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settling down?
so me and my girlfriend have been fighting for the past few days and she says i need to decide if im ready to settle down and this is what i want because she dont think its what i want. we moved intoour relationship a little fast but at times i do wish i could spend more time with my family she thinks i need to stay with her all the time and gets upset if i leave there early to be with family. at times i do miss being single so i can hang out with family whenever and my mom because I am really close to her but at times i kno i would be so miserable because i do want to be with you and we were planning to move out in 8 months what swhould i do?
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The answer is in your question dear....good luck with that!
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Okk..you need to ask yourself if 1. Do you really want to move-in with her? and 2. Are you happy with her?
If your yes to those questions then great, you just need to tell her how you feel. If she doesnt understand then, well thats her problem and you need to move on. Hopefully she will understand bc you cant be with her 24/7 time apart is good sometimes.
And if your answers are no to my questions, then do not move in with her, and pretty much just end your relationship while you can, b,c honestly it wont be worth it if she is going to be like that. Hope i helped!
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To tell the truth, someone who makes you choose bwteen your family and them is not someone you shoudl be with. and someone who is willing to commit to settling down would not be thinking about being single. You may be miserable at first but all pains eventually heal and you will find someone else who is worthwhile. It seems like she is the one who is not ready to settle down.
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