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okay so i was at my friend's house and her boyfriend was over and his friend was over too. we were watching a movie and his friend (we'll call him mitch) came and sat by me. halfway thru the movie his put his arm around me and like..rubbed his foot on mine. after the movie he said he had to go to sleep cuz he had to work in the morning. he left and then 5 min. later he came back and asked if i wanted to go lay down with him..and...well the bad thing is i did but nothing happened..we just cuddled. i dont even kno his last name. :/ missa 15/f

Naw. That was pretty sweet of him, actually. You could've asked his last name if you're that worried about it. He was just obviously into you, and not just for sex.

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im a girl dating this girl and i broke up with her a few days ago because i felt i wanted something else. now we are back together. a guy asked me if we had broken up like he was interested in me today. then we talked later on the computer and he was like 'i think youre cute and i want to have some fun(sex) with you'. i had a little crush on him before today. ha and actually thought about having sex with him. we both dont like commitment much. he just broke off a long distance relationship. he wants to have a relationship with no strings attached? what sounds like a rational response to this situation? go out with him and dump the girl or does he sound like a decent guy? i find him very sexy so its very tempting for me.

You're asking us if you should make a mistake. It's clearly a mistake, and it clearly won't last, and it's pointless. But if you want to do that then sure. Go for it. We don't know you, we don't care if you get hurt by him. Which will happen.

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i am a single dad of 4 children 3 girls age 9 , 13, 16, and a boy age 8 my sister has been questing my children about me seeing them naked.
i bath my 8, and 9 year old and wash my 13 year old hair the only reason i help my 16 year old is bescause she has 2 broken arms and a broken leg who eles can hekp me

The 16 year old can get the 13 year old to help her or something. Why are you washing your 13 year olds hair? Something about that is just seriously not right. They are women, not children. Even when I was 8 and 9, I was bathing myself. It's not that complicated of a task.

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my mom treats me like iam a baby. I really like this guy named paul he goes to church and when I told him that I needed to think before I went out with him when he asked me out he said take all the time you need that right there shows that he is a good guy but I live with my mom and iam not about to live one my own becout iam learning disabled and I have mental health problems and plus I would probally blow all my moneh and wouldn't have any money to spend on bills so that is iam stuck liviving with my mom becouse iam not capable of living on my own so please don't tell me I can move out becouse I can't. So how can I convince my mom that he his a good guy without her having to meet him becouse the last time she met one of my boyfriends she embarrised me so bad and I jut don't know if I could go through that again.

Your name is Edward isn't it?

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Hey there, I have a 1991 Chevy Camaro RS convertible. Im trying to sell it, and I cleaned it up and everything. But Im not sure where to go that I would get the best results. I was thinking Craigslist.com, but any other ideas??

thankss

where do you live? That's exactly what I'm looking for!

but to answer your question...
www.carsdirect.com
www.autotrader.com
www.cars.com
www.carmax.com

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Ok, so I have a big day tomorrow. PROBLEM: A zit! A big one right in the middle of my forehead and no way to hide it. :( How do you get rid of a pimple overnight? Like while you sleep if possible?

Please help me!

toothpaste toothpaste toothpaste!
I always use toothpaste after I get out of the shower before I go to bed.
The next morning it's goneeeeee.

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okay well for a few years now i have talked to myself..everytime i go in my room ill just blab about what happened that day or make up my own story, i imagine people are there and that for some odd reason i belong to a differnt family ( I Know i sound stupid) Well ill listen to my ipod n jt blab about whatever sometimes while im just sittin on my bed with my laptop ill do it there n actually talk back to myself and picture them there well im 17 now and i reaslized i shouldnt be doin this..when i get caught im soo embarrassed i just wanna die and never speak to anyone again..Please tell me whats wrong with me so i can see a doctor asap thanks=)

Just do it in your head. That's what I do.

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I had two cats, Toby & jack. jack was taken to my moms house for a month now to get fixed and everything... a little after he left, toby has been really affectionate; i dont know if its because he needs me to be like his Jack, because they loved each other.. if not mistaken, they were lovers.. hahah, but why is it that my cat who was never this affectionate before suddenly is? he never even liked being picked up and now he can sleep in my arms..

You obviously did something right. It doesn't have anything to do with the other cat, it has to do with you. I have a cat named Lacey and ever since the day she was born she was really timid and trusted no one. I'd only got to pet her like three times.. until she had kittens when she was about a year old. Ever since then she trusted me. I think it was because I helped her take care of them and I didn't bother her too much or anything. It just changed her view on me. Now she rubs all over me and needs my undivided attention.

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Um. : ( sorry. I don't see to have gotten your friend request.

You commented me..
but it's kay don't worry about it

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i'm getting a new phone for christmas.
and i have a few choices that i can make..

i can choose between the LG Neon, the LG Xenon, the LG Vu, and the Saumsung Propel Pro.

I kinda like the LG Neon..but i'm still not sure if i would still like it a whole lot if I actually got it..
I REALLY like the LG Xenon i love how it has the full keyboard and the touch screen.
The LG Vu, i reaaaallyy like. but my dad says that I would ware it out since i'm an advid texter..
I really like the propel pro..it's got some of the same features that the phone I have now does ( the LG Shine). it's got the joystick and the buttons on the side and everything. but my dad says that since it's a microsoft phone, that it's too much for me to have, since i'm only 15 and have no use for getting on the internet or anything. i'm just a texter..

help?

This isn't going to be much of a help but if I had to choose out of all of those I'd pick the Samsung Propel Pro. Every LG I've had has sucked.

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I have puffy bags under my eyes due to lack of sleep (possibly other reasons). how can i get rid of them? preferably without going out and buying a special cream for it.

14/f btw

thanksss :)

It might be allergies. You could try taking some kind of allergy medicine like Zyrtec or Claritin.

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Post by: Corez3r0

Just as the title asks "Whats your favorite song?" Theres no wrong answers here. : ) Please respond with an artist name and song title. Just one!

(This question will not recieve feedback)

I added you on myspace and you never wrote back! errrr :)

anyway, my favorite song right now is Epiphany by Staind. a few more are Revelry by Kings of Leon, Poison Oak by Bright Eyes, Out Of Gas by Modest mouse, and By My Car by My Morning Jacket.

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This is more of an opinion question I guess, but I have NEVER met a guy that is gorgeous but doesn't know it. I've met a few girls that are really pretty and they are confident and stuff, but theyre not conceited and they dont really realize HOW pretty they are. I just wonder if there are any guys out there like that. It just seems that all the guys that are gorgeous are all into themselves and KNOW they look good. It's different from confidence its self-interest. So I was wondering, do you guys think there are any guys out there that are gorgeous but dont really realize it?

Eh. I know what you mean. The guy I like is gorgeous and he doesn't act conceited but he NEVER cuts himself down or anything. The only guys I know that talk bad about themselves are the guys that really aren't all that cute. I think that the only guys out there that are gorgeous but don't realize it, are the ones that are gorgeous in their own way. Like not all muscular and etc.

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Ok. my bf and i have been together for over a year. and well, now that we've gotten so close he's started to let his manners and thoughtfulness slide. example: the other day i was asking him to take me out for dinner to celebrate how long we've been together, and he just blew me off and told me i wasnt that important and we could just eat sandwiches at home. and i have an inclination that he might be cheating. i was looking at his text messages the other day, and some girl ( im not going to say her name) has been texting him talking about her sexual desires with him. and when i confronted him about it he slapped me and told me i was a nosy bitch. ugh i know i should dump him and move on, but i really and truly care for him. he's the first boyfriend i've ever had that i've actually loved.

what should i do?

This may not sound like a good idea to you, but this is what I would do. Next time he does something unacceptable like hitting you, leave and ignore him for awhile. Don't give in and apologize no matter what you do. Give him some time to realize he's not treating you right and he needs to change if he wants you. And you need to realize he's been with you for over a year. He might tell you he doesn't care, and other hateful things in response to you ignoring him, but he won't mean them. You just have to ignore them.

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Hey!
Are there any sites like ebay where there is no shipping cost, or hardly any at all??
I love to shop online but I really HATE shipping costs.
Because there was this one site where I found a necklace which was 10 cents but the shipping costs were nine dollars...thats a kinda huge difference form the price itself....
Thank you!

http://www.retailmenot.com/

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Uhm, this is weird... but what are some song about drugs?
Like, for example.
"We are all on drugs" -Weezer
"Smoke it" -The Dandy Warhols
"I Take Drugs" -Murderdolls
"Bucket Bong" -Frenzal Rhomb.

Yeah, don't ask why.

Amphetamines

"Artificial Energy" by The Byrds
"Brain Stew" by Green day
"Doctor Jimmy and Mr Jim" by The Who
"Geek Stink Breath" Green day
"Amphetamine Addiction" The Zero Boys
"Amphetamine" — Everclear
"Amphetamine Logic" — The Sisters of Mercy
"Artificial Energy" — The Byrds
"Bat Country" — Avenged Sevenfold
"Amphetamine Annie" — Canned Heat
"Benny" — Truck Stop Love (Benzedrine)
"Bethamphetamine" — Butch Walker
"Black Betty" — Ram Jam
"Deathamphetamine" — Exodus
"The Crystal Ship" — The Doors
"Cut My Hair" — The Who
"Dark Entries" — Bauhaus
"Drug Me" — The Dead Kennedys
"The Drug Song" — Leftover Crack
"Felix in the Sky" — Silke Bischoff
"Go Or Go Ahead" — Rufus Wainwright (crystal meth)
"Helmet in the Bush" — Korn (methamphetamine)
"Here Comes the Nice" — Small Faces
"I'm One" — The Who (comedown from amphetamine)
"I Hold Her" — Bonnie McKee
"Jerk It Out" — Caesars (possibly about (meth) amphetamine)
"Let's Speed" — Angelic Upstarts
"Letter From Belgium" — The Mountain Goats (crystal meth)
"Logic" — The Sisters of Mercy
"Losing My Ground" — Fergie
"Meditations On Speed" — Lilys
"Methadonia" — Fun Lovin' Criminals (methamphetamine)
"Methamphetamine" — EyeHateGod
"Methamphetamine" — Son Volt
"Methamphetamine Blues" — Mark Lanegan
"Mother's Little Helper" ---- The Rolling Stones
"Motorhead" — Hawkwind, Motörhead, Primal Scream
"New Amphetamine Shriek" — Fugs
"Number of the Beast" — Zwan (methamphetamine)
"On the Tweek Again" — Primus (methamphetamine)
"Overdrive" — Katy Rose
"Palmcorder Yajna" — The Mountain Goats (crystal meth)
"Raw Power" — Iggy and the Stooges
"Return to Oz" — Scissor Sisters (methamphetamine)
"Semi-Charmed Life" — Third Eye Blind (methamphetamine)
"Sheila" — Jamie T
"Shoot Speed, Kill Light" — Primal Scream
"Sinaloa Cowboys" — Bruce Springsteen (cooking meth)
"Six Days on the Road" — Earl Green
"SpeedKing" — These Animal Men
"The Speed of Pain" — Marilyn Manson (methamphetamine)
"St. Ides Heaven" — Elliott Smith
"Strawberry Flats" — Little Feat
"Superjudge" — Monster Magnet (methamphetamine)
"Teenage World" — The Mountain Goats (Dexedrine)
"Those Damned Blue-Collar Tweekers" — Primus (methamphetamine)
"Totally Wired" — The Fall
"Truckdrivin' Neighbors Downstairs (Yellow Sweat)" — Beck
"Turn the Page" — Bob Seger
"Wasted" — Kottonmouth Kings
"White Light/White Heat" — Velvet Underground
"Who Put the Benzedrine in Mrs. Murphy's Ovaltine?" — Harry 'The Hipster' Gibson
"Worst Hangover Ever" — The Offspring
"Velocity Girl" — Snow Patrol

Cocaine

"Cocaine" by Eric Clapton
"Cocaine Blues" by The Memphis Jug Band
"Moonlight Mile" by The Rolling Stones
"Snowblind" by Black Sabbath
"Summer of Drugs" by Victoria Williams
"This Cocaine Makes Me Feel Like I'm On This Song" by System Of A Down
"White Light/White Heat" by The Velvet Underground
"Ayo for Yayo" by Andre Nickatina
"Crack Raider Razor" by Andre Nickatina
"I Need Drugs" by Nercro
"Sanctified" by Nine Inch Nails
"2 Hookers and an 8 Ball" - Mindless Self Indulgence
"8 ball" — Underworld
"A Bird In The Hand" — Ice Cube
"A line allows progress, a circle does not" — Bright Eyes
"Almost Lost" — InMe
"A Long Way Down" - Eric Smith
"Accuracy" — The Cure
"Addiction" — Kanye West
"Adrenaline" — Rosetta Stone
"All Down The Line" — The Rolling Stones
"Ayo for Yayo" — Andre Nickatina
"Bales of Cocaine" — Reverend Horton Heat
"Baltimore Love Thing" — 50 Cent
"Bananas and Blow" — Ween
"Big Shot" — Billy Joel
"Bikeage" — The Descendents
"Black Horse Riding Star" — Scarling.
"Blinded by the Light" — Bruce Springsteen, covered by Manfred Mann
"Bonnie Brae" - The Twilight Singers
"Bouncing Off The Walls" — Sugarcult
"Brain Stew" — Green Day
"Breakfast in Vegas" — Praga Khan
"Biting My Nails" — Renegade Soundwave
"Cake" — Lloyd Banks
"Caina" — Ruben Blades
"Can't You Hear Me Knocking" — Rolling Stones
"Casey Jones" — the Grateful Dead
"Champagne Days, Cocaine Nights" — Abe Duque
"Charlie Freak" — Steely Dan
"Chattanooga Sugar Babe" — Johnny Cash
"China Girl" — David Bowie/Iggy Pop
"City of Dope" — Too Short
"Cigarettes & Alcohol" — Oasis
"Close to the Edge" — Yes
"Cocaine" — Yakooza
"Cocaine and Camcorders" — UNKLE with South "Cocaine & Gin" — Death in Vegas "Cocaine & Toupees" — Mindless Self Indulgence "Cocaine Blues" — written by TJ Arnall, originally recorded by Roy Hogsed and later by Johnny Cash ( Listen?) and Hank Williams III

"Cocaine Blues" — Luke Jordan, covered later by David Bromberg
"Cocaine Blues", a traditional song recorded by the Reverend Gary Davis, Bob Dylan, Dave van Ronk, Nick Drake, Johnny Cash, Jackson Browne, and Townes Van Zandt among others.
"Cocaine Blues" — The Warlocks, as distinct from other songs with same title
"Cocaine Business" — Noreaga
"Cocaine Bizznizz" — The Prophet
"Cocaine Cowboys" — W.A.S.P.
"Cocaine Cowgirl" — Matt Mays
"Cocaine **** Numb" — Meat Shits
"Cocaine Decisions" — Frank Zappa
"Cocaine Dreams" — 50 Cent ft. G-Unit
"Cocaine Habit" - Old Crow Medicine Show
"Cocaine Habit Blues" — Memphis Jug Band, also by The Grateful Dead and Old Crow Medicine Show
"Cocaine in my Brain" — Dillinger
"Cocaine Rodeo" — Mondo Generator
"Cocaine Sex" — Renegade Soundwave
"Cocaine Socialism" — Pulp
"Da Blow" — Lil Jon
"Dandy In The Underworld" — T. Rex
"Deep Pile Dreams" — Ian Brown
"Der Kommissar" — Falco
"Devil's Haircut" — Beck (hallucinating)
"Die High" — Clawfinger
"Don't Sniff Coke" — Pato Banton
"Don't Stop Me Now" — Queen
"Dope Boy Magic" — Young Joc
"Dopeman" — N.W.A.
"The Dope Show" — Marilyn Manson
"Down In A Rabbit Hole" — Bright Eyes
"Draggin' The Line" — Tommy James & The Shondells
"Dr. Feelgood" — Mötley Crüe
"Drug Ballad" — Eminem
"Drugs are Good" — NOFX
"C'mere" - Interpol
"Cocaine (We're All Going to Hell) - Strata
"Cokane" — Warp Brothers
"Coke N'" — Izzy Stradlin
"Cold Blooded" — Rick James, later covered by Ol' Dirty Bastard
"Coma White" — Marilyn Manson
"Come Undone" — Robbie Williams
"Commercial for Levi" — Placebo
"Cool The Engines" — Boston
"Cot' Damn" — Clipse
"Cowgirl" — Underworld
"Crack Attack" — Fat Joe
"Crack City Rockers" - Leftover Crack
"Crack Cocaine" — Pork Dukes
"Crack in the Egg" — GWAR
"Crack Rock" — Koffin Kats
"Crack Rock Steady" — Choking Victim
"Crazy Rap" — Afroman
"Crawling" - Linkin Park
"Rest My Chemistry" - Interpol

Ecstasy

"A Little Bit of Ecstasy" (Ecstasy)
"Erotic City" by Prince (musician) (Ecstasy)
"Ecstasy" by Bone Thugs N Harmony
"Ebeneezer Goode" by The Shamen

Heroin

"Heroin" by Lou Reed
"Heroin Dreams" by Life Of Agony
"Hurt" by Nine Inch Nails
"Coral Fang" by The Distillers
"Mr.Self Destruct" by Nine Inch Nails


LSD

"Acidman" by Jolly Roger
"5D (Fifth Dimension)" by The Byrds
"The Acid Commercial" by Country Joe and the Fish
"Fairies Wear Boots" by Black Sabbath
"Incense and Peppermints" by Strawberry Alarm Clock
"Legend of a Mind" by The Moody Blues
"Mr Tambourine Man" by Bob Dylan
"Tomorrow Never Knows" by The Beatles
"White Bird" by The Incredible String Band
"White Rabbit" by Jefferson Airplane
"Lucy in the Sky with Diamonds" The Beatles

Marijuana

"Got to Get you Into my Life" by The Beatles
"Purple Haze" by The Jimi Hendrix Experience
"Smoke 2 Joints" by Bob Marley
"I Love you Mary Jane" by Cypress Hill
"Hits From the Bong" by Cypress Hill
"Sweet Leaf" by Black Sabbath
"Bin Laden Weed" by Three Six Mafia
"Weed Has Got Me High" by Three Six Mafia
"Where da bud at" by Three Six Mafia
"Where is da bud" by Three Six Mafia
"Weed Song" by Bone Thugs N Harmony
"Why do I stay High" by Bone Thugs N Harmony
"Bud Smokers Only" by Bone Thugs N Harmony
"Buddha Lovaz" by Bone Thugs N Harmony
"Smoke Weed and Mantain" by Bone Thugs N Harmony
"Smokin Buddha" By Krayzie Bone
"Blaze It" By Krayzie Bone
"Fried Day" by Bizzy Bone
"Because I got high" by Afroman
"Mary Jane's Last Dance" by Tom Petty
"Burn One Down" by Ben Harper

Various drugs
"Cigarettes and Alcohol" by Oasis (Alcohol, Nicotine, Cocaine)
"Feel Good Hit of the Summer" by Queens of the Stone Age (Nicotine, Valium, Vicodin, Marijuana, Ecstacy, Alcohol, Cocaine)
"Sister Morphine" by The Rolling Stones
"Superhuman" by Velvet Revolver (Cocaine, Alcohol)

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my sister went to the hospital last night becouse her back and her stomack was hurting her really badly and the doctor at the hospital said that she had cists on both of her overies and that they could be cancer and I don't know what to do iam really worried some thoughts of encourgement or advice would be helpful if you have any it would be greatly appreciated.

Thank you I greatly appreciate it.

My mom's had them and so has my best friend's sister. I don't really think they're that big of a deal.

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So my friend asks me for homework which i really worked on really hard. I was stupid enough to give it to her. She didn't even thank me! I was really mad at her at that time. Then, after half an hour. she replies "thnx. i didn't really need it. it was for someone else who needed the homework"
1) i know that i shouldn't have given my homework...but is this a good friend or not.. I'm gonna ignore her tomorrow..so that she knows that I didn't like what she had done.
she never even told me that she was gona give it to someone else!

Okay. You're going to ignore her. What's the question?

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16/f

When I become hurt, it’s usually caused by the feeling that someone is leaving or abandoning me. It’s much like those feelings that come to you your first time lost in a store as a child. Those gut wrenching feelings that indicate to you that you’re alone and have nowhere to go. It’s this feeling, the feeling you feel when you’ve lost all hope and are left hopeless and defenseless, that overwhelms me. I become mute and regress back into a child; a child that can no longer decide for themselves and one which searchers eagerly for some sort of substance to rely upon.

It’s times like this where I make the wrong choices. I become so focused on finding some sort of release that I make rash decisions; decisions which do not normally reflect me and decisions which I then lament for days. It’s not a matter of morals. My morality and ethics lose all validity and in no way dictate the actions I take. (for example, i'll finally find someone but they'll have the wrong intentions but i become so emotional that i go with it.) I become numb.

This release I get, it’s like a drug. When I don’t have it, I fall into withdrawal. I lose all coherencies and break down into tears for hours. Many times I’ll cry until late in the morning.
During one of these rare withdrawal outbreaks I’ll normally attempt to drown myself out with music. I’ll lie in bed, listening to music and bawl.The pain I go through is agenizing. “Why does everyone keep leaving me?” I ask myself wanting to, simultaneously, to hurt my, self loathing, self pitying self, while grasping myself tightly in search of comfort. It's like as if I'm having a mental breakdown. I wonder what it is that I do that keeps driving people away. "They only reason they have to leave me is if I disappoint them or do something wrong."

I’ll continue this until my body becomes weak and it becomes difficult to continue on. The irrepressible rapidity of my breathing overwhelms me to the extent where I eventually pass out. When I awake, I’ll either continue on from where I last left off or sleep it off and learn to repress my ill feelings and move on begrudgingly though my daily routine, acting as if nothing had ever happened.

I went to a therapist not long ago and ended up bawling. She never aknowledged the fact that I might have abandonment issues being that I'm adopted but at the moment I feel extremely overwhelmed and need help.

Please some advice. thank you.

Worst advice ever..
You have every reason to rate me a 1.

But I just want you to know you're not alone. I feel the same way. I was pretty shocked when reading that. Right now I'm single but my ex asks me to hang out at least twice a week and I alway says yes, just because I feel like I need it. But I always know what's going to happen the day after we hang out. He pretends like it never happened, and he leaves me again. He leaves me everyday. I'm sorry that I don't know what to say to you, I just want you to know you're not alone.

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Okay so there's this party going on this Saturday and all the seniors are going including myself and I have TO LOOK absolutely fabulous and hot. I'm going with the whole sexy blonde vixen/new girl look. Anyways I've limited my dress options and I just wanna hear what you guys think. The occasion is just a house party with beer pong, keg stands probably, and I have no idea what else so its pretty casual. But I still wanna stand out from the rest of the girls in a good way.

Dress Options:

1) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=449976&CategoryID=14961&LinkLoc=2914&LinkType=SiteAd&AdID=15094&PageID=14953*1*24*-1*-1*1

2) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=449974&CategoryID=14961&LinkLoc=2914&LinkType=SiteAd&AdID=15094&PageID=14953*1*24*-1*-1*1

3) http://www1.bloomingdales.com/catalog/product/index.ognc?ID=441453&CategoryID=14961&PageID=14953*8*24*-1*-1*1

I think I'm going to pair it with some classic YSL Pumps:
http://www.ysl.com/us/en/onlineBoutique/Women/Shoes/P-Tribute%20Platform%20Patent%20Slingback.aspx

Here's a photo of me also so you guys can see which dress would look great on me:

http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab4/lexiegoesrawr/?action=view¤t=5610_101094269905692_10000015357728.jpg

http://s844.photobucket.com/albums/ab4/lexiegoesrawr/?action=view¤t=5610_101094186572367_10000015357728.jpg

I'd say 1 or 3. 3 is kind of too dressy for getting drunk, so I'd go with 1. 2 is like too businessish for my liking. Nice choice of shoes, though. Have fun!

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