home for her. Invite her over. Light candles and make something she really enjoys. Have a nice evening and tell her about how happy you are to be with her. After dinner watch a movie you rented that she has wanted to see, really loves, or you think she'll like.
Sounds like you're going to do just great on letting her know that you are very interested in her. It's really simple when it comes to girls, like I said. You'll figure it out, I'm sure :)
P.S. Oh, and, yes, most girls like to be shown affection in public. They like to receive the flowers in front of their friends. They like to be told how much they were missed that day in front of everyone. We like for others to know that we're special to somebody. And to make our friends go, "Awww! I wish my boyfriend was like him! He's so sweet! I'm jealous." ;) It's true!
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